Ok so on Thanksgiving my older sister (22) decided to tell all of my family that she was dating another girl... Ok nobody was upset or anything. Now during Winter Break (we are both in college) she has slept in this house once and I have maybe seen her for a total of an hour in an entire month... So now it seems likes my sister is abandoning me and my family,even though she still has 4 years of college left... Advice please, is this normal for an adult to push away her family even her own little brother?!

Maybe she's busy?

yep, she's going through a phase. She's found something she likes and is trying to make the most of it. Don't fret, eventually she'll come back to you, just give her some time to explore.

Lol definately not busy..just completely ignore the family.

And thanks, I hope someday she will finally care about us again...I just hope it is before my grandmother passes...

Bro... Let go of you're sister. Youre her brother but she needs to be free and explore her life. Explore you'rs Bro and you'll find you wont be pining on ur sis so much...

HEY MY YOUNG BROTHER YES IT IS SHES TRYING TO FIND HER SELF JUST GIVE HER ROOM DO WHAT YOU CAN AND PRAY THATS ALL YOU CAN DO AND IF SHE CALLS ON YOU BE THERE FOR HER AND NEVER GIVE UP I AM NOT SAYING GIRL ON GIRL THING IS RIGHT JUST EXCEPT HER FOR HER AND WHEN YOU TALK TO HER PLEASE DONT HARP ON THAT SUBJECT SHE IS STILL YOUR SISTER LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALLY ALWAYS AND FOEVER

I know to let her do her own thing...I am doing that. It is just this seemed to really creep up and bite me on the arse. I was the first person she told and I supported her.. Well I guess your siblings can't love ya forever!

get over it

She might be kind of embarrassed about it too. So she might need time to regroup and get herself together. All you can do is be a supportive brother and let her handle it her way.

maybe she is doing crack....

Straight or bi-women can get along with straight,bi and gay men.
A woman who is completly lesbian will view men as scum of the earth no matter if your jesus christ yourself so just let her know that bonds should be greater than ignorance and if she continues to follow her actions of abandonment just replace her with someone who needs your support.

This is to all those who say give her space.
Maybe she's on to something maybe we should all be gay and put down the phones and abandon our families. Sounds like a grand Idea. Do what is right and justified not selfish. I don't abandon my friends or family because I feel secudled or scared (I'm not gay) I let them know that I have a problem and I am not too special to not let them know how I feel I am not on top of the totem pole where my problems are the only problems and people should recognize it and bow to me and feel sorry for me as if this is the kind of support that helps. Make paris hilton a lesbian. whoo hoo you go girl you do what you want and don't look back at the guilt and pain of others that you've left behind because your family was only important enough to feed and cloth you and love you. When your an adult and gay screw them they are so worthless. Being gay is all that matters. Simply get over yourself and be humble or just jump off a cliff.