Do girls understand meaning of true love ? I am asking this because as far as i know about love. Love means adore, desire, possess, care for and even worship. But we can't show how much we adore her...
and they treat our...... desire as lust, possess as dictatorship, care as possessiveness.....
Correct me if i m wrong......

Why can't you show her how much you adore her?

I think I nodded off

Yes you are wrong there....women differ in every culture & have different social backgrounds so which ever way you look ar it there is one basic concept you are lacking that is making that happen

Well said

Maybe some yes, some no...it depends on the individual's perception and their idea of true love.

What about respect, support, attentiveness, gentleness, patience, tolerance?

and they treat our...... desire as lust, possess as dictatorship, care as possessiveness.....

Hmmm.. well going by most of the posts from your comrades in India, lust, dictatorship & possessiveness seems to be the norm.

Ever thought about writing a Book regarding these?
It would be a best seller amongst feminist groups

so are you saying it's the womans fault that she thinks your lusting, controlling and possessive?

maybe you should think about why that is...

I have a problem with the usage of the word "possess".



I agree with Estelle.

Also security.

love.. uhmm

Come on Natalie, sing along

I'd like to teach the world to sing
In perfect harmony

I'd like to build the world a home
And furnish it with love
Grow apple trees and honey bees
And snow white turtle doves

maybe true love means different things to different people.
worshipping is for God.
lust is just physical, a basic animal urge which could be satisfied by any willing body.
possession is for obects, completely impersonal unless it's an object of sentimental value, but an object nonetheless.

care for is the only one where you start to be on the right track.

love is many things and not easily defined. it's about companionship. understanding each other. encouraging each other. sharing hopes, dreams, joys, fears.
being there for them, offering comfort in dark moments.
acceptance even on their less than perfect day.
and that's only the beginning.

I guess I don't know the meaning of true love. I thought it was different...they need to make fairytales for little girls about the meaning of true love according to true men, that way they will know what they will face later in life including where to go for help seems useful.

I was never brought up with fairy tales. I had real life. My dad died while serving his country when I was 7 and I was taught by my mother to be a strong woman with or with out a man

just leave off the "true" part, it seems to complicate things for people... didn't the beetles sing "love is all you need"?

All my sincere respect to your Father young lady

Thank you Joe. I know my daddy is watching over me but my mom taught me to be a strong woman. I don't hate, I try to be good and if I wrong someone, I own it.

I'm grateful for what I am now.

I don't judge people without a reason. I am who I am

true love is being a partner (good and bad), showing love not hate.

I just came out of an abusive relationship. I don't hate men for it. I don't even hate the ex. I feel sorry for him and know there are still good men out there