I don't think it ought to be a pedagogic creed that all public school teachers are to be instructed to give students advance literature. Why teach them to question things when the majority of them have to serve their functional purpose in our society at large as worker bees (wage slaves)? To me, let nature play it out where some students use their natural curiousity to seek out such subversive books.

Most women are not attracted to a guy going about in a self-deprecation. They want confidence even if you percieve that your flaws are quite noticable.

The "game" is nothing but a power struggle between two narcissistic egos. Whoever is the victor, has the power to determine the fate of the whole relationship.

The distinction between a "alpha-male" and a "pimp" (or a playa) is that the former is simply top of the game and does not have to prove himself to women that he is the boss, and the latter is merely a guy who creates an image of success to weak women who are easily scammed into believing that he is the best man out there for her.

You a psychiatrist? Or studying to be one?

Isn't it true that the best woman can too have the best pick? It is not like we live in Afganistan where women has no choice.

Why be so meticulous about waiting exactly for about 365 days (not including leap years) to take the next step? That number alone does not necessarily mean that you increase the chance of providing favorable results.

I feel you dude. And quite a wise perspective for a old 21 year old.



What I am trying to say is that even non-alpha males can find his non-alpha female.

That sounds like a militaristic maneuver that can't be won unless actual force has been carried out. I don't think the Iranian regime would do anything to retaliate and ostracize themselves out of favor of the international community. And everybody knows that Iran has been victimized by United States past intermingling into their domestic affairs.

Can you be absolutely wrong about that? I think you are.

Can you explain how many non-Alpha males succeed in winning the hearts of women? There are a lot of evidences backing that claim, unless you beg to differ?

I disagree. I think it is because some people rest on the idea that love has one narrow definition; and can't think out of the straight-jacket way of thinking that it means one thing.

That is because there is no trannies that is willing to take the offer of that role.

Is it true you recently had a breakup with a chick and you are now in a internet dating site for you to recuperate your sense of loss and failure to win her over?

That is why I am here:)

Love can be also considered an infatuation. Which to me is a dangerous thing if the feeling is not reciprocated by the person who you worship and hold in high esteem.

I totally get it! Men act like gentleman as long as they know that if doing so in a gentlemanly manner, would produce desirable results in their favor.

If they act like a jerk, then it is all about how poorly they excute in making the girl have a favorable fixed idea of you being a gentleman.

I think there can exist a gentleman and a jerk at the same time.

It depend on the woman's perspective on how to concieve what it means for a man to be a gentleman or a jerk.

I don't think it can be one specific thing. Usually a sudden interest in someone rest on the very idea of what attract to you as a person. So it can be relatively varied to whatever particular mode that the person is under before he or she goes out aggressively seeking out someone.


Most of the time it is a chance encounter and all the things you have been specifically targeting for is counterbalanced by the sheer fact that you have been stunned by the person of your interest. Usually preference hasn't been materialized yet till you examine what you had experienced and infer on how you felt about it.

If he or she ask first and want you to move in, first remember how much money you have before going along with the idea. It can be a blissful experience of sharing and discovering something new in someone that you never known before; but it can also be the true revealer of discovering things that will put the end to the relationship. So a backup plan is a wise idea before you enter their cave.

Has anyone had a successful contact with a member of this forum, or this site, and then later found him or herself again single?

Quite incorrect. Heidegger, who Satre derived his sources on the ontological concept of being, has in fact created Sarte's brand of existentialism.