Why do people ask for relationship advice on a free online dating site...If anyone had the right answers here, they wouldn't be on this site...what say you???

You are a smart dude- you must have a Phd in LOVE!

Yowsah! You make a good point

I only ask on here so I know what NOT to do

I say I need a ride on the ETRAIN>>>>>> How are you????

no....he's on a free online dating site *giggles*

Well this section is called "Relationship Advice" of which Im looking for. Maybe you can think of a more clever sarcastic answer for my issue.

I know some plumbing, electrical, some raising kid advice but as far as relationships, I have no clue and wouldn't trust anyones advice about it on here

Sorry Eric..... I was supposed to answer the ?... Well I would have to say people come on here and they see other people who are looking for the same thing so they figure someone else might have the answer they are looking for... If we knew the answer this site would be called"Screwed & Taken"

So are you asking for advice??

Your looking in the wrong place...go find friends that have healthy relationships and ask them

anytime, any place...take the front first...wooo!!!

More than advice, I honestly think we learn from each others war stories.

I know nothing about healthy relationships...you need some electric work done, I can hook you up

Hmmm...perhaps, but I keep seeing people make the same mistakes over and over again...I wonder if we ever learn

now...this thread isn't ment to offend anyone...I was just curious

People give advice/opinions, in front of the whole ethernet. If they value their contribution, then they are being somewhat honest with me.

If I ask for input, then people give it their best shot, or say something funny.

I've often wondered the same thing

If we were all so expert on the subject, why would we even be here?

But then again, do people who date in the "real world" really know all the answers? I reckon they're just as useless as us Minglers

They're not only useless, but they're no fun. At least we are FUN!

If I wanted dates, this is not the place I would look for em. (No offense to the site, it's a great site.) I can find dates in real life when and if I want em.

You are assuming that everyone who belongs to this site is here to find dates, or because they've lost at love, or because they are lonely. That is not always the case. I join social sites because I find the atmosphere and ambiance, and the discussion forums, entertaining. I put that I'm looking for friends in my profile because THAT'S WHAT I'M INTERESTED IN. (lol)

I know I'm not alone in that. Many of the members here are here for the friends that they have made on the site, and not looking to hook up with anybody.

As for the "advice" part of your question: If I think that some experience or knowledge I have may help a person who is expressing a problem, then I try to help em. If nothing else, it's still entertaining to read about all the different situations people get themselves into.

And speaking of entertainment: I always get a laugh out of guys who think they are being SO EFFING ORIGINAL by asking this question. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

I take all of my relationship advice from Dr. Phil