Community > Posts By > katydid34

 
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Fri 03/21/08 03:12 PM
Sure opposites may attract but they can also repel at times.

So true. :(

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Fri 03/21/08 02:27 PM
Nice! :)

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Fri 03/21/08 12:42 PM

im sorry, i retract my earlier comment, it was uncalled for and was meant 'tongue in cheek'.

i hope he is just 'busy with other things', maybe you need to give him the benefit of the doubt there and assume he is.

good luck :smile: flowerforyou


love

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Fri 03/21/08 12:08 PM
Edited by katydid34 on Fri 03/21/08 12:09 PM

if ya didnt put out on the first date, why should he come back for more???


I'm going to assume that's a joke. And if she did put out on the first date, it would only send him away, because most guys don't want to date a slut.

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Fri 03/21/08 12:07 PM

He could just be busy. You had a good date. I wouldn't stress too much about it or you'll talk yourself right out of it. Or turn into that desperate clingy chick which is no fun.

As for guys being chickens....if they really like you, they're not. And being divorced or what not, just means they're probably leary of the dating scene. Been burned once and all that. And probably not into drama.

Just relax. Find something else to do with your time to keep you busy until he does call. Otherwise, you're conversation will probably lose the ease and simplicity it had.

Good luck!


I second that. he could be busy. There's this guy I used to talk to every night all night long and one day he told me he couldn't do that anymore because he needed to get his life in order. I miss talking to him, but I respect the fact he has other priorities besides talking to me. Also, you have to consider that time is different for everyone, he might not think it's been a long time since he talked to you. People- not just men- are strange.

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Fri 03/21/08 11:06 AM

Hmmmm he was 13 years younger too. He spent 4 months convincing me to go out with him, I knew it wasn't going to work, but it's hard to resist that kind of attention from a young attractive guy .


Yep, that makes it difficult. Oh well, live and learn. If you learn from mistakes, you can prevent the same thing from happening again. Hopefully.

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Fri 03/21/08 10:47 AM

hes divorced as well, makes me kind of really dislike women who treat their men, or vice versa, like crap cause then they ruin it for the good ones out here.the guys all think women are gonna cheat etc because their ex did...hate that shyt!!!!!!! sorry, but its hard to even find a man whos never been married either to start completely new...

just frustrated with this dating thing....thanks for your kind words everyone...

chick...chick...chickens!!!!!!!

i know its early on this one, but when i tell you it was a great date, im talking the best ive ever had.simple n sweet and natural...the way it should be....


Maybe he's scared of commitment? I've met lots and lots of men like that. Sucks, but possible. Good luck.

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Fri 03/21/08 09:42 AM
Well, also you have to consider the fact that lots of younger guys just aren't as mature as older women. Which isn't a bad thing. They're mature for women their own age.

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Fri 03/21/08 09:37 AM

There were many issues on both sides,he was 9 years younger,was still at home.his sister's didn't care for me,my sons didn't care for him.they called him a loser.He was a liar.would walk out the door whenever he felt like it.had a drinking problem.still had alot of growing up to do. Only man that I loved with all my heart and soul. Lesson Stay Away From Younger Guys.Been 3 yrs but the lesson is still fresh.


Yep. The older-young thing never worked for me either. But some women have good results for some reason....

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Fri 03/21/08 09:36 AM

Well,mine ended cause im in love with somebody else,and i wont give anyone else a cnance...


I've been in that situation. It's good you ended it then, some people insist on staying with people, knowing full well they're in love with someone else. Not fair to the other person. So good for you! :)

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Fri 03/21/08 09:31 AM
After the insect, and the age I was when I created this account.

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Fri 03/21/08 09:30 AM

And I listen to punk music, wear my hair up in many different spikes, and on occasion I like to dabble in a bit of tattooing myself drunk...oh and I drink, smoke, and smoke...


Shrugs. I'm sure some women like that.

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Fri 03/21/08 09:29 AM

my last relationship ended when my beloved went back to his wife.

What I would do differently? avoid married men.


Umm, yeah that might be a good idea.

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Fri 03/21/08 09:23 AM

whats hard is making sure the other person falls in love with u as much as u feel for them


I agree.

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Fri 03/21/08 01:09 AM



OK, A couple of days ago my now ex left me a voice mail on my cell saying it was over and left no reason 4 doing this. Then calls me back and tells me that he didn't mean it that he was mad.Should I leave him or forgive him and go back?

are you crazy??? why would you even consider taking him back??? omg i just don't get it

IDk either. I guess because there not very suitable (Sp) men in my town.


Been there, done that. But yeah, you're better off alone. Being hurt is no fun. Good luck

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Thu 03/20/08 02:54 PM
gawd

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Thu 03/20/08 02:46 PM

Im 18 and the 2 criteria i have about dating is that girls are around my age and dont have kids, i dont think id wanna date the kinda gal who got pregnant at 15, In a decade from now dating women my age with kids wont be an issue but now? NO WAY


Good idea.

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Thu 03/20/08 02:38 PM


happy OK Fear What makes you a bad boy?


Really long story...short version: I skateboard, which in turn makes me a bad guy...go ahead ask all the parents of the kids in suburbia, they'll tell you I'm a bad guy...for riding a piece of wood with wheels. Society may never change on this one I'm afraid.


Lifts left eyebrow.

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Thu 03/20/08 01:08 PM

Most single women come with children and men need to understand they are a package deal. If they run away they were not the one for you anyway. When you least expect it Mr. Wonderful will come along.flowerforyou


LOL, I'm a single woman and I don't have kids. So say "some" single women, not "most." :)

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Thu 03/20/08 09:25 AM

I ended up going on a date with a girl i met from Yahoo personals shortly after I moved here..... she was trying a little too hard to get me to bring her to my place. I found out why the next day (no, she didn't go back to my place, I ditched her at her car)... it turns out she was homeless.

Dodged that bullet


That's sad. Poor girl. :(

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