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Thu 04/29/10 01:21 AM



Anyone here fans of the show? Jack Bauer, Chloie, Hastings, President Taylor? Season 8? The finale will be May '24' th, 2010.
No more 24 seasons after this. But there will be a movie. I have loved all of the 24s, but I must admit, Season 8 was not as good as previous 24s have been. But Jack Bauer (Kiefer) is still badazz. One heck of an actor, not just this show but all movies he's been in too.

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Thu 04/29/10 01:07 AM
If you only see it once, and promise never to watch it ever again, it gets a 5 out of 10. If you watch it again, it gets a 1 out of 10, unless you're high or drunk, then it gets a 5 again, but only if you're drunk or high.laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 04/29/10 01:01 AM
MADE IN CHINA


yep, that includes American Flags folks. This crap with China has got to end soon, it's killing us.

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Thu 04/29/10 12:55 AM

It's OK but I don't like having to "renew" hourly.

It sucks when you are in the process of bumping funky and the music dies.

What do you do?


There is no need to answer I promise!


Here's what I can say. I've had this on for about 5 hours now, and never had to renew anything. I dunno why it's doing that for you. However, it only lets you skip over a few songs that you "hate." Something about music licensing contractual agreement. So, awkwardly you have to exit out and type in a new search query to play different songs if you don't like the playlist they are playing.

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Thu 04/29/10 12:49 AM

This is exactly why I asked for advice. flowerforyou I really needed some unbiased opinions and thoughts from people who are not involved what so ever. Thank you flowerforyou


You're welcome Jill, and God bless you, I hope that you weigh all that was said here tonight, and what you know in your heart is the right thing to do. Maybe even pray about it, I'm sure you either have the answer now, or you will soon when you wake up tomorrow. But there are alot of people that care about your problem here and do want to give you the best advice, even if there are differing opinions. But in the end, you will decide what is right, and I hope that somehow some or most or all of our advice may prove useful to you in this.flowerforyou

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Thu 04/29/10 12:40 AM

Jill what will happen if wife kicks him out he'll go to your friend.Some people are very good in manipulation and i bet he has both these women convinced he loves them.He loves himself.He's using your friend and keeping his options open


It's highly likely that bostid Joe will do just that. A "plan B" or an insurance plan, in case it all goes wrong for him. Gee, how delightful, what a freaking standup guy that Joe is! She's caught in this love triangle until you can get her out of it, and you gotta do it soon before it's too late.flowerforyou

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Thu 04/29/10 12:34 AM


e-mailing a spy report would be pretty bad or even useless. It would have to be a phone call or face to face. But since you are not able to do that, it would seem that the best thing is to turn the heat up on your friend, until she relents and releases this wretch she's cheating with.
I've been telling Sandy since all this started years ago that she needs to talk to Barb. Find out what Barb knows. If Joe is telling you the truth, then you will know. If Joes lying, then you will both have the truth. She just won't talk to her.


But she is still boinking Joe isn't she? I think I can read between the lines here. It's not over for those two, unless you achieve the desired result you want, which is to save your friend by getting her out of this, anyway you can. You can probably chastise her later, but the primary objective is get her out of this crap. If it takes 100 times, get her to leave him and never look back.

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Thu 04/29/10 12:20 AM
e-mailing a spy report would be pretty bad or even useless. It would have to be a phone call or face to face. But since you are not able to do that, it would seem that the best thing is to turn the heat up on your friend, until she relents and releases this wretch she's cheating with.

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Thu 04/29/10 12:16 AM
Seemed parallel or similar to the original thread post, so I thought I'd serve that one out there. If it's too offtopic , I digress.

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Thu 04/29/10 12:13 AM
Is this strictly race related? Or could it also be expanded to include ethnicities or nationalities. Races, not a problem, whatever race they are. Nationalities, kind of a different story. I know that will be over-reacted to and it's probably "wrong." But that is the way I feel.

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Wed 04/28/10 11:59 PM



Ideally, I wish they would both throw the guy to the curb! He doesn't deserve even one second of their time. BUT, thats my opinion and I'm not married to him, nor do I have any emotion for him, well other than anger and disgust... Whether "barb" wants to fix her marriage or not is up to her. But I feel she needs all of the information to make that decision. But I also feel it's not really my place since I don't even know Barb. So that's where I'm torn.


How much in the dark is Barb about this situation? If she still doesn't know, she NEEDS to be told NOW. Stranger or not. I doubt the marriage is fixable at this point. But I would also hate to see Joe and Sandy both get away with what they're doing, nothing to answer or atone for. Absolutely shameless and vile.
I truly have no idea how in the dark "barb" is... I don't know her. All I know of her are things I hear here and there. But, you can just take that as gossip. I have no opinion of her what so ever. She may know full well he's a cheater. She may know abosulty nothing. I am just assuming because of how much "Joe" lied to "Sandy" that he MUST be lying to "Barb" as well. If that makes sense!!slaphead



It makes sense. It seems that this is at least to me getting clearer and clearer. Look at all of the posts so far. More than a few are interested in this thread. So I'm gonna guess based on what you told me about Barb that you probably don't have her number, and probably not Joe's either, unless your friend Sandy gave it to you. Therefore you are left with confronting your friend Sandy that she ought to be ashamed, and if her friendship with you means anything to you, drop this guy now and burn the bridge behind her. Dust his azz. That seems the only way to me at this point.flowerforyou

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Wed 04/28/10 11:52 PM
My girlfriend just told me tonight about this strikingly simple but cool streaming radio website: Pandora.com

I've had fun with it all night and so has she. Really good sound and no buffering. It's free so a few ads, but no biggie. If ads bother you, you can always upgrade, for no ads and more features, but the catch is $36/month if you want the upgrade. Free is good enough for me right now.

Anyone here ever use Pandora or are thinking about using it? I think so far, it's a fun little site, especially when you minimize the window and let it play while you are doing other stuff.

:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Wed 04/28/10 11:42 PM

Ideally, I wish they would both throw the guy to the curb! He doesn't deserve even one second of their time. BUT, thats my opinion and I'm not married to him, nor do I have any emotion for him, well other than anger and disgust... Whether "barb" wants to fix her marriage or not is up to her. But I feel she needs all of the information to make that decision. But I also feel it's not really my place since I don't even know Barb. So that's where I'm torn.


How much in the dark is Barb about this situation? If she still doesn't know, she NEEDS to be told NOW. Stranger or not. I doubt the marriage is fixable at this point. But I would also hate to see Joe and Sandy both get away with what they're doing, nothing to answer or atone for. Absolutely shameless and vile.

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Wed 04/28/10 11:34 PM

I hate drama. I just want to wash my hands of this and be done with it. grumble grumble grumble I'm disappointed that my friend "Sandy" has let it go this far. But those are her decisions she has to live with. I just hope that he will leave her alone now. Let her move on with her life.


Is it really over between Sandy and Joe? Or is Sandy just telling you it is? Is she being too accomodating to Joe, by answering his calls, texts, and e-mails? If she's hearing from him at all and not threatening to cut his balls off if he doesn't leave her alone, then it's not really over between those two.

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Wed 04/28/10 11:29 PM


Simple: Mind Your Own Business!!! No good ever comes from putting your nose where it doesn't belong.


ok put it this way then.
if you were in a relationship and you never knew the guy you were in love with married and you find out from a close friend that had warned you about him for quit sometime. would you tell her the same thing and continue with the relationship knowing he wouldnt leave his wife
and keep stringing you along


Let's bring this out a little, into the future. Let's just say that Sandy(friend) now knows about the marriage of Joe with Barbara(wife), doesn't give a damn, keeps boinking the guy, the marriage ends in divorce and Joe and Sandy live guilt-free in a remorseless sham of a relationship, and now wife(Barb) is left out to the coyotes in a horrible divorce. Would you honestly still be friends with Sandy? How could you possibly say yes?

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Wed 04/28/10 11:22 PM
Edited by CatsLoveMe on Wed 04/28/10 11:24 PM

All I can say is I would want to be told. Do you think she is really that stupid not to see the signs?.......smokin


Who's lyin' to who? At this point it seems hard to tell. Joe(the cheatin' bostid) might be lyin' to Sandy(friend), Sandy might be lyin' to Jill, and Joe is obviously lyin' to Barbara(wife).


There's some fake names for you, just thought I'd add some color to it.

And I agree with you newark. :thumbsup:

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Wed 04/28/10 11:13 PM
I'm sorry I got so confused Jill, maybe if I had some fake names to use, I would have followed the story better. Again, I am sorry, I really was trying to help you with some advice.flowerforyou

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Wed 04/28/10 11:10 PM






Simple: Mind Your Own Business!!! No good ever comes from putting your nose where it doesn't belong.
Sooo, if your husband is cheating on you and someone knows and didn't tell you but could have... it's ok for them to say, sorry I didn't tell you, I didn't want to be nosey? Oh by the way, how's the STD treating you that your husband gave you?


That person would cease being my friend and I would consider them a back-stabbing co-conspirator to the cheating party. End of friendship, even if it was 22 years. Buh-bye!
How would I be a back stabbing co-conspirator if I told his wife that her husband is cheating on her? It wouldn't betray my friend, she is done with him. FINALLY.


You wouldn't if you told her, but you would if you didn't tell her(and you knew). That is what I meant. Sorry about the confusion.flowerforyou
oooh ok. Well just to be clear, I do not know the wife in this situation. We have never met or even spoken. It's my friend that her husband has been cheating with.



Then, let me get this straight, your "friend" is the concubine that married man Joe is having an affair with. It seems that your friend knows all about this, the marriage and all. I would tell the wife first and then tell your friend she needs to drop him like a sack of mud or risk jeopardizing your friendship with her, the fact that she's doing this seems to show me that she is very capable of betrayal and deceit, something you probably don't want in a friendship. I know I wouldn't.

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Wed 04/28/10 11:05 PM


It doesn't matter. Friends come and go. Good friends have your back.


I guess I'm different than most folks. I prefer to stay out of other peoples affairs. Guess I'm meddling now by even posting. So, OP do whatever you want. You asked I replied. Take my advice or leave it. Up to you.
I appreciate advice, that's why I asked. I'm really not totally sure what to do. That's why I thought I would get other people's opinions. I think it's a very serious matter, we're talking about someone's marriage here. I want to be sure, whether I decide to tell her or not, that it's the right decision.


Jill, I am dead serious. Take it from someone like me who has been cheated on bad in a former serious relationship. You would be wise to tell your friend, she should know the truth if she's had the wool pulled over her eyes. It's not fair or right to keep this information from her.

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Wed 04/28/10 11:02 PM




Simple: Mind Your Own Business!!! No good ever comes from putting your nose where it doesn't belong.
Sooo, if your husband is cheating on you and someone knows and didn't tell you but could have... it's ok for them to say, sorry I didn't tell you, I didn't want to be nosey? Oh by the way, how's the STD treating you that your husband gave you?


That person would cease being my friend and I would consider them a back-stabbing co-conspirator to the cheating party. End of friendship, even if it was 22 years. Buh-bye!
How would I be a back stabbing co-conspirator if I told his wife that her husband is cheating on her? It wouldn't betray my friend, she is done with him. FINALLY.


You wouldn't if you told her, but you would if you didn't tell her(and you knew). That is what I meant. Sorry about the confusion.flowerforyou

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