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Sat 05/30/09 11:58 AM
The sad thing about that question is that some, or many people, find the question entirely different than the question of "If your child is drinking alcohol."

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Sat 05/30/09 11:54 AM
That is a cool tattoo.

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Sat 05/30/09 11:47 AM


LexFonteyne said being a "good communicator" among other things that women desparately seek for in a man. But what is weird is that what if the woman find a man who is a better communicator; and then later find out that isn't what she wanted solely for the reason because it is entirely something she never come to understand in the first place? That is: being a better communicator.


Well, what I've found, in most cases, is that the "good communicator" preference is another PC smokescreen which people use because, at least on the surface, everyone can sort of identify with it.

"Oh, sure, communication is important!" they say, simultaneously putting on their track shoes so they can run like hell if/when the allegedly-desired "good communicator" happens to show up.


I can speculate that in some cases, it is usually from a person who hold a managerial position in whatever profession, and confuses it with both dating someone and working with others. Trust me - I dated managers before.

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Sat 05/30/09 11:41 AM
What is it that they did for you to call it "hit on me?"

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Sat 05/30/09 11:38 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sat 05/30/09 12:16 PM

I can't concentrate at work. I've already had too many write-ups, even a suspension due to making stupid mistakes because I can't seem to pay attention. My mind is constantly cluttered with too many thoughts. I try to "not think" and focus on my work, but it dosen't seem to be working.

What are some things I can do to help strengthen my concentration?

I've tried exercising, get enough sleep, and eating right, but it doesn't seem to be working.

Any suggestions?
What are these "thoughts" that is distracting you from focusing on your job? Don't listen to those suggestions about you having add or whateva.

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Sat 05/30/09 11:11 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sat 05/30/09 11:12 AM


Kinda a silly metaphor that nature is a blind watchmaker. Kinda similar to God as an absentee landlord.




The only reason these two topics exist, creationism and evolution, is so some people will not have to do physical work for a living.
That has a germ of a truth there. But can you at least agree that some may percieve your quote as being anti-intellectualism?
The concept of the watchmaker was a religious example of Intelligent design, the blind watch maker was an intellectual parody of that idea.

So the term itself is satire.
I must confess I didn't look into the site that you have provided. Just commenting on the title of the thread.

Curious and totally offtopic:
I remember when I was about 8 years old and had a GI-Joe action figure named Bushido. Was my favorite, while the other kids wanted Storm Shadow and Snakeyes. I guess the name was the reason why I like the action figure because it has a foreign sounding name to it. I did later (when in Junior High) look it up in a dictionary and found out what it mean. Have you ever read "Hagakure?" I can recite many passages from that book. ;)

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Sat 05/30/09 11:03 AM

Why do we see the need to destroy what we dont understand? Why do we seek vengence without regard? Why do we feel the need to be governed? Why do we continue to believe in fairy-tales? Why is it that we learned to destroy ourselves long before we would become rational and logical? Just a few questions i have, maybe the answers are the cure for the idiocracy that is man-kind



"A man who views the world the same at 50 as he did at 20, wasted 30 years of his life"----Muhammad Ali


In a competition of love, its of no conseiquence who comes out on top, as we all shall reep the rewards----Martin Luther King


Sound like a misanthropic rant there. Kinda odd to quote MLK at the end though.

Maybe privitive anarchism is your political philosophy?

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Sat 05/30/09 10:58 AM
I would say, "why the silent treatment?" Why resort to this tactic and then later tell me that I was nagging you to death about why you are not talking to me? It is because you refuse to communicate! That is why I was nagging you because I needed to know what it is that I made you upset!!!!. She still never told me what I did... so **** her!

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Sat 05/30/09 10:52 AM
LexFonteyne said being a "good communicator" among other things that women desparately seek for in a man. But what is weird is that what if the woman find a man who is a better communicator; and then later find out that isn't what she wanted solely for the reason because it is entirely something she never come to understand in the first place? That is: being a better communicator.

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Sat 05/30/09 10:42 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sat 05/30/09 10:43 AM

Ya I get played all the time. Why do they assume I'm not smart enough to figure out what they are doing?
Because of your series of cases of you being played? Quite obvious.

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Sat 05/30/09 10:40 AM
I don't mind if someone I am dating is unemployed. It is just current status and does not necessarily mean that the person is going to be unemployed forever.

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Sat 05/30/09 10:28 AM
Her feelings could be hurt after maybe researching the word Dan Quale and later finding out the references of the "potatoe" incident.


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Sat 05/30/09 10:17 AM



There are much better ways of getting someone to laugh. That type of email was not one of them.
True. Especially when you don't even know the person, or something where you have no complete history of correspondence with the person who you are addressing to. I can speculate that maybe he was just simply seeing how she was going to response and had no reservation on ever wanting to connect with her. Motives? Don't know, and can only speculate on what it is. The whole thing was vague anyway.

To me, if I was to go on about it the same way that guy did, I would make sure I knew her as much as she knew me first before going about it that way.

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Sat 05/30/09 10:08 AM


I don't know. I guess maybe he wanted to see if you were able to laugh at yourself.



He's still a wanker because he surely went about it in the wrong way. Do you think anyone here finds his comments humorous?
You may be right one that. But as a guy like me, I find insults or rudeness as somewhat funny. If any person is insulted, then it is best to acknowledge that it isn't funny to them and not do it again.

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Sat 05/30/09 10:02 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sat 05/30/09 10:03 AM
I thought your name was "miss mika." among other things too.

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Sat 05/30/09 09:59 AM

So I got this email today from a complete stranger I have never seen before. It's not like we have ever spoken or have any kind of history to where we joke around or banter back and forth.


"don't u think u are too old to consider yourself quirky. That type of thing is cute when u are young, but u are 37 years old and your biological clock is running out, if not stopped already. you seem like the type who prefers men much younger than your age, maybe even men that are actually young boys. Wait a minute...come to think of it you are a teacher."


So I was a little offended, and I replied with the following:

"Uh...thank you? Not sure what you were trying to accomplish with your email...was your goal to insult me?

I had no idea that quirkiness had an age limit. So kind of you to enlighten me."


Then he replies thusly:

"are u sure you are a teacher? not very good in interpreting dialogue"


Pray tell me...was there ANY other way to interpret what he said? I thought he came across as a total wanker!


I don't know. I guess maybe he wanted to see if you were able to laugh at yourself.

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Fri 05/29/09 02:20 PM
Kinda a silly metaphor that nature is a blind watchmaker. Kinda similar to God as an absentee landlord.




The only reason these two topics exist, creationism and evolution, is so some people will not have to do physical work for a living.
That has a germ of a truth there. But can you at least agree that some may percieve your quote as being anti-intellectualism?

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Fri 05/29/09 10:33 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Fri 05/29/09 10:35 AM




One thing I dislike about other people's pet is that when one time I went out on a date, I had to go and pick her up at her house. And surprise! She answered the door with a bright smile on her face and then motioned me to come in. Suddenly her dog comes to the scene and then all of the sudden the conversation consist of the name of the dog, how the dog is people friendly, and other crap that I don't care to remember. It seems to me that when someone has a dog, distractions occur either momentarily, or quite frequently where I can't even have a one to one moment with the chick.

I guess I was jealous of the dog. A big cockblocker if you ask me. LOL


Sounds like you need to date people without pets.
Not necessarily. I don't mind women having pets. It is just that sometimes they can be annoying as the same as having a dinner conversation with someone and then it get interrupted by the other answering the celluar phone every couple of minutes or so.




yup dogs are an excellent way of sorting out the seedy from the genuine! lol
Lol


If you date someone with pets, you can't expect them to change the way they deal with their pets just for you. If you're annoyed by the pets, best thing to do is look for people without them.
Only if and nothing but if she is someone I really like, then I would bite my lips and deal with the pet just so to be with her.

I am not that picky. :) but it can be annoying ...

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Fri 05/29/09 10:29 AM
*sarcasm alert* You are aware that Romeo is only 13?

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Fri 05/29/09 10:22 AM
Did the dude have a good body figure? I don't know, not that it ever happen to me; but if a chick answer the door naked and have a great body, I can be certain that I will not have a problem with that.

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