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Topic: BBW have feelings too
itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:37 PM
for real u dont gotta say i dont like u cause your fat

I had a man tell me he didn't want to talk to me because I was a plus size woman (not the words he used). What's up with that?


I am so tired of this...

why do they even have to say anything..

So to the men who don't want to talk to these valuputious woman..

shut ur mouths and just go away...

leave them alone...

Photo..pay no mind to these kinds..

what they forget is..

1..they are only getting older..

2..things are GOING to happen in life..that they will not like..and then woman will pay them no mind..

3..and they when they all of a sudden become plus size men...again woman will not pay them no mind...

I could go one...

but..point...these men need to stp being so shallow and shut up...

actually forgot the best part of the one liner of my point...

shame ,shame ,shame....on the men who can't even just have a conversation with a plus size woman and look past..

grumble grumble grumble grumble

:smile: :heart: flowerforyou Photo....

by the way my hands don't match my body..they look like hands of a 60 +... who wants to talk to me now....:tongue:

Cambolaya65's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:38 PM
im an azz.....mostly..LOldrinker

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:38 PM
bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:38 PM
Edited by hikerchick on Sat 03/22/08 01:38 PM

if you wish to read between the lines it is by far easier to fault others than ones own self...good grief


so what you are saying is that if a woman does not starve herself to fit into some asshole's ideal of perfection, then it is OK to be rude to her?

You'll go far here.

creationsfire's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:39 PM
People who judge on wieght are not worth your time and I totally understand. No tact is a real b1tch........no need for them to be crude:angry:

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:39 PM

bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....
i wasn't calling you a jerk... I was just asking to explain yourself. I think everyone is entitled to their opinion but to many people lack tact

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:40 PM
i try to state a fact that has become true and the reader of minds or inbetween the lines, have condemned the piano player....i also stated i am not comfortable with my own self, but hey, shoot me now

mcattygarnett's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:40 PM
I think her whole point is that no one needs to be rude no matter who you are or what you look like, I can take a polite no or I thank you for your interest, but I dont think that we are a good match....to some one being rude!!! I am no beauty queen and I never expect to be, but I try not to be rude to anyone, and all I ask in return is the same thing...Is that so hard to do?

standingbackup's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:40 PM
Guys like that are normally unsecure and think they need a Barbie to make them feel better. grumble

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:41 PM

bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....


most of the people on my friends list are women, so what is your point?

And please - do not speak for me. You have no idea what kind of guy I am looking for. "Sexy" originates in the mind, not the physique.

greekboy08's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:42 PM


if you wish to read between the lines it is by far easier to fault others than ones own self...good grief


so what you are saying is that if a woman does not starve herself to fit into some asshole's ideal of perfection, then it is OK to be rude to her?

No its not ok to be rude to her,but remember people have the right to talk to who they want!!! If a guy isnt in to bbw he has that right.I know bbw women have feelings too,but girls are the same.Look alot of girls wont talk to me cuz i have long hair these girls arent all *****es its just not what they like.To sit here and call the guy are jerk is just as bad.From what i have noticed girls are FAR more shallow then most guys!

PhotographyNut's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:42 PM
<-------- 2008 Barbie Shorter hair, shorter legs and shorter shoes lol

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:42 PM
i love all women...many bbw's carry their selves by far better than many so called models...each person has their own taste...i have had 2 strokes due to stree and seeing young people slowly killing theirselves troubles me

Moondark's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:42 PM

the worse part about this thread is the startling fact that we as a whole, men and women are now all overweight; i am 15-20 heavier than i want to be, but when i see 18-20-somethings heavier than me, and no sense of self pride, i feel sorry for that fact and what we have done to ourselves as a whole


I could stand to lose 40 pounds. Does that mean I have no self-pride? Do you think I would be in a performance belly dance troupe if I had no pride? I've seen women far heavier than I dancing in public. Women how are extremely talented dancers and I'm always amazed at how many large women are really extremely graceful and can move with such fluidity. Do you think these women have no self-pride? We have so much sense of self worth and self value that we do not let society make us ashamed of our shapes and our bodies and make up feel that we should be hiding from the world because of our weight.

Being overweight can have so many different factors that self-pride really doesn't have all that much to do with it. It really doesn't.

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:43 PM
There are so many other ways to tell someone you arent' intersted in them. You can still be honest with out being cruel, if you aren't attracted to them fine, but to come and say no way cause you're fat is just mean.

Karma's a b!atch

greekboy08's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:43 PM

bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....

This is SO true!!

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:44 PM
women turn me down cuz im fat and I don't like skinny women yawn

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:44 PM
does seeing myself tired of over eating being rude? no, i said as a whole, we have as a soiciety gotten larger...if you wish to think i am a folly for just pointing out a fact, by far, i meant no harm,so in your own words, back off

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:44 PM

i love all women...many bbw's carry their selves by far better than many so called models...each person has their own taste...i have had 2 strokes due to stree and seeing young people slowly killing theirselves troubles me


please explain what that has to do with self pride.

and why you feel it is ok to be rude to them.

Cambolaya65's photo
Sat 03/22/08 01:44 PM
"hmmmmm..i wasnt planning on buying that much."

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