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Hello and welcome to mingle.
I encourage your to be honest and straightforward as you say and post some photos. Best to you. |
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Topic:
hey everyone
Edited by
DadCat
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Tue 03/17/15 02:40 PM
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Welcome to mingle.
I like your photos. Perhaps some more of your interests would be helpful. I wish you the best in what you seek. |
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 Resurrected from 24/04/2008
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I consider myself to be good looking and attractive.
I am unique in my views on parenting as I practice non-violence. I consider myself to be worldly in the sense that I look for the common needs and concerns of our globe. I evaluate myself each day and strive to improve upon who I am. I am comfortable to be myself. I read your words, past and present and look at your profiles to understand who you are and what you values and desires are. I also watch alternative and subversive news articles on AJE. Thank you for opening this topic ((iamwhoiam1))  .
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Edited by
DadCat
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Tue 03/17/15 09:04 AM
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Jealousy and Trust
I believe jealousy comes from a lack in trust in another person. I do not believe that I express jealousy towards someone if I love them. I trust that they are behaving in a way that is respectful to me and to our relationship. If I feel they are being disrespectful to me and our relationship I talk to them about it. It is not about jealousy. It is about the emotional pain of being disrespected by a woman I love. If she shows her affections to another man inappropriately there is something wrong in the relationship that needs to be discussed. I believe that any loving relationship is worthy of efforts to make sure that we don't have problems. If we have problems we use trust as a basis to work them out. If we have true love we can expect our partner to offer and give forgiveness for any mistakes or errors or hurt that we put up on the other. We are humans and are bound to make mistakes. It is beyond being human (divine) to allow a place for forgiveness. That makes us better than just humans. |
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Edited by
DadCat
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Tue 03/17/15 12:27 AM
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"Why are there so many from overseas trying to meet people" Because it is an international web site.... All of the members from other countries that I have had contact with were real..... I have sustained a few long and pleasant conversations with people overseas. Some of them are actually right here in the forums. They are a part of my circle of friends. I have actually had several women ask me to contact them by their private email shortly after we begin exchanging letters. I politely tell them I do not want to do that until we have built a trust. I have found some of them will continue to use mingle. Some don't. This informs me that some people just prefer to use their private emails and will 'stick it out' with me when they have a genuine interest. Apparently my experience is not unique so I would discourage anyone from disparaging someone from 'overseas'. The perspective of what constitutes 'overseas' depends which side of the pond you stand on. 
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Because most locals suck. I find agreement with this sentiment. I find so few people locally that will engage in a conversation and even fewer who will sustain it to fruition (phone call, coffee meet, date?). And this was true in my experience for both m2 and other 'dating' websites. I also find the 'Mutual Match' feature useless as it attempts to match me with dead profiles for the most part. |
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Edited by
DadCat
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Tue 03/17/15 12:10 AM
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Is anybody really real anymore? Why is it so difficult to find genuine guys with morals? Please, someone tell me they still exist!!! lol I am real. I have a set of beliefs that guide my behavior. We may disagree about the term morality though. And I haven't lost faith either. There are also several others here. I know them. I see their words here in the forums. And there are many women here with great personalities and agreeable beliefs. There are also some without here. I ask you to participate here in the forums, watch and learn. You will see us. You will find insight into the ones that are genuine and 'real'. |
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Topic:
I'm screwed.....
Edited by
DadCat
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Mon 03/16/15 08:07 PM
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A massage chair...I could whack him with it...or relax him... We should team up as I have a bottle of massage oil. Oh wait, that's on my right. 
I have my cell on the left. We could let him talk to my ex gf... 
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.. I feel sad and lonely.. I'm getting close to that time. Of year when I brought my dad home when he had cancer... at the time we did not know it was cancer.... he died a few months after bringing him home.... I miss him so much.. I miss our talks I miss laughing with him.. when I think of him I push the pain down deep inside.... the pain of missing him the pain of still needing him in my life..... but some days no matter how hard I try I just can't push it down deep enough... .. I miss you dad... I really miss you.. . even now I force myself.. choke back these tears.... I don't know why I just can't let go.... I can't let myself feel this... I don't want to admit you're gone... if I cry it is like saying to myself that you are gone..... .. I don't want you to be gone.. . I miss you so bad.... .... sorry... sometimes I just need to break down  just a little bit....... much better now..
.haha.. not really but what are you going to do.... you know.. 
. (((=no1phd))) Sunday is the anniversary of my father's passing. We were very close and I find deep empathy for you situation and feelings about letting go. I know that by letting it out I am able to move forward so you have my understanding. Miss you papa! 
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I am pleased to see many of you joining in the community while you seek greater connections.
There is no clich� in seeking love  as it my belief we are her together to love and be loved. Not much different than when we were children.
I know that many of you have made me feel very welcome in the short time I have been her. I do hope that continues. 
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Topic:
Just Me ^_^
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Hello and welcome to mingle.
You have a great positive attitude so please join us in the forums. You may find what you seek. My best to you. |
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Topic:
New
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Hello and welcome to mingle.
I wish you the best in what you seek. Please join us in the forums and contribute to the discussions. |
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Topic:
Its my topic
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Hello and welcome to mingle
... markie post Ahh... the 80's sitcoms were good to us, weren't they? |
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Topic:
Newly separated
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Hello and welcome to you.
As you see there are very good people here. I understand the difficulty of your situation. I do hope you children will also be comforted during this period of separation. I encourage you to participate in the forums. I look forward to sharing with you soon. I wish you the best in your pursuits. |
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Topic:
it is useless.......
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Welcome.
I suggest that you make it complex to be married and ask for a woman to date you. This makes any woman concerned. Perhaps you should seek friends first. I wish you the best in finding someone to relate to and share. |
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Topic:
Looking bf in manila
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Welcome to mingle.
I am sure you will find someone for activities and much more here. I wish you the best in your search. |
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I think because our standards heighten with every experience. The older, the more experienced...The older we get the more lessons learned and the taller the wall gets. I see the words you write WonderWoman and they truly inspire me. I encourage caution in building a wall as you may miss opportunities you can't see from within your wall. |
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Yes, there are many challenges to a successful relationship as we get older. However, I would also challenge the notion that we bring baggage. That is a choice.
Personally, I believe that I am a better person for having the taken the time to consider my life and own up to my flaws. I'm 'unperfect'. I am also willing to make compromises and accept a woman in my life for the beauty of her total self including the flaws. This is richness to be regarded and cherished. I also realize that I am unique in my views. I have faith I will find a woman capable of accepting me for who I am as much as I am capable of accepting her for who she is. I know I am worthy. |
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I found an old thread with a similar question (2008) so I thought I would resurrect the topic.
I came here because I was looking to find adult conversation with other single parents. I am a single parent myself so I know the difficulties in having a relationship. I have stayed because I found a group of people here in the forums with whom I can talk and share ideas. I have come to know them as friends in many ways even though I have only been here just over 1 month. I also have developed relationships with a few people with whom I write and exchange letters with regularly. Some may be distant but our letters and shared conversation bring me great satisfaction and joy at times. |
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