im wondering, do you think it might be a little easyier for you to get a penpal, and then go from there.. as you dont have a problem writing so having a penpal you can express whatever you want That's a good idea. Then they can set up a meeting time and place eventually. Really good idea! |
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break up via email
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Well - someone else mentioned it - but worth mentioning it again. Yeah - it sucks. But then - she had to send a 'Dear John" letter via email. Methinks there is more than one issue there - and you are dodging a bullet you don't need. Kick the can around the block, hands in pockets, head down for a day or two - then be happy and motor on. Some pretty decent folks are out there. I agree, mourn her and move on. |
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So go for it, just walk up to one and say hi. I'm sure she won't bite you or anything. When she says hi back, ask how it's going. When she answers that, maybe ask her what she's into. Just make conversation. Once you do it once, it won't be hard. Women don't bite unless you ask them to or unless you tell us that our pants make us look fat. :0
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Imagine you have a roommate
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I would clean it, I'm not going to leave my house like that... then I would remind them why they are no longer my roommate I couldn't have said it better. |
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Not to be rude, but if you would just go up to a girl and say hi, instead of repeating yourself on here, you might have found one already. You have to get out there, no one is going to knock on your door while you type to us on here.
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I don't get it.
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break up via email
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I agree, it's best she's upfront with you. As for the email vs. phone, I prefer email for two reasons, I hate talking on the phone, and it's easier to write some things down than to say them, you don't have any interruptions, for one thing. Sorry it didn't work out, but if she needs time alone, it's best to respect her wishes and give it to her. Good luck in the future.
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I am a writer
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Are you Vanilla Ice's little brother...? yea they call me lil ice LOL, hello lil ice |
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I am a writer
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Michigan
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Should be lots going on in Detroit- big city. I live in a dinky town that pretends to be a city, so I'm sure there's nothing thrilling here.
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Michigan
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You might want to narrow it down by city- it's a pretty big state.
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yep you can. in fact if you get a blood test within the first 2weeks it would show up as in a urine test it takes over 6weeks... i have known many that have gotten pg even on the devo shot so no birth control is 100% postive Abstinence is 100% fullproof birth control!!!! Yep, that's my fav! |
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Would you date...
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No. I don't like sloppy seconds.
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Random girl
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I want to know how she would react to this We can't speak for every woman, everyone is different. I'm leery of strangers, but not everyone is. Good luck, like they said, all she can do is say no. |
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new to this
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Hi, hope you find what you're looking for. Good luck.
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age question
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Hmmmmmmmm maybe we all should go watch "The Graduate" what the hell is that? It's a movie and a book about an older woman who seduced a younger man. It's rather dated, before your time. |
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I want girls my age.. which is probably my problem since girls at my age are shallow and superficial and only want looks and money and definitely look beyond how nice or kind someone is and it sucks Older women aren't like that? |
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age question
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Younger guys want older women..Older guys want younger women..thats just the way a guys brain works...I get notes from guys that are older than my mom..some are even older than my grand daddy was when he passed on..at 72. but if he was rich and his first time would be his LAST,,,,,huh???? COME-ON would ya,,,,lol,jk.....lol Nope..I'm not Anna Nicole..I'm not doing an old man just to get his cash Exactly. Besides I'm sure I'd lose my cookies if I tried to go through with it. |
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Am I doing something wrong?
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nothing wrong with you.i would email you but i smoke .so i cant yes i am 44 but i cant even be a friend.maby all the guys smoke Don't ya just hate it when you get hated on for smoking? They don't even want to get to know you just because of it. I get it all the time. what's the point if you know you won't date a smoker? Or do you mean just as friends ? I have friends who smoke but I wouldn't date a smoker. YOu just pretty much made my point. How the hell can you say for sure that you haven't missed the person you would be the happiest with all because you couldn't get over yourself Long enough to get to know them just because they smoke. Some people have allergies, and cigarette smoke irritates allergies. Or they just would prefer not to smell cigarette smoke. Either way, there are tons of men who don't smoke, so that's not her problem. Welcome, original poster, good luck. |
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I'm pissed and annoyed...
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That's really creepy.
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