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Mon 05/25/09 06:22 PM


That is kinda shallow. I like women in all sizes, expect the ones that are confined to their bed, or whatever the crap you see on tv.


You said that you didn't like my picture.grumble

Hey, I didn't like that one picture. It was taken far away where it look like you were having hard time seeing. Never said you were ugly. :)

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Mon 05/25/09 05:59 PM

Dude...kinda hard for me to make funny or smart-@ssed comments for a thread like this.

I got nothing but respect for the men and women who serve my family, friends and neighbors......

I guess it would be completely inappropriate to tell my old Navy story about getting my di*k caught in an 800 pound water tight hatch.....
I was just stating an opinion which later I found it to be irrelevant to the threaded discussion at hand. I apologize and it would out of place in here. :)

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Mon 05/25/09 05:46 PM
Ludwig Wittgenstein, Thomas Nagel, Aristotle, Friedrich Nietzsche, Gottlob Frege, David Hume.....

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Mon 05/25/09 05:44 PM

My picture is in every post office across the country, tell them I don't exist bigsmile
Ooogly Boogly Wanted Man from the law?

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Mon 05/25/09 05:40 PM
I don't think there is any solution to the problem. The best way is to be polite as you can be because it may had happen to you one time, or it will happen to you.

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Mon 05/25/09 05:35 PM
Do I exist? How can I be sure since my habitual mind continues to question the question.

Do I exist on how people percieve me, or how I only percieve myself? I say most certain I can be is that I know myself better than the "others."

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Mon 05/25/09 05:28 PM


I hate it when guys are called names because they want to keep their woman happyohwell
yeah me 2 what if both people are whipped?:heart:
It is called an egalitarian relationship.

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Mon 05/25/09 05:21 PM
That is kinda shallow. I like women in all sizes, expect the ones that are confined to their bed, or whatever the crap you see on tv.

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Mon 05/25/09 05:15 PM



TT, it would be ok if you ran away. Wouldn't want to stifle any of your urges. You must be exhausted jumping to all those conclusions though. Are you sure you have enough energy to run away?flowerforyou
I got good endurance.:)


Excellent, then don't let me stand in your way. Goodbye.
Left and came back. See? I run and run and run. Always on the move.

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Mon 05/25/09 05:10 PM

TT, it would be ok if you ran away. Wouldn't want to stifle any of your urges. You must be exhausted jumping to all those conclusions though. Are you sure you have enough energy to run away?flowerforyou
I got good endurance.:)

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Mon 05/25/09 05:09 PM




I was dating a girl for a while that I truly loved, and I know she loved me back. But she couldn't commit to a relationship because she'd had miserable luck with all the boys that preceeded me. Eventually I had to let her go because I knew she wasn't going to give me what I needed, no matter how much we both wanted it.

So my answer to your question is when you feel your love interest will not even attempt to meet your needs, no matter how small or great, that's when its time to throw in the towel. And that goes both ways.
When you said "couldn't commit to a relationship," did you mean that she literally does not want a relationship with you, or that she couldn't agree your acceptable terms of what the relationship shall be?


She wanted to be friends with benefits. Things got complicated when she got back with an ex boyfriend she didn't care for out of obligation and was still trying to have a real relationship with me on the side. I tried to make it work for a while, but I wouldn't lie with her while she was officially taken and eventually it hurt too much to be around her to try and make it work any longer. The guy left eventually and she was trying to get back with me for almost two years, but losing her the first time almost destroyed me and I am not strong enough to go through that again. It also really hurt that even though I know she loved me, and she knows I loved her, she couldn't give me the validation or closure I needed by telling me how she felt.
Usually it is not that simple. Some people just can't have the capacity to articulate what they feel, so they resort to inaction by not telling anything.

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Mon 05/25/09 05:05 PM



I see nothing wrong with people having OC. Some obsession can actually be someone else's strength.


OC stands for Orangecat!


But I am obsessed with his Orangutan boobies. I just want to jiggle them.laugh
Hey! be easy on the noob. You don't want me to run away.:tongue:

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Mon 05/25/09 04:58 PM
I see nothing wrong with people having OC. Some obsession can actually be someone else's strength.

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Mon 05/25/09 04:42 PM



Why am I singing Eddie Murphy's "Wookin for Wove" from SNL?!
Isn't that the famouse segment when he was portraying Buckwheat, who was selling songs on a parody music collection infomercial?



You are quick
I am a SNL junkie. Secretly watched them when my parents was asleep. Listen the show but couldn't watch it in the living room because I had a massive headphones covering the earlobes with a cord that stretch miles into my bedroom. I really believe my parents were descendants of a long line of Puritants.

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Mon 05/25/09 04:37 PM


I was dating a girl for a while that I truly loved, and I know she loved me back. But she couldn't commit to a relationship because she'd had miserable luck with all the boys that preceeded me. Eventually I had to let her go because I knew she wasn't going to give me what I needed, no matter how much we both wanted it.

So my answer to your question is when you feel your love interest will not even attempt to meet your needs, no matter how small or great, that's when its time to throw in the towel. And that goes both ways.
When you said "couldn't commit to a relationship," did you mean that she literally does not want a relationship with you, or that she couldn't agree your acceptable terms of what the relationship shall be?

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Mon 05/25/09 04:30 PM

if your gonna ask this question.


why not ask what irritates men
What irritates me? Is that some women act submissive or too motherly. I like a friendship, not a mommy substitute or a humble servant.

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Mon 05/25/09 04:22 PM

Thoughtfulthug,

I don't know where you have been before... but we do maintain a little respect here. So, if you are just here to pick on people and cause trouble, you might want to move on!
You have a strange interpretation of what I am doing here.

I never been on a defensive, so in fact how can you suppose that I am being attacked let alone me doing the attacking? She doesn't seen offended, nor am I offended of her comments to me. I find it funny.

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Mon 05/25/09 04:07 PM

Why am I singing Eddie Murphy's "Wookin for Wove" from SNL?!
Isn't that the famouse segment when he was portraying Buckwheat, who was selling songs on a parody music collection infomercial?

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Mon 05/25/09 04:04 PM



char·la·tan NOUN:

A person who makes elaborate, fraudulent, and often voluble claims to skill or knowledge; a quack or fraud.

Well lookey there, Thoughtfulthug used a fifty cent word. Please explain your attributing this word to me.
Well it has many meaning. You only choose one. What I mean is a person who does not want to create a personal relationship, and resort to possibly jokes or misleading tricks in order to get a rise out of them.


And you have come to the conclusion that I don't want to create personal relationships and resort to jokes or misleading tricks in order to get a rise out of people?

And you've figured this out in the 20 days you've been a member. Well, aren't you the smart one.


bigsmile I can be wrong.

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Mon 05/25/09 04:01 PM

char·la·tan NOUN:

A person who makes elaborate, fraudulent, and often voluble claims to skill or knowledge; a quack or fraud.

Well lookey there, Thoughtfulthug used a fifty cent word. Please explain your attributing this word to me.
Well it has many meaning. You only choose one. What I mean is a person who does not want to create a personal relationship, and resort to possibly jokes or misleading tricks in order to get a rise out of them.

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