Okay so I recently stumbled across the forum part of this site, I decided to post a topic, ask for advice and hope for the best!
I am recently out of a year long relationship. I have no idea where the relationship went wrong, except apparently I am a *****, obsessive, immature, clingy, needy, too outspoken, amongst many other things. It was one of those relationships where I was happy, head over heels in love, he couldn't communicate with me, had alot of problems and out of nowhere it just all crashed and I found out that apparently I was this and that and he couldn't deal with it anymore. In reality I have no idea if it was me, or him. I'm just ready to try and start a new relationship, but not only am I afraid, I'm having a hard time letting him go. Advice?!

Be yourself!

Time, baby, just time.

Don't let what he did to you stop you from trying again. If you do, then he won. Be yourself and be brave.

let me guess, he thought he was a nice guy

the only common denominator in all your failed relationships is......YOU


but in this case, i think it was him....

Drop the top and let that hair blow back,


helllo and welcome to single ready to mingle,

Time girl. All you need is time. Time to heal, time to contemplate, time to come to conclusion's. Time to move on and, become whole again. Only love for you . Remember,.......to love you!

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Welcome and have a blast!

Well first you have to realize that it was not your fault. He is the A$$. Especially if he had to name off a laundrylist of things on why he did not want to be in this realtionship any longer. Thats a sure sign of all his faults.
If it was really your fault, he would of not said anything. He was looking for excuses.
He will not take you back..cuz the reasons go deeper than that. He si a bad communicator and he will never tell u what it really is or was.
Once you have come to grips w/ that, you can move on, and find you a guy that loves u for you.;)

Time.

Find yourself.

Realize that relationships Don't! define who you are, you do!

And have fun in here, there are some great people in here.

ever change
Someone will those perks about you
Time will let you let him go

You are now part of the Mingle family, like it or not. WE will NEVER let YOU go. You may leave when you think You've found another but, you'll be back, eventually and, we'll still be here. With new face's added to our collection. In a way, it's like a black hole ,this place. But, whenever you need comfort and uplifting, we'll be here for you. You're our's now, hope you like it here. (Yes, I'm being a bit deep this morning!).

Every relationship you'll have in life, romantic or otherwise, is a learning experience, so do the most you can to learn from this one. Failed relationships are rarely the fault of only one person. Sometimes they result simply from incompatbility where no one is really "at fault." It's good that you're viewing this one from all angles, attempting to see what went wrong. If you made mistakes, you can learn from them, but you must also consider that other men may not view how you behave is undesirable. Just be yourself. Don't attempt to mold yourself accoring to someone else's view of the ideal mate. Yours will eventually turn up.

You are still very young....you don't want to be in a long term committed relationship....go out & have fun....let loose girl but not too loose....yanno wad I mean...

How can you say you were in love when you say he couldn't communicate and he had alot of problems?

Sounds to me you were in love with the idea of him and not really him...

Buy a dog.

Remember that it is better to be by yourself then it is to be with the wrong person. Go out and have some fun, do the things you like to do. Dont project need, project abundance. Make freinds, spend time with the freinds you already have, and treat yourself the way you want him to treat you.
Resect yourself, love yourself and find someone who wants to be with you for who you are inside.

Oh honey, I know what you mean. I had this great guy and I was so happy with him. He seemed happy with me until out of the blue he said I was stalkerish and broke it off.

With some guys, if you start to care about them more than physically, you're obsessive. It's him; not you.