My Question is truncated so I will add it back here:

=== Are women posting about how men should be better unfairly labeled as man haters? ===

I saw a topic where this is posted so I though we should give it a separate topic to open the discussion.

there have been a lotof man hating topics lately.

sometimes a person who has been hurt blames every person of the group who hurt them.

they hide from what they most wish for.
I count myself as once having been in that group.

in order to effect change one first has to change for themselves.

I think the man haters (or woman haters from other threads) more than anything are dissatisfied with themself

I think it is a reflection of their past experiences.. men and women. They then lump all into that group which they supposing hate.

Which is unfair

But in reality if they did hate the opposite sex ( or the sex of their choice) I do not think they would be on a dating site web...of which the core reason is to attract a mate.. the same gender that they supposing hate.

I think it hurt..no hate.. and I think that the only thing that will heal that is time.

And I disagree with " should men do better"... or on that same token " should women do better"

We are adults. Able to make our own choices in life... including a mate. People need to find a person that is of their liking and be satisfied with the way that person is...and vice a versa.. meaning not expecting them to have to do better... or to change to someone else's likely.. because then you are asking someone to not be themselves.

If you don't like what you see.. there is no rule that says you have to accept that person... find another... but don't expect anyone to be anything other then themselves

"I started a joke..got the whole wold crying
I started to see ..That the joke was on me"

Do ya take that $hit seriously?

Where does it come from of late?

Maybe bordom? creativity?attention seeking? Self entertainment/entertain


Anyway it funny no matter how

Edited for off-topic.

soufie
Site Moderator

No mention is made of what is said that men should do better at? If the same could be said of both genders, that they could do better at whatever it is, then I would tend to think this is a biased comment. However, this is a dating site, so most comments good and bad from women will be about men most of the time, so in my opinion it is unfair to label them as man haters.