but i know at some day i could grow to love him. he is awesome.

I told him right now he is just a friend and maybe someday it could turn into love. He has a lot of what I am looking for.

I've been on these dating sites for a while and have seen the good and the bad. What if someone I know closely asked me to seriously consider marriage in the future even though I have just viewed him as a friend. I can see us building a life together, having children, getting along wonderfully, plus we have the same morals? can you grow over time to love? i believe to some degree i can but i know i don't love him right now and i've told him up front that i do not love him but he still wants this with me?

I joined finding someone in my area; however, in the next two weeks I am going 12 hours away to meet someone!!! (I've talked to him for the last six months)... Pretty much I am openminded - if all goes well :-) I don't have to stay in KY forever!

I pray someday I will find my Mr. Right... When i was a kid I used to look at the stars and say a prayer for him every night - not that he would come whisk me away - but realistic stuff like "i hope he has a good day" or such and such. it sounds kind of corny. I am not as naive as I was and my eyes are wide open because the experiences of my marriage but there is a guy out there that will understand and be there whereever he is.

I was like oh my goodness this guy likes horses, music, family, etc... and then he blocked me. Thanks to my ex husband i found out when someone blocks me - I do not know how to remove the software - it just says when someone blocks me. So I just delete them and move on. I have like six of these dating sites going. I am almost like screw all of this and just live with all of my pets.

I think I am about done with these dating sights. They say how good you look in a pic but once you start talking to the person they don't talk to you again especially one that you are interested in. It is not even about hitting on someone or such it is once you get in the conversation they seem to get into it then it comes to a halt - someone makes an erupt exit and therefore is the end of the interlude. It seems all about looks and not how the person truly is inside. Sorry just needed to vent some feelings. I am supposed to go out of town to meet one guy that I posted about previously... but all this dissing makes me scared. My best friend and her boyfriend are game to go with me... any advice?

Katie Ellen - but ppl call me Katie (fyi - as many times i am asked this
i- I am not a Katherine)

potassium is the key if that does not help as your doctor about restless
leg syndrome.

OMG Nativegrl I totally agree with you!!! That is how it is!

did anyone watch girl,positive on lifetime last night?

A guy that doesn't toy with a gal's emotions. Not just say something
that "they want to hear" so that they will still be connected with them.

I have major trust issues... first of all when starting ANY type of
relationship (i.e. coworker, boss, friend, dating, etc...) I remind
myself this is not the same person that betrayed me before. They are
their own individual. Relationship wise - I have a hard time when a guy
"demands" (in my eyes) who a certain guy friend is... All I hear it is
"who is that person" and i say "a good friend" and then the conversation
goes into who is this good friend, etc... etc... I am always waiting
for the negative aspect.

I dated one guy before my exhusband (one year before i met him) and
since my divorce I have met several guys. I couldn't get a date in high
school and even now I cannot get a serious one. Oh well...

Is there such thing as a half way perfect one?

I have a date every night with my computer... or more specifically
pogo.com

I guess sometimes it can be how you read something via talking to
someone over the phone or in person. It can be interpreted many ways
but some things just stand out. I know I am not looking for perfect,
there is no such thing. I really don't have any standards but I will
know it when I find it.

I feel like I am too picky but still some things just stand out... over
and over I talk to guys... I feel like the odds are against me!

there is also a myspace page.... http://www.myspace.com/197879646

Heather - that happened to me also!!! I even took a day off from my
full time job so I could spend the day with them. Luckily the cars were
overloaded so I took my own car. I made a clean break when the chance
arose!