if he prefers to spend time on the computer and not spend it her then I say he is immature and does't deserve her

In my experience most men want a woman with a nice body that is not over like a size 8. Most men see the outside of a woman and don't look deep enough to see what is inside and then they miss out on those of us that don't have that perfect body but have more heart than he could ever ask for.

If you have to ask, then is the relationship worth saving. Eventually the more people talk the closer they come, then the feelings start between them. Then they are tempted to act. So, yes, it is cheating.

Don't mean to break out the bible on you but yes, if you lust after someone it's adultery without even doing anything

It has happened to me in a relationship where he was unfaithful not by physically being with someone, however his sexual appetite for adult online entertainment hurt me worse than if I had found him in bed with someone else.

It's cheating, and to the man who spoke of the hustler mag....men are very visual creatures by nature and I wouldn't mind a mag every now, also man, get real, it's a magazine picture, what is the likelihood of you even being with that woman, that's more of a fantasy issue unless the other half finds it unacceptable then something needs to be worked out or just out right ended.

For me though, to do it with someone online.... isn't acceptable...this person needs to get up enough guts to break off the relationship and find out what this person wants and needs or discuss the situation with their partner and try to find a compromise so that there is more time being spent together to fulfill the needs of both people in the situation.....just my opinion.

Is looking at a hustler magazine and relieving your tension cheating also? Lookin at a girl through a camera is kinda like looking at one in a magazine that's been snapshotted through a camera. Not much difference.

Wow 8 pages! That's a lot of cheating!

I know to let her do her own thing...I am doing that. It is just this seemed to really creep up and bite me on the arse. I was the first person she told and I supported her.. Well I guess your siblings can't love ya forever!

My 2 cents worth is you can look at the menu as long as you don't order. And that's all I got to say about that.

yeh i appreciate all of u guys input, but i mean what if i am really into her friend? would i wanna risk out on something great just because i was too scared to lose a friend? oh and i would like to point out that floridakendra your cute lol. but seriously idk... either way i guess i got a lot of thinkin to do.

Someone slipped something into my drink onetime. I have no clue what happened but i woke up with my friend and her husband. I Havent spoken to either since.

Wow!! Is this REALLy a "valid" question???

Has things gone this far in our society that people put up "paper walls" to try to fool themselves?

It's like a woman had been having oral sex with tons of men, but could "technically" proclaim she was a virgin.

Sorry folks..but in my opinion...that's just STUPID!

I guess in your heart you think it is or you wouldn't be asking.