My Ex's?

YIKES!

The short version of how The [My] Ex's might feel about me, perhaps would resemble something like this. A picture's worth 1000 words, right?



When I'd get bored of dealing with them & their ways of building themselves-"Up" by verbally/emotionally-putting me-"Down"; I'd challenge them to beat me in any IQ Test of their own choice.The more arrogant & narcissistic of them,actually would. Of course, it never ended well...

Soufiehere...





Definitely, A Cool Lady & Good People;}

OP-Somehow, Sometime Soon-you seriously got to try to find, a Sense Of Humor -Somewhere! Online Dating? It's not "A Day At The Beach" or "A Walk In The Park" -No Matter what you Look Like !!!
Don't take it, seriously or personally. Learn to LAUGH-It-Off! Otherwise? You'll just get very down on yourself for no good reason... But as someone suggested-do an overhaul on your profile.

Hey why not?! GO FOR IT"Abandon the search for Truth; instead settle for a good fantasy..."

Just to be clear; do you consider this form of "anti-social behavior" to be some sort of "Deal-Breaker"? In my own experience, if I'm riding on some sort of public transport with a fellow that I'm very fond of, my unconscious choice would be to automatically plop-down into the seat right next to him.This way, providing that the vehicle remained uncrowded; we could each, "get comfy", stretch out our legs with both pairs of "feets" resting on the opposite seats. That's a femininely assertive move but generally I won't go out on a real time date with someone that I've not had an opportunity to form some sort of understanding & bond with.
But this is a brand new relationship & people[older] aren't quite sure where they stand[or, sit] & how they fit with each other yet. I don't feel that her behavior was at all-"anti-social"; she just seems uncertain[cautious] about where she stands[or-sits ] with you. If you're "The Man" -it was up to you to just get out of your seat & plop down-next to her;} That would have provided a cue that not only were you enjoying her company but also that you would be welcome to more "closeness" in going forward.

Depending upon my mood & the mind-set of the Other Individual;
I will & have employed all the above strategies. Sad to report
that gentle,sensitive, compassionate, soft spoken, & kind efforts
have not been successful. Repeated failure of communication seems to
provoke it's own kind of anger & gets me, exhausted & stressed-out.
In turn I feel compelled to "up my game" & become rather hard-azz, brusque, & bitchy in the matter. It becomes further upsetting to be
forced to employ such aggressive, cold, & callous behaviors when "That Is Not Who I Am [but,have the capacity to be]. Having to employ such a nasty display towards someone who I had once felt "Warmth" towards does not make
me feel good as a person. More often than not, it escalates into a unpleasant, ugly mess:{ The End.

Tall, gorgeous, but way out of age-range for you Dude;}

Never waste time in trying to explain or share knowledge
with those committed to misunderstanding it...

This Fellow sez, "Yes!!!"

Too "Over-It" to keep Kissin any more of These Things:



Waiting for the transformation into one of These Things:

and then he made a woman... from that same man...


I've actually done quite a bit of research on this topic.
So, please allow "A Woman" to provide some much needed enlightenment;}



"According to midrashic literature, Adam's first wife was not Eve but a woman named Lilith, who was created in the first Genesis account. Only when Lilith rebelled and abandoned Adam did God create Eve, in the second account, as a replacement. In an important 13th century Kabbalah text, the Sefer ha-Zohar ("The Book of Splendour") written by the Spaniard Moses de Leon (c. 1240-1305), it is explained that:At the same time Jehovah created Adam, he created a woman, Lilith, who like Adam was taken from the earth. She was given to Adam as his wife. But there was a dispute between them about a matter that when it came before the judges had to be discussed behind closed doors. She spoke the unspeakable name of Jehovah and vanished."
Links: http://witcombe.sbc.edu/eve-women/7evelilith.html,
http://www.biblicalarchaeology.org/daily/people-cultures-in-the-bible/people-in-the-bible/lilith/

Me too! So many clever, witty, & dapper chaps across the pond;}

Seriously? This topic has been researched, documented, & studied [To Death] by Professionals & Scholars across many varied disciplines & fields of study. Don't Shoot The Messenger & you don't even have to take my word for it; just GOOGLE The Topic!
The answer to this question should be quite obvious, requiring only a small effort to just look at the existing documentation...
Of course, a crucial element regarding the topic would be how one defines: LOVE...