gasp...no..probably not..sounds romantic,though..

my brother and his wife only knew each other for two weeks, got married
and theyve been together for 19 years.

i dont know, j, its not that easy sometimes...kids are a big reason
couples stay together..money..religion..

yes, i believe that it is definately selfish to hold on to someone that
way, but selfish to who? both parties, i think.. he/she is being selfish
not only to the other person but to him/herself also. dont you think?

hi king! omg..seems like a question that i would be asking you..hoping
that you could share your wisdom with me.lol

the first thing that comes to my mind is dependency/codependency
issues..its hard for many people to let go and move on..even if they're
miserable..

i guess that it's possible to have a relationship like that, BUT
certainly not a healthy one!

some people fear change! letting go of a person that we love or at one
time loved is having the courage and strength to leave that person
behind..and no, we arent being disloyal by doing so.

i could go on and on!! haha

in your topic headline you say "2 strongest emotions"..love and hate?
or???

well arent you the philosopher now, girl, hahahaha just teasin with
ya..got your email..ur right..and talk to ya later..

oh, hun, i say move on..but easier said than done, i know. my babys dad
claims to love me and wants to be with me and our son, but he sees other
women..it hurts so bad..the pain of being abandoned, unloved and
unwanted by the father of your child...there is no other pain like it, i
know..and you just keep hopin and dreamin and wishin that things will
change..but they arent going to..its just a matter of letting go and
moving on..if you figure out how to do it..let me know..((((hugs))))

thank you..its working, now! :)

hahaha

have you ever looked on your profile and clicked on "added me as
favorites" ?? i just did that...a tad creepy..lol..

ive been thinking about your original post all day..the last
paragraph..specifically the last sentence.."and you wonder what about
you is so awful that they couldnt at least pretend to Love you". sigh

well, i love fall in the midwest..thats where im from..i live in texas
now, and its just not the same..

i love being able to wear blue jeans and sweatshirts and going for walks
with my sweetie, hearing the leaves rustle under our feet..going to the
apple orchard, picking apples, drinking warm cidar and eating delicious
cidar donuts..mmmm...

the beautiful colors of the leaves changing and the smell of the
air...football games and hot chocolate..

being able to open up the windows and a light breeze flowing in, after
having the air conditioner on all summer..

just naming a few...fall is my favorite time of the year..

lol..ok

haha every topic leads to sex around here..werent we talking about fall?
somehow jumped to masturbating..and on gterry's heartwarming post..lol

omg! what a joke!! those kind of scammers are easy to spot, with those
big red flags wavin'...

we have to watch out for the little ones too, though..go with your gut,
ya know..

i had a delicious looking man email me today to let him know if i needed
any help with my baby.."HELLO? You dont even know me!" ..thats just a
bit too forward for my liking!! lol

hey chica!

good girl, j!

sorry j, but i didnt even have to read the entire letter..hes a
scammer..keep movin on..

i have a problem with that too, bliss..

love him and let yourself be loved..it sounds wonderful..enjoy!!

good analogy

mmm yeah, i want me a firefighter..lol

so u all probably already saw the headlines today..US Fatalities in War
Exceed 911..