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Fri 09/05/08 12:27 PM

Right now my career comes first....If I fell in love then the priorities would change....

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Fri 09/05/08 06:47 AM

how much do you appreciate a woman that cook's for you........especially from scratch?

I love it when a woman cooks for me....I would appreciate that immensely...and if she was the dessert I'd be even happier...

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Mon 09/01/08 08:12 AM
yes got to enjoy the last part of summer vacation....tomorrow teaching begins....I'm also work on my massage therapist certification & have classes most evenings....gonna be a busy time for me...

what are you doing these days?

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Mon 09/01/08 07:54 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Mon 09/01/08 07:55 AM


Good Morning (((Everybody))) thought i'd drop by to say hi



Hey stranger .. what's up? vaca to where?

I was in Laguna Beach for a week, been back the past week & hanging out....work begins tomorrow

what have you been doing?

good morning ((Ruth)) (((Erin)) ((Judy))) (((Beach)))

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Mon 09/01/08 07:29 AM

hiya (((Jayson)))


how you been? Long time no see.....

I've been good enjoying my last day of vacation....

how have you been?

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Mon 09/01/08 07:17 AM
Good Morning (((Everybody))) thought i'd drop by to say hi

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Sun 08/31/08 08:55 AM
Good Day ((((Everyone))) flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker drinker waving

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Sun 08/31/08 08:52 AM
I don't think you can actually fall in love on a first date....I think people are confusing that with feeling strong Chemistry on the first date.....Love is something that develops & grows over time.....

I have read a profile & seen Pictures of a person & been instantly attracted to her....it happened twice & that attraction carried on with emails & phone calls.....

In person I've dated some where the Chemistry was there & strong enough to develop a relationship....I think you kinda know if there is chemistry within that first hour.....

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Sun 08/31/08 08:36 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Sun 08/31/08 08:38 AM

Personally I see nothing wrong with a dinner date either, but seeing as how nothing more has been said of future meeting, I think he may have blown me off by merely asking to exchange numbers. Since the email option was NOT and option, I just thought it be better then just showing up for a dinner....like here I am, like it or not.

For a first date, especially when there has been no communication a simple refreshment is enough....if there is no Chemistry the date can be kept to under an hour and neither person has to sit through a dinner.....I would suggest he meet you for coffee or other refreshment....Keep it Simple....Park your Expectations in the lot....and go with the idea of creating conversation.....at least you'll get to know somebody new even if you don't click....

PS....I agree with you S1owhand...

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Sat 08/23/08 12:09 AM
i've talked with many online....rarely does it lead anywhere....distances are too great & most are dishonest too....i'd take the email conversations with a grain of salt....

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Sat 08/23/08 12:03 AM
I’ve a Question . . . will Someone please talk to Me? Or am I being ignored? ? ?


Can you repeat that question....i was ignoring what you said....

Oh, have you tried begging....or pretending you are rich....maybe you can raffle yourself....as long as it doesn't cost you too much money...

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Fri 08/22/08 11:58 PM
A little of that 420 & i'll be chatting all nite....ohwell

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Fri 08/22/08 11:55 PM
my camel sleeps with me....its great!....anytime I wanna hump, i just roll over & rub.....:tongue:

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Fri 08/22/08 11:48 PM
The only Mosquitos I've seen are the women i've been dating....they'll suck the blood right outta ya....explode

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Fri 08/22/08 11:45 PM
Friday was a good day for me.....no complaints....looking forward to tomorrow....have a nice day :smile:

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Fri 08/22/08 11:42 PM


Congrats.....on your third month of being 'clean'

You haven't talked with your mom for 15 years?......Interesting.....if my children didn't contact me for 15 years not sure i'd ever want to see them?....hope you have a pain remedy in mind & realize this is not just about you.....or is it?


Trust and believe, this was all about her. If I got relieved of any guilt I felt I didnt deserve it...the first 15 minutes of our conversation, was my reassuring her that I loved her, and never ever stopped, but the drugs had me so deep, I was unable to find her, or anything else. Meth is a very evil drug!!!!It was all about her babe, and what I got out of it, was just the icing on the cake.

Nice comments....but 15 years of no contact & then 3 months clean?.....go ahead, blame the drugs....but i wonder if you are serious or just gonna go on another binge....i know, everyone wants to congratulate you.....well its good you want to contact your mother & if she is willing to accept you, then God bless you both.....I just hope for her sake you ain't screwing with her.....

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Mon 08/18/08 10:27 PM




There are some things that, when it comes to being shy, it doesn't matter if you are male or female.

A shy person has difficulty stepping outside of the 'safe zone'. He might need a little assistance from you expanding that so he is comfortable.

Try making safe, non-threatening physical contact as often as you both are comfortable with it. Simple touches on his hand, arm, back; brushing up against him instead of walking around without contact; a light kiss (on the cheek or lips) instead of just hello and goodbye. Hugs are always good.


We do that now, he puts his arm around me when we laugh and stuff, and the last time we were out, we were in the car and he took my hand and kissed it...but it may just be his personality....




Or........he may be testing the waters, and now waiting for you to return the favor.


I don't chase boys, it's so not in my nature to do so, I'm a hugger and such, but to actually move forward, I just don't do that...

Oh, then how do you plan to get him to kiss you?.....

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Mon 08/18/08 10:25 PM


There are some things that, when it comes to being shy, it doesn't matter if you are male or female.

A shy person has difficulty stepping outside of the 'safe zone'. He might need a little assistance from you expanding that so he is comfortable.

Try making safe, non-threatening physical contact as often as you both are comfortable with it. Simple touches on his hand, arm, back; brushing up against him instead of walking around without contact; a light kiss (on the cheek or lips) instead of just hello and goodbye. Hugs are always good.


We do that now, he puts his arm around me when we laugh and stuff, and the last time we were out, we were in the car and he took my hand and kissed it...but it may just be his personality....

Plant a kiss on his lips....that will get his attention....do that a couple of times and tell us about it in the morning.........If you can stop smiling :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: laugh

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Sun 08/17/08 08:52 PM

flowerforyouWhy do men not like to show their softer side in a relationship?flowerforyou

This is not true for me....I hide nothing....I do have an 'edge' too & I don't hide that either.....And I have a strong commitment to integrity & values.....the 'hard' part is not me showing my softer side....its more like letting someone enter into my heart that i find difficult....

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Sun 08/17/08 06:47 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Sun 08/17/08 06:48 PM
I want to get a puppy....nice to hear things are working out?....sounds like a beautiful pup

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