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Topic: BBW have feelings too
Jill298's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:45 PM
I made brownieslaugh laugh

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:45 PM



if you wish to read between the lines it is by far easier to fault others than ones own self...good grief


so what you are saying is that if a woman does not starve herself to fit into some asshole's ideal of perfection, then it is OK to be rude to her?

No its not ok to be rude to her,but remember people have the right to talk to who they want!!! If a guy isnt in to bbw he has that right.I know bbw women have feelings too,but girls are the same.Look alot of girls wont talk to me cuz i have long hair these girls arent all *****es its just not what they like.To sit here and call the guy are jerk is just as bad.From what i have noticed girls are FAR more shallow then most guys!


but there is no need to be rude.Just say no thank you. You don't have to call her names.

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Sat 03/22/08 01:47 PM




if you wish to read between the lines it is by far easier to fault others than ones own self...good grief


so what you are saying is that if a woman does not starve herself to fit into some asshole's ideal of perfection, then it is OK to be rude to her?

No its not ok to be rude to her,but remember people have the right to talk to who they want!!! If a guy isnt in to bbw he has that right.I know bbw women have feelings too,but girls are the same.Look alot of girls wont talk to me cuz i have long hair these girls arent all *****es its just not what they like.To sit here and call the guy are jerk is just as bad.From what i have noticed girls are FAR more shallow then most guys!


but there is no need to be rude.Just say no thank you. You don't have to call her names.

I agree with you completely! But this does work both ways! Trust me i have been called names also

Moondark's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:47 PM
Edited by Moondark on Sat 03/22/08 01:48 PM

I made brownieslaugh laugh


I normally don't like brownies, but for some reason, they sound good right now. But some kinda of blueberry pastry sounds even better. Love to cook, but baking is my weak area. Not so good at that.

MollyLeandra's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:47 PM


bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....


most of the people on my friends list are women, so what is your point?

And please - do not speak for me. You have no idea what kind of guy I am looking for. "Sexy" originates in the mind, not the physique.


EXACTLY what I was thinking! I am a big woman myself, but that doesn't mean that I want a man with the looks of an A&F model! I want what I find is sexy, and sexy, to me, comes in all shapes and sizes, races, etc. And the heart and mind can definitely be the sexiest things about a person, in my opinion.

PhotographyNut's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:48 PM

I made brownieslaugh laugh


<----- can't have any. might get fatter lol

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:48 PM
some people are apparently confused as to the original point of this post.

If someone does not fit into your parameters for your "ideal mate", you need not be rude and call them names.

You can politely decline.

What I don't understand is why there should even be any controversy over this.

cdaddy's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:48 PM
well i personally like my women built for comfort rather than speed. you can't beat snuggling up with a woman with meat on her bones.flowerforyou flowerforyou

mcattygarnett's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:48 PM

does seeing myself tired of over eating being rude? no, i said as a whole, we have as a soiciety gotten larger...if you wish to think i am a folly for just pointing out a fact, by far, i meant no harm,so in your own words, back off


I dont see you as a bad person, men and women both need to not be so rude...you are just giving out fact and your opinion...

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:48 PM
Nothing wrong with being fat. yawn yawn yawn

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:49 PM





if you wish to read between the lines it is by far easier to fault others than ones own self...good grief


so what you are saying is that if a woman does not starve herself to fit into some asshole's ideal of perfection, then it is OK to be rude to her?

No its not ok to be rude to her,but remember people have the right to talk to who they want!!! If a guy isnt in to bbw he has that right.I know bbw women have feelings too,but girls are the same.Look alot of girls wont talk to me cuz i have long hair these girls arent all *****es its just not what they like.To sit here and call the guy are jerk is just as bad.From what i have noticed girls are FAR more shallow then most guys!


but there is no need to be rude.Just say no thank you. You don't have to call her names.

I agree with you completely! But this does work both ways! Trust me i have been called names also


and it was wrong. It is wrong to call anyone names.

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:49 PM

well i personally like my women built for comfort rather than speed. you can't beat snuggling up with a woman with meat on her bones.flowerforyou flowerforyou
drinker

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:49 PM
I don't want my man to be "hot" to the world... he just has to be hot to me

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Sat 03/22/08 01:50 PM
What is hot? yawn yawn

PhotographyNut's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:50 PM

well i personally like my women built for comfort rather than speed. you can't beat snuggling up with a woman with meat on her bones.flowerforyou flowerforyou


WOOHOO!!!!drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

mcattygarnett's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:51 PM





if you wish to read between the lines it is by far easier to fault others than ones own self...good grief


so what you are saying is that if a woman does not starve herself to fit into some asshole's ideal of perfection, then it is OK to be rude to her?

No its not ok to be rude to her,but remember people have the right to talk to who they want!!! If a guy isnt in to bbw he has that right.I know bbw women have feelings too,but girls are the same.Look alot of girls wont talk to me cuz i have long hair these girls arent all *****es its just not what they like.To sit here and call the guy are jerk is just as bad.From what i have noticed girls are FAR more shallow then most guys!


but there is no need to be rude.Just say no thank you. You don't have to call her names.

I agree with you completely! But this does work both ways! Trust me i have been called names also
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does anyone not have anything nice they can say to another person instead of being so hateful if they are not interested in them, I have had the rude comments from men, just as I am sure that you men have gotten them also..I just feel there is no need for anyone to be rude

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:51 PM

What is hot? yawn yawn
yawning at me isn't hotlaugh

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:51 PM

well i personally like my women built for comfort rather than speed. you can't beat snuggling up with a woman with meat on her bones.flowerforyou flowerforyou
lol this must be why I bought a cadillaclaugh

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Sat 03/22/08 01:52 PM


What is hot? yawn yawn
yawning at me isn't hotlaugh

Oh well. Hot is in an opinion not a factyawn

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Sat 03/22/08 01:52 PM

I HATE men like him.

You dispise honesty? Everyone has their likes/dislike. I don't like it when a woman tels me I am not her type, but I do not hate her for it. Dating services are not like looking through a catalog, picking out a person you like, and they automatically fall for you. In my opinion they allow a person to be more selective about people, not to settle for anyone who is attracted to you. You are not going to be everyones tye for a number of reasons, and if they don't like larger women, it is their right. You are better off they tell you upfront, than lead you on. People should be more correct in their body type listing too. A lot of biger women put average in as their body type, and a ffew extra pounds when they are LARGE. Food for thought, and just my $.02

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