Told about this before ...
- When I was seriously attracted to this Scot ... I got steeped with PMs from Scottish men
- When I had the hots for an Italian man ... I suddenly got loads of PMs from Italian men
- When I was focused on NOT wanting a loser ... I got losers only

Law of Attraction, you can tell what YOU yourself exude by what you attract.

The other day, a good-looking guy with a nice feel. Approached him, he was very interested too. We got talking. It went really well, felt good, was flirty and playful. These days I ask pretty soon how tall a man is, as it's a dealbreaker.
He was 1.80m (just an inch taller than me).
Dammit! Not the one. I really need a taller man to feel good. But I figured I could still date him (He'd mentioned that).
However ... immediately after my THOUGHT "Dammit, he's not the one for me" he withdrew. Convo went down the drain and within minutes he said he had to spent time with his kids. Shortly after he'd removed me from his contact list.

Isn't that amazing? I hadn't even said anything, yet somehow he did pick up on the vibe that something had changed. And right that very minute, second even, things changed between us. In real life, fair enough, but this even works online.

This Law of Attraction business is really incredible and can teach you a lot if you pay heed.
If you just pay heed to the types you attract, you know what you yourself put out there, what your own vibe is. They are just a reflection of that.

It certainly does seem that there is some unseen force in the universe at times. Never one that I can POSITIVELY influence, unfortunately.

But it's also possible that your own use of words, inadvertently communicated your loss of "steam" headed his way, with your test of his height, as well as that just asking such a thing, cause HIS steam to fall off.

I do know that we humans aren't instantaneous beings, most of the time. It takes us a while to process the information we take in, and to analyze it both for content, as well as for how we feel about it. Especially when sexual desire or interest is involved, it's extremely common for our libidos to carry us forward for several more "interaction segments" after our intellectual senses have gone on hiatus, but eventually, that energy drains away as well, if it isn't fueled by our hopes.

But on the "magic" end of things, I've noted in looking back, that sometimes the reason it occurred to me to start looking in some new way, wasn't because of anything more than that the "flow" was already heading that way, and I was just waking to it, and not triggering it myself. Other times, it was always there, but I was blind to it, until I learned some life lesson that made it visible to me.

"The types you attract .."

I keep attracting law officers. I wonder why.

Shhhhh.....its supposed to be the secret....

This why we have to focus on the positive and not the negative....
Focus on this....my bills are accounted for....
Not how am I ever going to pay these bills....
Visualise yourself with the type of person you want to be with....
Not focusing on the losers you have been with....

I use mood boards as a way of positive reinforcement and it is incredible how things can come to fruition....

I don't think we can influence the power of the universe, but by learning to listen to our intuition we can tap into the flow it produces....
when the blindfold comes off your intuitively made decisions begin to multiply like a snowball....

It certainly gives you a enhanced outlook on life....

I keep attracting Frank Sinatra types. Not sure what I put out into the universe, in order to attract them. Well, they just walk over to me, and start talking to me. Especially in pubs.

It's not easy to find that perfect type you want. Sometimes we have to take the near match and perfect him or her. Just a little adjustments together can make that perfect couple.

Thinking is the fastest way to travel. So why not use this power to think your way to love and romance, and instead of overthinking situations, just be yourself, after all who is better qualified to do so...

Sooo.. if I think and concentrate really hard on donuts. ..hmm then I should get donuts. Brilliant I love this plan. .lol. donuts donuts donuts... donuts donuts donuts.. lol. Wait a minute!!.. a Betty Crocker commercial just came on TV... its not donuts!! . but its close enough...wink wink.

That's just cos your a serial catkiller

Wow, Mike, beautiful! And yes, that is exactly the way to go about it!
I am learning to work with the Law of Attraction more and more, and funny how it seems more difficult to us humans to be positive and enjoy life than it is to whinge and whine and moan, haha.

Like about me going to the US to see my girl, and wanting to visit New Orleans. Money being the problem. So I started positively focusing on that, just knowing, expecting the money for that to come in.
Guess what! Within ONE month I had the money!

Right now I'm focusing on a decent camera.

I'm also trying this with finding the right partner for me now and the workshop I am going to do end of January.

That's enough to focus on now, otherwise it gets too much. But I already feel so incredibly different, better, happier. I move different, I dance a lot, just in between whatever, whilst cooking, cleaning etc.

I am definitely a happier person since I started doing this, and I wasn't even unhappy to begin with, lol.
Thank you for your story, love it!

Mock all you want, smexy, you're the one who's missing out on good stuff

Surely a 'decent camera' should have autofocus in this day and age?

Besides that, I have found in the past that when I focused on something, that is exactly what I got. Then I would quickly realise it's not what I wanted or needed. So be careful what you wish for!!

I believe that we're all fragments of a single consciousness. Fragments with the power to manifest what we focus intent on. I don't believe that means any individual can always have whatever, or whomever they want instantaneously. It's more dynamic than that. Most manifestation effects more than just me or you singularly. So, I think some level of agreement and compromise is a part of the process.

Who's really the loser, when we reject the opportunity to discover more about ourselves through others unseen qualities, by being inflexible with superficial standards?

I actually prefer to have the option for manual focus next to autofocus. My camera has auto-focus only, and sometimes it's so bloody annoying because it doesn't focus on what I want it to.

Even metaphorically it's prolly not really desirable to have. Creating and manifesting is something that should be done consciously, so it's really what you desire, and more importantly: so it's fun and you get to enjoy it!

And yes, you have to be careful what you wish for.
I once asked for more work and thus more money. I got it. Boy did I get it! I got so much, it drove me up the wall! I could barely keep up. So I was happy to get more orders (had an online shop back then), got a job next to that out of the blue, and a 3-day event I was attending with my shop which needed a lot of prep work. So more work & money came in for sure.
But I was frigging exhausted! It was too much

Now I think things through a bit more. One lives and learns, haha. Now I'd add "But not more work than I can handle" to that.
And what I also add when I focus on more money coming in "IN A WAY THAT MAKES ME HAPPY AND SUITS ME"

Lord forbid my workcoach finds me some chitty job I can't physically do or make me miserable as he||, or someone dying so I can inherit money.
That's not what I want!!

So "In a way that makes me happy and suits me."

The same with focusing on finding the right man. I realised that maybe I need to have 1 or 2 more relationships before I am ready to meet THE man for me. (This actually came up in one of Abraham Hicks' workshops, I'd never thought of it before) So then I changed my "wanting to meet my Mr Right" to "meeting the guy that's right for me now".
Otherwise I'm trying to manifest what maybe cannot be manifested yet, and that attempt would block what is needed to get there.
So yes, one has to carefully think about what one wishes for.

I'm actually starting to enjoy the whole process more and more!

So if I say in my profile that I am looking for 6ft Brazilian girls with big hooters and that Brazilian butt....then that is what I am gonna get? Sweet! There is a Mingle God!!!!

The famous Brazilian butt, sighhhhhhhh

laws of attraction , everyone comes into yr life for a reason and most are a mirror image of us to reflect what we choose or not to choose on our path of bliss

This gives me a lot to think about. It reminds me that there needs to be a marriage between my words, my actions and my feelings to activate the manifestation of my desire. Thanks for the reminder guys. I guess the challenging part is remaining focused and encouraged while you await the manifestation. Yikes! I mess this part up all the time!

think I attract psychos...guy messages me out of blue
from up north in this small town I used to go as a kid with my grandparents for ice cream
so I mention this to him and say my grandpa owned a trucking company not far from him

out of blue he names the company, my grandfather and says he grew up going to school with two of my cousins...wtf!!!

I have never killed a cereal cat.