I support friendship frist"I want to get to know Him!

I support holding hands & kissing first....that way you really know if there is an attraction....if i waited until I knew her first that could take weeks or months....and may lead no where....

Nice answer

thanks....now where is your hand and.......

I support holding hands & kissing first....that way you really know if there is an attraction....if i waited until I knew her first that could take weeks or months....and may lead no where....

Is there more than meets the eye? F/M,Do you like the what you see. or do you seek the real person inside?or do you like like! facts/fantasy?
Of course Koolaidwoman.9/22/08.

Is there more than meets the eye?

Rarely. And usually, even the part that meets the eye isn't real. {Thanks Bro you hit it nice work![Maybe some of these marriages whould have gone the distance,Just Maybe}Just something to ponder on!Of course Koolaidwoman!

Heya!

So, people are not worth investing time and energy into getting to know.........?? It is a waste of time if it doesn't work out the way you would like it?? A good friend is worthless compared to someone who may spark ur sexual fantasies? {Thanks Girl! well said yes were worth it!
Koolaidwoman!!

Oh, come on. Investing a few weeks into getting to know someone is not too much to ask.

I will not date someone I do not know at least a little on a personal level. Why do I want to invest my heart into someone, who turns out to be a total jerk....or less sever, someone who I have absolutely nothing in common. Yeah, we may have had a physical spark, if we did as u suggest and started holding hands and kissing first.........but what am I left with after sex?? (If it gets there)

Friends first is a priority for me. Yes, there may be a spark of interest......but I won't even be attracted to someone if I don't know them first.

That is one of the reasons I hate dating sites. A guy wants you to look at his profile and tell u if ur interested........as if I can tell that by reading a paragraph and looking at ur pic.

Anyhoo.

Im not for friendship first,

Im for friendship frist.

Friendship first, if the sparks fly later all the better.

Yeah, we may have had a physical spark, if we did as u suggest and started holding hands and kissing first.........but what am I left with after sex?? (If it gets there)

I support holding hands & kissing first....that way you really know if there is an attraction....if i waited until I knew her first that could take weeks or months....and may lead no where....

You are left with satisfaction....unless the sex was bad.....in that case you won't have to waste weeks getting to know him only to find out he ain't got it in the sack....

You see women need their mind/emotions massaged....I'd rather give them a self-help book & skip the emotions....