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Thu 12/08/11 08:00 PM







its the lack of compassion from a desensatized humanity that allows judgement of those who find themselves in
despair and hoplessness...
only way to combat it is to offer kindness whenever possible..


The problem there lies in we think of ourselves first before offering kidness to others. The proof of that is the greed that we see at Christmas time. It truly puts me off on Christmas as people are so busy spending thousands of dollars on others of the hope of getting something in return that we forgot those less fortunate and even more so forget basic manners of being kind to one another.

NOT EVERYONE thinks about them self,,before others,,as well as gifts are not bought for anything to return,,but for the gift received by that person,,so they know,,someone cared about THEM....
At least in my mind..No one will ever make me think about Christmas differently,,it IS,,simply a time for the WORLD,,to really care about another,,if not in helping them,,then in simply showing them,,YOU CARE..I live everyday, like this,,even IF,,I had a bad day..:heart:
And I'm NOT saying I'm special,,just REAL,with who I am...
I try to pass that on as often asI get that chance to do..


Gathering what you are saying, I'm glad to see there are at least two of us that are selfless the other 364 days out of the year.

To me, Xmas is a commercialized spend-a-thon.
IT has come down to MONEY for all the companies making and or selling ANYTHING,,,but,,even with ALL THAT,,YOU have to agree,,that on a cold December night,,as the snow falls and your watching that alone looking out your window,,,YOUR thinking about someone ELSE,,and NOT because your horny,,lol,,but someone who your worried might not be having a nice Christmas,,,The Spirit of Christmas,,lives and flows through us all,,IF we care to Embrace it?
Thats my take on this time and that feeling...BUT,,many who have MONEY in their hearts,,MISS this so SPECIAL GIFT!!!


There are way worse things in life than being single at Christmas. My only thoughts about Christmas are for the homeless rather than feeling sorry for myself being alone. Those people truly have nothing and are also lonely.


Ive been single a majority of my life. I think I only spent one xmas with someone. MY thoughts every day of the year is for others and less fortunate to be happy.

Lots of families here lost their homes to the fire here in Reno a few weeks ago. Expensive homes and wealthy people, but I still went down to the shelter and offered my place for a family or two until they got on their feet again.

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Thu 12/08/11 07:54 PM
Curious enough to ask. About anything. I look as Mingle. When I am not of here for months at a time as a bar I visit every now and then. I am the one that sits in the corner and observes others. Throws in my two cents no matter how worthless it may seem to others.

Random questions can be fun.

''Do you give enough for them to have something to ask about''

If you go to a bar/club/or get a approached in public from a guy. Do you think in all honesty, that if they're sincerely interested in you. Do you think you gave them a particular body language to approach you.

p.s. Im asking this in the nicest way possible. I dont want you to think Im trying to sound like an ***. Cause it;s not my forte:)

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Thu 12/08/11 07:46 PM

ok, u ready for this??? I spoke to him...gave him a 2nd chance....went for coffee, he told me that he's "separated", of course, i understand what that means...but then he admitted to me that he stays in the house with his wife, sleeps on the couch for the past 2 years....his youngest child is 3. wants a "F" buddy. came right out and said it. then he tried to neck in the car in the parking lot behind the diner! OH MY GOD! SEE YA!

what is wrong with people? WHAT HAPPENED TO LOYALTY? WHAT HAPPENED TO THOSE VOWS YOU TOOK SUCH A SHORT TIME AGO?

I deserve better than a rumble seat lol.


I can tell you that if you get emotionally attached to someone easy like I do. Stay away from the recently separated or divorced. Date someone with a clear headed and level mind, and knows what the hell they want. And dont be a rebound. Just sharing an experience.


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Thu 12/08/11 07:39 PM
That's one reason why I have song lyrics on my profile instead all about me. If they are curious enough, they will ask. If not. No loss to my nights sleep.

I don't ask them the same thing that is on they're profile. I don't use that as ''ammo'' to prove that what they tell me may be wrong.

I may ask how they got to where they were. Past/present relationships. Yada yada. That's if I find them interesting enough to talk to.

But, it has happened. Only when I had way too much info on my profile.

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Thu 12/08/11 06:43 PM




its the lack of compassion from a desensatized humanity that allows judgement of those who find themselves in
despair and hoplessness...
only way to combat it is to offer kindness whenever possible..


The problem there lies in we think of ourselves first before offering kidness to others. The proof of that is the greed that we see at Christmas time. It truly puts me off on Christmas as people are so busy spending thousands of dollars on others of the hope of getting something in return that we forgot those less fortunate and even more so forget basic manners of being kind to one another.

NOT EVERYONE thinks about them self,,before others,,as well as gifts are not bought for anything to return,,but for the gift received by that person,,so they know,,someone cared about THEM....
At least in my mind..No one will ever make me think about Christmas differently,,it IS,,simply a time for the WORLD,,to really care about another,,if not in helping them,,then in simply showing them,,YOU CARE..I live everyday, like this,,even IF,,I had a bad day..:heart:
And I'm NOT saying I'm special,,just REAL,with who I am...
I try to pass that on as often asI get that chance to do..


Gathering what you are saying, I'm glad to see there are at least two of us that are selfless the other 364 days out of the year.

To me, Xmas is a commercialized spend-a-thon.

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Thu 12/08/11 06:37 PM

heat is energy, no?


Yes:smile:

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Thu 12/08/11 06:22 PM



Thinking I'm so tired of a certain person telling other people that I'm a bad person! If you have something to say ABOUT ME, then grow up and say it TO ME! mad


You go girl!!happy


thinking WHY DO YOU LOOK SO FRIGGIN FAMILIAR! laugh


I was on ESPN once...lol

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Thu 12/08/11 06:20 PM

lol....heat creates energy. You body creates heat :)


And awesome hip checks on the boards to a Red Wing player make me a happy man:tongue:

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Thu 12/08/11 06:13 PM

Thinking I'm so tired of a certain person telling other people that I'm a bad person! If you have something to say ABOUT ME, then grow up and say it TO ME! mad


You go girl!!happy

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Thu 12/08/11 06:09 PM
Hmmmmmflowerforyou

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Thu 12/08/11 05:24 PM

eyeglasses, strangely. it's a thing...shuddup.


Nothing wrong with the studious look:)

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Thu 12/08/11 01:03 PM




what

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Thu 12/08/11 12:50 PM
Scatterbrained idiots. Liars and cheats. Sugar coating the facts. Kiss *****. People who get paid more than I do, but know a lot less.

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Thu 12/08/11 12:40 PM

UH OH HE"S BACK LOL cant say i'ver heard of that one yet but will keep my eye open for it i'm looking for something new to play havent decided what type of game to get yet though

waving waving waving


waving Yes. Been busy the last 4 months with the move. Mom. Women that lie and cheat. Friends that back stab...etc. But, I'll leave that to the so-called therapists on this site:P

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Thu 12/08/11 12:30 PM

I don't play, but am still impressed with it. My brother keeps showing me the cool extras when he gets to them.
Have you seen the "unnecessarily censored" video that's out? Hilarious!


laugh ''There's no one I wont %!@$''

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Thu 12/08/11 12:05 PM
Nice hair:smile: Tatslove At least have all their teethbigsmile Know how to take care of their feet:banana:

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Thu 12/08/11 11:30 AM
ROCKS. That is all:banana:

Didn't know where to put this, but seen video game talk here before:)

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Sun 12/04/11 06:08 PM
Attracted to only one. Kick *** personality etc. But, Im not saying:tongue:

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Sat 09/03/11 05:01 PM
Pat Benatar is awesome. I loved watching MTV when she was on. I would love to see her do some opera/classical music which she is actually trained in:)

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Sat 09/03/11 04:50 PM
Edited by shrxfn68 on Sat 09/03/11 04:55 PM
Because you reminded me of my mother/father.
Because we had sex.
You looked NOTHING like your picture on your profile.
Because there was an ice hockey game on TVhappy
You never said you charged by the hour:tongue:

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