ok i need help.i have my babys dad well not no more hes with his ex and
i have been talking to someone on here that thow i havent seen him yet
im falling for him and we spend most of the day every day on the phone i
want to go meet him so bad but im not shur if i shuld wate to see if the
babys dad leaves her and comes back to me or if i shuld move on.its been
a year since me and the babys dad have been togther.

help me WHAT DO I DO?

oh, hun, i say move on..but easier said than done, i know. my babys dad
claims to love me and wants to be with me and our son, but he sees other
women..it hurts so bad..the pain of being abandoned, unloved and
unwanted by the father of your child...there is no other pain like it, i
know..and you just keep hopin and dreamin and wishin that things will
change..but they arent going to..its just a matter of letting go and
moving on..if you figure out how to do it..let me know..((((hugs))))

Hey Hotmomma....I would say if the ex moved on and went back to his
ex...then girl you should just move on! I think I would take things very
slow though, its nice to have someone to talk to, but I wouldn't just
jump right into it.
But, I wouldn't sit around at home waiting for the ex hubby to come back
home either--if its been a year already....move on! Obviously, hes not
worried about you and the children...and besides if he could find
someone that easily, would you really trust him in the end?

It's easy...but how can you love a guy (yes you had a baby with) keep
coming back to tell you he loves you and the baby and wants to be with
you..but YET goes right behind your back to look at and see other women
and be with THEM instead of you...

Wow...that just shows you soooo much how he luvs you and his
child...it's a total MIND CLUSTER FUCK I call it and I have been threw a
couple of those from women and ladies and don't wish to go threw the
crap anymore and bullshit games...I say move on with your life girl and
think about your son or baby and FIND somebody who WILL love you and
your baby just as you are and leave the bullshit and fakes out your
life...

There's a guy's perspective...but I don't have all thee answers and
don't know what to say to make you feel better...it can't be
helped...there's plenty of great guy out there for you just waiting to
sweep you off of your feet...

thank you all for your replies i aprecate it

It's always difficult to leave something behind that you care about.
But deep down you know what's best for you and your baby. Don't waste
anymore of your precious time HM.

I wish you the best

J

It is time to move on. You can't put your life on hold
in the HOPE that someone who in fact is dissing you
comes back. Why would you want him back anyway?

I agree you just move on because he has and he's not the less consider
your feels ,so go for your you will find someone a whole lot better:)

YOU should go and see him....WILL

Move on, change is good.

A Russian proverb:
A little revolution now and then is good.

go forward......one step at time