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Welcome butterflyann.

I do wish you the best in what you seek.

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There is something to this. The focus of your dream is more towards the pleasure derived from the encounter.



Hmmmm. An intriguing posit you make. Is it possible to elaborate?

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Best to you in what you seek.

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Best to you in what you seek.

I don't think I made it about religion. I was attempting to exclude the religious content from you article.

I believe that was clear from my words. If you felt that, then my words are misunderstood or unclear.

I do agree with you about two souls intertwining. Your words tell me we may have a kindred understanding. Have you ever read 'The Celestine Prophecy'?

It had my interest until the 2nd paragraph.

I do consider the act of sexual intercourse to be something beyond physical. I require a spiritual connection with the woman. The creation of a new life as a result is divine for me.

The rest just reminded me of religious power and control being used to manipulate sexual behavior. Much like masturbation will cause hair to grow on your palm or make you blind. Or the idea the AIDS is God's punishment against the gays.

I also consider the bible is nothing but a story book. Same for the Quran or Torah. These are man's words. Not God's. They are then used by religious orders to declare their view as aligned with God's. That is what I call religious arrogance.

p.s. I expect this topic will end up in the religious section as it more appropriate.

A beautiful acknowledgement of the complexities of human love and relationships. Well done.



And yet women and men will seek each other out and look to each other in awe for who they are.

Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? ....

Maybe you have not found the partner to fulfill your fantasy so there is no visualization of the person?

I find for myself it is difficult to fantasize about someone I have really met and consider having a dating/partner/marriage relationship with them. This is different for someone I may have met but may not feel the same desire to have a relationship with them. I do find myself sexually aroused by their presence though and have had fantasies of intimacy.

You make a good point about control. I believe this is the basis for the many wars we have in our world.

Many men do support, protect and care for women.
Many women do support, protect and care for men.
It is unfortunate that not all do the same for each other.

Just like most of your topics and postings.



Not necessarily. You make the claim to be a feminist. If one were to judge you by your writings, one could conclude you have a deep rooted bias against the human male.



Again you make biased statements against men as fact without any supporting reasoning. You should remember you are only 1 in over 6 billion with no real basis to apply them to anyone else but you. It is provocative and narrow minded thinking that only serves to create divisions and incite.

And sexism is applied equally to both men and women.
i.e Your posts and topics are all have strong sexist overtones. You use the word 'men' and 'women' when 'You' and 'I' are appropriate. You choose not to add 'some' or 'many'.

I find you to be a fascination. Saying anything more would likely result in a barrage of directed insults. I hope my words will give you an opportunity for considered reflection. More derision is not needed.

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I'm a WPA transplant myself.

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Because all you need is love. It's easy. I love unconditionally.

I love my child unconditionally.
I love his mother unconditionally.

There I no why or belief for me.

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A previous thread that has been locked posed this question:

http://mingle2.com/topic/426755



For those of you who have been communicating by private email, I offer some information to identify the location of a sender.

For all electronic mail, there is what you see in your inbox and the actual 'source' file that is transmitted across the internet. How to obtain this data is unique to each service.

In the source file you can find the IP address for the originating location. IP addresses are allocated worldwide, registered and documented.

if you go to the website domaintools.com and enter an IP address, you will be given the registration information for the allocated address. In that you will see the location for the sender. Yahoo appears to be the choice for scammers. In my experience it is also very easy to see if someone with a yahoo address is located outside the USA.

I suggest to learn more your should search this topic online. There is a lot of information about how this works and how to find out if someone you are corresponding with is outside your country.


This is not foolproof but it does give you more knowledge. And knowledge is power.

Play safe my friends.

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I wish you the best in your search.

I find the acceptance of violence as a reasonable and righteous response to an offensive text message abhorrent.