I have heard they have cell phones for kids that have two buttons besides 911- one for mom and one for dad. Buy your daughter one for Christmas and get a great answering machine. Stop answering the phone and record all of her messages. Let her know you'll no longer be answering that phone and the cell phone is for your daughter. If she needs to reach you, give her a number for emergencies, such as a third party. Or, you can stop taking her calls or let her know you're ending the calls as soon as you find out what she wants. If she no longer has a listening ear, she'll stop talking.

get the woman with the sexiest voice you know

to put the message on your answering machine

and let it answer

I have been in situations like this, one of which was exactly like this. The person I dated, we talked on the phone for months and we finally met. Now she had her issues as does everyone else. After a while things seemed different, lack of emotion, phone calls, everything slowed down. She told me that when things get serious she tends to push away.

Believe me, that hurt, going through the emails and letters and text messages, all proving differently. It hurt a lot seeing that difference. As much as it did, I left her alone. I am only selfish enough to protect myself. I will not make someone else miserable because I need questions answered. I took her word for it and have never spoken again.

Another story was very similar, she feared the serious yet the contrary was what I was led to believe in the beginning. So I did the same, I left her alone with no quarrel. As I moved on and found someone new, she started to call me. She didn't know I was with anyone, so this wasn't a jealousy issue. She genuinely regretted what she did and wanted to get back. I never saw her so hurt by her own decision. She never regretted (she claims) anything she's done. I just became cold, I knew she was hurting and I didn't want her to know about my new life, I didn't want her to hurt more. So I didn't talk to her like we used to, I wasn't mean or anything, I just went distant.

So love does hurt, sometimes the mind makes foolish decisions our heart pays for.

Booby I disagree with the people on here telling you to find someone else. They really no nothing about the connection you 2 have or stories that have been shared. It sucks to hear such advice.

I can relate Bobby, i too can a awsome connection on this site as well, and was dropped as thought we never had talked, it sucks and still doesnt make sence at this time. However my advice is taken from practicing it. Patience allows people time to take a step back and realize why they feel the way they do. This in turn allow them to make a decision on what to do from there, if its worth it wait it out.


Somthing ive noticed is how easily women can run away from this site and not realize that connections people have with them.

at least that way they dont say mean things to me lol

Then dont view it, kind like saying i wanna go into the store but i dont want anyone to know i was there. What do they call it "tabo" maybe?

Well, I met a great a girl on here and I was thinking that possibly she was the "one" We have only known each other for a short time. But no one has ever made me feel like this before. Everything was going great we were getting along like I never have before. I was thinking that it had potential to be something great some that doesnt come around everyday in this life. I was with her last night and its was great we kissed and held each other for god knows long. I care deeply about her and I want nothing more than for her to be in my life.Then today she drops the bomb on me that she cant do this. Saying it wasnt me that I was great but she isnt ready for a relationship. I pleaded I think for her to re think this situation. Its seems that her mind made up. She says she is falling in love with me and vice versa. But she is scared. I told her there is a reason that were brought together and not to throw it away because it may never come into her life again and the same for me. I keep begging her not to go (maybe im dumb) My mind is telling me " hey, dummmy! You just met her. Forget about it." My heart is telling me she is special and to continue to try to keep her in my life. It doesnt look like it will happen. Im shattered and I wish I could change her mind. She claims she cares deeply for me but thats why she is leaving me alone. I tell her to get out of my life but then I call her 10 minutes later and beg for her to stay with me. Do I continue the fight or give up?
Is she worth it? Or are the feelings that I have for her worth putting myself through this? What do you think please let me know. Is everything a baited hook?
Angels arent supposed to fly so low

:-( Signed a broken heart

Bitter much???

Is 20 jail bait? im just wondering

i just want to know if there good

i have to disagree with you ginger. there are really great guys out there! i have a really great guy! met him here on jsh!

its just that MOST of the other great guys are:

a- married
b- gay

Well, don't throw the baby out with the bath water. No reason to stop receiving e-mails or considering possible other matches. Just let HIM go.

i don't need to be trendy
or irreverent to be cool

i'm not in search of who i am
i like men only,
always have and always will
and love real love and true monogamy


sex should be sacred
and
i think too many people
are just too loose about it


to each his own

this is my opinion and belief


and i am sticking to it

gross, the whole thing
and then to blab about it is even worse in my opinion