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Mon 10/20/08 09:30 AM
People who cheat have integrity issues.....and relationship issues....

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Mon 10/20/08 09:28 AM
Online dating/friendship gives me an opportunity to meet people I wouldn't otherwise meet, especially with my busy schedule.....

there are no guarantees, so my expectations are simple.....

I've enjoyed both my dating experiences & friendships

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Mon 10/20/08 09:21 AM
I like to smile & laugh....Is that having fun?

but I have my serious side....My 'To do' list is my trademark....

so life is not always about 'Fun'

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Sun 10/19/08 11:54 PM
Deb, you are too funny....

*Sits down with a drink & popcorn to watch the wrestling* drinker

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Sun 10/19/08 11:28 PM
ROTC=Reserve Officer Training Corp.

It takes a few seconds to google it & find out what it means....Or you could have just asked her....

You get what you put out....

don't give up so easily....show her you are interested by asking more in depth questions...

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Sun 10/19/08 11:21 PM
I want a woman that 'Gets Me' and still 'Loves Me'
and that ain't easy.....:smile:

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Sun 10/19/08 11:19 PM
Start with a nice smile
Be friendly & Kind
Have your Words & Actions match, Showing that you Appreciate him
Relax & Have Fun

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Mon 09/29/08 02:47 PM
Congrats Thumper.....Woman love intelligent men....:wink:

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Sun 09/28/08 06:46 PM
Given this happened on Sept. 13, two weeks ago, I'd like to hear an update....did the two of you ever talk again?....Did you see her again?

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Sat 09/27/08 05:30 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Sat 09/27/08 05:32 PM
What's a Nice Guy anyway?....

Besides I'll never be someone's idea of a nice guy.....

I never want to hear a woman say they want a nice guy....that's when I take a wide circle around that person.....

I want a woman to tell me they want BlueSkyJ.....And I will be telling her that 'she' is all I want.....(& maybe some dessert toolaugh )

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Sat 09/27/08 05:17 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Sat 09/27/08 05:22 PM

She broke up with him. Also she threatened abortion on him twice and he begged her not to and that he would raise the baby on his own if she didnt want it. Turns out I think she was emotional and screwing with him. My son is secure and happy. Actually my son is happier with him around. They play and he is a very paternal man. He provides anything we need. Basically if it was bad for my son then I would not be in it. I keep my sons feelings protected by not arguing about anything in front of him, etc. He is a happy secure little boy.

You sound like a very smart young woman....my advice would be not to listen to anyone on this site, especially the women above who are suggesting you leave your boyfriend....Unbelievable!!!!....people will tell you anything because they think they know it all....

Believe in yourself, you can make good decisions....you don't need any of us to tell you what to do.....trust your emotions, pay attention to your inner voice(intuition) & your comfort level, they won't let you down....make your own decisions....

What would you like to do? What would you like to see happen? Are there things you can do to make it happen? How do you plan to deal with the situation you discussed?.....Okay?

Good luck & I hope it works out for you

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Sat 09/27/08 04:09 PM
I know why I'm single.....I'm patient....Waiting for the girl of my dreams & I won't settle for less....It will take someone very special to sweep me off my feet.....And they will get someone special in return....so it does work both ways
:wink:

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Sat 09/27/08 04:05 PM
I don't really give advice, I just give my opinion.....I think the boards should be mostly for fun & entertainment....too many serious people that say they have a sense of humor but you wonder if they ever really laugh(not sarcastically either).

And its true what you say....people give advice or their opinion & think they own the content of a thread....but they really don't know....

the OP may describe a situation, however, the details are scant & we weren't there so as posters its just speculation....

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Fri 09/26/08 01:10 PM
just stopping by to say Hi....hope everyone is doing well

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Thu 09/25/08 12:18 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Thu 09/25/08 01:08 PM
oh? i guess i missed the joke


Knowing you as I DO from book of matches(gonna go crying to the mods here too?) I understand how someone with no sense of humor would not get much....noway

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Thu 09/25/08 11:49 AM
You are still very young....you don't want to be in a long term committed relationship....go out & have fun....let loose girl but not too loose....yanno wad I mean...

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Thu 09/25/08 11:45 AM


I wouldn't relocate....my whole family, friends, & work are all located where I live....I ain't moving, but if we were committed I'd expect her to move to where I live....after all, I have plenty of room in my house.....
OK Move over cause i'm driving my new Jeep somewhere far! lol


Well Mooville on down....*wink* and leave the cow pies behind...

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Thu 09/25/08 11:33 AM
i've had some anime girlfriends....let me tell you the sex ain't that good & they tend to be more flat chested than their pictures glasses

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Thu 09/25/08 11:25 AM
Well Tanya, I can't blame you....its not easy meeting the right one whether online or anywhere for that matter.....I set my requirements high & my expectations low & that seems to work for me.....& I'm very open to dating most anyone even if its just for an evening out on the town....and I like when a woman that is interested contacts me first...

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Thu 09/25/08 11:17 AM
I wouldn't relocate....my whole family, friends, & work are all located where I live....I ain't moving, but if we were committed I'd expect her to move to where I live....after all, I have plenty of room in my house.....

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