i wondered too...

after reading this, all ive got to say is that i better find a man
quick, while my boys are still little..yikes

sounds wonderful..where do i sign up? sigh

omg wilro, you sound like such an angry person. and to generalize the
way you are doing portrays you as such an uneducated, immature, and yes,
racist, individual. your posts come across so harsh in what i have found
to be such a warm and friendly environment. lighten up a bit!

the picture is fine, honeyrobber, really..i feel rotten that i teased
you about it. i apologize!

i dont know how to help..maybe the person that took the pics was
shaking. the key is to not shake when you take a picture. i once read a
long time ago, "hold your breath when taking a picture to avoid shaking"
very helpful hint. as for the flash, i dont know.

night~

well, i tend to be a bit possessive, jealous and dramatic when it comes
to my man..try to stifle it as much as possible..i know it can cause
damage to the relationship..

i'm sure that some are more than others..you can probably tell in the
beginning..watch out for the ones that call all the time and dont want
you to go out with your friends..ack u dont need that needy clinginess
either..

anyway, to answer your question..its an individual preference dont you
think?

i like fyresyren's answer..

good luck! you'll find the one perfect for you!

yeah well thats me..overanalyzing..haha

ur right, unsure..alot of them are cheaters..

my bd once told me that there would be ho's, ho's and more ho's but only
one babys mama.. he told me i should feel privilaged..haha..that this is
the custom..he's from el salvador, btw. he still tells me that i am
number one..that he will allow no mistresses to bad mouth me..see, so
even though he cheats on me he still makes me feel special..sick,
huh..got way off topic, i know..thought i had gotten out of the
relationship, but i'm sinking back into it..

they are definately intoxicating..

oh and dakota, you have such a sweet warm personality..hugs to you
to..you have been so blessed to have 5 boys..arent they wonderful..i
have three little boys..so i have yet to do the teen years..i always
wanted six children, so i'm halfway there!lol

you know, that really is beautiful scenery..i love the outdoors
also..unfortunately i live in a subdivison with dinky little trees..in
fact i only have one tree in my yard and i'm taller than it is..lol

so is that real close by to your house? very pretty.

honeyrobber, could they stand any further back to take the pic..lol..i'm
just teasing..

i didnt realize that you are only 18, rosiem! omg drop him...you dont
need no baby mama drama!

omg..hispanic men..i dont know if i can ever have any other..my hispanic
bd and i made a beautiful baby..did we not?!?!? see my pic

i dont drink coffee, but i love the smell of it brewing..eww but i hate
the smell of it on someones breath..ack

oops..i opened a can of worms? gosh..those newbies..lol

so what do you all think about this? how much should we analyze what
someone has said, especially during an important conversation..or a
heart to heart kinda conversation or email..if they had a freudian
slip..hahaha for example i just typed slop instead of slip..


anyone?

how come some of you dont post pics? just curious..

country music, here! yep, hop into my truck barefoot, roll the windows
down and crank country..

hahaha wizard, i had to laugh at your reply..the three c's..lol

oh gosh, rosiem..i know how you are feeling..its so hard isnt it..i
never thought that i would be one of those women that gets stuck in an
unhealthy relationship..when ya love em its hard to let go..i told my
man (we have a 9mo baby together) that i'm going to start dating too,
(well, cheating really, i found out from his cell phone and his
email)..well early this morning he told me that if i start dating theres
absolutely no chance of us ever getting back together..sigh..now i'm
scared to let go..what if im never ga-ga, school girl crazy in love like
this ever, ever again?! sigh..didnt mean to hijack your thread, just
wanted to say that i know what you are feeling and that its all easier
said than done..

oh, and unsure, that would be wonderful if one could give themselves
time to heal, find out what they want, and who they are, before getting
involved in another relationship. it seems a very healthy way to do
things. but, unfortunately, sometimes alot of us have to climb from one
boat to the next..ya know..

thank you!