Edited by
Valeris
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Thu 01/21/16 07:55 PM
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![]() No one with any real intellect & wisdom ever boasts or belittles others with that quality. The folks that do are more accurately defined as narcissists[ not intellectuals] as they have a need to build themselves-up by belittling others. Much of the time, it is just the opposite when others redicule learning for the reason that they, themselves, are insecure in regard to their own intelligence. * PLEASE NOTE: "INTELLIGENCE" & "EDUCATION" ARE NOT SYNONYMOUS. *My reference is to those cognitively talented individuals who have pursued education. |
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Edited by
Valeris
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Mon 01/18/16 11:10 PM
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I'm sorry for you Please don't be. You obviously must not be aware of the economic policies & horrific politics of what's going-on in this country now. I envy your ignorance;} |
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Topic:
Creative Profiles
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Makes sense but realistically if I was a guy, I wouldn't bother myself with profile writing seminars on line .... especially if I just joined the sight to get laid ![]() ![]() Nooooo Seminars! Just a simplistic template[fill-in-the-blanks] kind of "instant profile for idiots";} However, if I wanted a quick shag & was too cheap to pay for it, if I were really married or involved in another relationship, or if I was a total scammer; guess I wouldn't fill-out anything either... ![]() |
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I believe that humanity is moving towards a more gender neutral balance. Where a [heterosexual] man who is aware of his feminine qualities, feels free to express them without fear of ridicule, and considers them a strength that complements his masculinity. And the reciprocal for [heterosexual] women. Those who's identity is strongly rooted in rigidly defined roles will likely be resistant. Both genders can incorporate the strengths of masculine & feminine traits without losing or degrading their gender identity. Excellent, Great Point! ![]() |
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Creative Profiles
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Boring profiles are a reflection of boring people. ![]() Do you think that maybe the person could be animated when speaking but lacking in writing skills, so that the liveliness doesn't translate on paper? ![]() No way! Sorry Ms.P; these individuals are just dim, boring, lazy, or all of the aforementioned! ![]() There's such an incredible abundance of online resources to aid the most incompetent writer that this excuse/reason is nonexistent. Heck, I've even seen templates where the individual is required to just plug-in a few words & his/her profile is automatically generated by the software! ![]() |
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I'm seriously considering volunteering my skills, time, & efforts to work for
Bernie Sanders Campaign;} I'll know more by Thursday as to the details...quite excited;} "Feel The BERN!" ![]() |
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Topic:
The types you attract ..
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Types? The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® (MBTI®) personality inventory scores me as an INTJ. The most compatible personality type for me[ my type] would be another INTJ, unfortunately such a types are quite rare, few & far between. So far on this site my encounters have been with "Types" that have not been a good match[for many reasons] & have not been compatible with elements of my own personality. Meeting another INTJ has got really nothing to do with anything except luck, timing, & elements far outside of my control[unless I could program my own algorithms into the search software].
Patience...when/if it's meant to be; it will happen. Everything's eventual;} ![]() |
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"NEED"- No. "Would Like"-Yes. But qualified with the proviso that the individual[man] could enrich, enhance, & benefit my life. Sweet! ![]() Qualities Include : Intellectual/Social, Emotional/Spiritual, & Physical/Financial. Of course, no one's going to "Have It All" but as the song goes, "Two out of three ain't bad..." ![]() |
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wolf whistle from a guy..
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Do the women pay attention to this any more? Whats your reaction? What do think of the culprit? Is this still around. I know my friend still has his car horn sound like that... I see it as a rather pedestrian, common, & prosaic expression of sexual interest. This gesture can be also be slightly embarrassing & can feel uncomfortable depending upon the situation. I don't really appreciate it nor would I be open to furthering any communication with "The Whistler". More like, "Jerk...Az*hole...Whatever;}" ![]() |
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"NEED"- No.
"Would Like"-Yes. But qualified with the proviso that the individual[man] could enrich, enhance, & benefit my life. |
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Topic:
Creative Profiles
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Boring profiles are a reflection of boring people.
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" Mr right found me, but won't respond"
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Topic:
SilverFox Club Humor
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Topic:
Help with love
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![]() ![]() Hi just wondering if anyone has any ideas for the best way to get a good lover ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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The Vikings
Agents of The Shield Chicago PD/FD American Crime Documentaries * [Some] Oldies But Goodies that I will re-watch & binge-on;}: * Babylon 5 24 Fringe Battlestar Galactica Startrek Series Stargate Series Twilight Zone Outer Limits Spartacus The Wire Rome |
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Topic:
Dating yourself
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I'm not certain that I'd date myself [as in a romantic liaison] in a narcissistic context but it sure would be cool to have a close friend with many of my own qualities & even-"the quirks" ;} |
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Topic:
Can u buy love ?
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Topic: Can u buy love ?
Of course! It's done all the time. |
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Hoping to find older women
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I am hoping to find an older women for a relationship. Is that likely to happen? No. Go find a more suitable match in your age range...Honestly? I have raised a child on my own & have zero desire to repeat that task. Nor am I "turned-on" by sleeping with children;} |
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Edited by
Valeris
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Thu 12/24/15 04:49 AM
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Without going into a whole speal on learning theory & different types of intelligence[s][blah-blah-blah,ect.]; the "IQ score/level of education" question becomes irrelevant.
What I find to be more useful in assessing any potential for compatibility is The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator of psychological types. That being stated, the other element of importance is related to personal experience & shared interests. It's nothing personal & pretty logical to assume that because I love academia & learning;it would be undoubtedly difficult for me to be happy with someone who did not share that interest & visa-versa. |
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Topic:
Investing in the process
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Honestly? ![]() Not Much;} ![]() I'm not looking for-nor do I want to get "seriously-romantically-intimately" involved with anyone. Personal relationships have always involved an imposition & expectation to fulfill the emotional & physical needs of another person which were often in conflict with those needs of my own. Currently I've got too much on my own plate & lack the interest, desire, & energy to get involved in someone else's drama. |
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