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Tue 03/10/15 01:27 AM

Nope the hundreds of posts you see are a figment of your imagination....drinker


Feeling a bit sarcastic today, eh mate? :smile:



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Tue 03/10/15 01:12 AM
Edited by DadCat on Tue 03/10/15 01:14 AM

... possess, ... even worship...


I find these terms abhorrent when referring to a healthy relationship.

I believe these ideas lead to abusive relationships.

They remind me of power and control which is central to abuse.

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Tue 03/10/15 01:07 AM
Edited by DadCat on Tue 03/10/15 01:08 AM

Girls don't, but women do ...


I was waiting to hear this. Thank you saying Leigh.drinker
I have made it a point to avoid using the word girls and boys and use women and men. I believe it allows us to denigrate the sexes.

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Mon 03/09/15 10:29 PM
Yes, now I see these changes too as I refresh the pages.

So nice of the mingle folks to be informative.mad

I guess the don't believe in best practices.


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Mon 03/09/15 10:17 PM
Edited by DadCat on Mon 03/09/15 10:18 PM
I use the web browser interface. It sounds like you are using a phone app.

I see some changes is how my email is displayed but no functional difference. Just new facades.

I don't trust Java on my PDA so I won't use most apps.

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Mon 03/09/15 10:08 PM

I would like to say to all the ladies and gents out there if you have no information in your profile how is a person supposed to start a conversation with you? Starting a conversation usually starts over a common interest or perhapse a witty comment in your profile. but under intrests if it says I'll tell you later and under introduction it just says HI!! and nothing else is filled out how do you expect for someone to think hey i like the way this person thinks or hey i do that too even if we dont click as more then friends at least we can hang out together.. the only thing you leave a person to go on it your photo and ladies most of you dont want to be looked at just for looks and guys it is not always good to be looked at like a slab of meat.. show some substance fill out the profile so we can all chat and have fun!!!


I understand your issue. I choose to have profile that is complete and full for all to know about me and what I desire. I also choose to be part of the forums to build relationships. This reflects my behavior outside of the online world. If I see a profile that is incomplete, I pass and move on. If I see someone post an interesting message, I look at their profile to understand who they are and really know them just as I would if we met in real life. I did a lot of this before I started to contribute my $0.02 out of respect. I continue to do this as you will see I looked at your profile to understand you and your words better. It is just who I am.

Teal and others are correct. It is their choice to look to the forums for building relationships. I fully support them as I know that women are more likely to be harassed and receive unsolicited messages. It is just an unfortunate fact.

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Mon 03/09/15 09:56 PM
I believe we are all racist and sexist. It is how we choose to address our racist or sexist tendency that defines us.

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Mon 03/09/15 09:55 PM

I generalize that all wars are evil and destructive. Troops are sent to fight in them. They know exactly what they are signing up for.


Very well put. Those who enlist for military service make a choice to part of something that inherently destructive. It can be sugar-coated by such programs as Toy For Tots or by sending in the military to help after a disaster.

A long time ago I made a choice not to be part of an engineering industry that was responsible for war materials.

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Mon 03/09/15 09:39 PM
Edited by DadCat on Mon 03/09/15 09:42 PM
My Question is truncated so I will add it back here:

=== Are women posting about how men should be better unfairly labeled as man haters? ===

I saw a topic where this is posted so I though we should give it a separate topic to open the discussion.


.. if I were a man who said things about how men should do better it would be different, but since I am a woman I'm labeled a man hater. I can be objective that's all.

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Mon 03/09/15 08:56 PM
Welcome to mingle and enjoy yourself.


Have you met the cam girls yet?


Where are these cam girls anyway?sad

They never write to me...

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Mon 03/09/15 08:54 PM
Welcome to mingle!

The tape measure is kept next to the red box by the back doorlaugh

Please return it clean.

Thank you.

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Mon 03/09/15 07:16 PM

happy me day everyone drinks

I'm Ana, immigrant turned citizen.
born in Mexico. raised in California. usually don't quite fit in. simple things make me happy.

drinker


Yes, I see you pop up on the searches.
Glad to know you my neighbor.
Everyone fits in around here.

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Mon 03/09/15 06:47 PM
Dr. Carl Sagan

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Mon 03/09/15 06:16 PM


:heart: More Peace on War :heart:

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Mon 03/09/15 06:14 PM
Hooray day for all three of us.
Me, Myself and I.

3 is a magic number...

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Mon 03/09/15 06:10 PM
I do hope every woman and man is respected and cherished for who they are every day no matter what the calendar says. We will evolve to that as we teach our children to respect and love each other equally. We need to reject the pervasive sexism.

I hope that I have achieved a balance in raising my child though I understand they are highly influenced by the media to believe otherwise. Just go to Toy's R Us and see the contrast in children's toys. You can see one side of the aisle in pink and red while the other side is blue and black. We instill a sense of separation rather than inclusion from the very beginning of our lives by putting boys in a blue blanket and girls in red.

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Mon 03/09/15 02:01 PM
Photos of our performing arts group on sfgate.com

Stilts:
http://www.sfgate.com/aboutsfgate/slideshow/Chinese-New-Year-Parade-104896/photo-7625007.php

http://www.sfgate.com/aboutsfgate/slideshow/Chinese-New-Year-Parade-104896/photo-7625203.php

Drummers:
http://www.sfgate.com/aboutsfgate/slideshow/Chinese-New-Year-Parade-104896/photo-7625280.php


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Mon 03/09/15 07:05 AM
Hello and Welcome to the Forums.

I will tell you there are many possibilities here. Look in the forums and you will see the real people. Participate and learn about us beyond what you see in a profile.

I wish you the best in your search.

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Mon 03/09/15 01:15 AM

"I'm just sittin' here watching the wheels go 'round and 'round.
I really love to watch them roll.
No longer riding on the merry-go-round.
I just had to let it go.
I just had to let it go."

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Sun 03/08/15 11:04 PM

Women have that special quality that no man can ever posess or understand....that emotional / psychological chemistry....they can make a house into a home with their touch...they play a major role of wives, sisters, mothers & so on & they create life....they make the home a better place with their love & care & compassion....they can lift your spirits when all hope is lost & can be there for you & make you happy....when they truly love, consider yourself the luckiest man....the world would be lost without women but for me i only seek 1 special woman....i love women theyre the most complex & unique creation of God that need to always be cherished, respected, valued & treated like Queens.


Well said ((UnknownRomeo)). They are the yin of our yang and we will cherish that which they bring to our lives. Especially the gift of a new life. I know without the woman I met years ago, I would never have the love of my beautiful child.

p.s. FYI: As for cooking, the best chefs in the world are male.

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