That bmw was fat!

Tell him to shove his own **** right up his ass.

Asshole.

?????

What brought this hostility on?

General hostility. Towards close-mindedness.

If you can call it close-minded, I know it's only a prefrence.

But I used to be overweight and was made fun of a lot for it.

Sorry ><

I don't think she likes German engineering. . .

No prob. I was just curious because I didn't see anything specific that would have set you off. I am overweight but nobody makes fun of me, to my face at least.

I don't feel hostile about it, but I don't like it when people think it is ok to be rude to fat women. But I don't like it when people think it's ok to be rude to anyone.

Everyone is a different size!!! My best friends are over 200 lbs and one just got married and the other is living with someone!!! Beautiful people inside and out!!! Keep looking!!! There are lots of men who like plus sized women.

I don't want a man who likes plus sized women. I want a man who likes intelligent, funny, and kind women with attitude and brutal honesty.

That is all.

Yeah, big dudes need love too.. But, that's not what chicks are lookin for I suppose. Oh well.

can't speak for other chicks but I am looking for someone smart, funny, kind, and honest. Size is irrelevant. Hair, height, money, are irrelevant.

I am looking for heart and mind.

Amen to that hikerchick

I have a serious question

I have seen the term Barbie used a lot.

What makes someone a Barbie?

You know what Rose, I think a woman is only a Barbie from a man's perspective. What I mean is there a lots of beautiful,slim, technically hot women around and I would never call them Barbies. They are just women trying their best just like me. But sometimes I think men have a vision in their head of this perfect physical specimen of a woman and I would say they are looking for a Barbie. Does that make sense?

I am uncomfortable with the idea that there is some sort of conflict between the big women and the Barbies - it just isn't like that. We are all women and should support each other. It's the men's idealized perception that to me, is "Barbie". You are a beautiful woman, Rose, and I am sure there are guys who want you just for that. They don't care that you have more to offer them because they only want a Barbie doll to play with.

ty hiker...I just never really understood the term before and was only asking for someone to explain it to me

you can do my hair, undress me everywhere...

these topics absolutely kill me. going to throw out my 2 cents for what its worth.

i am a big girl, dont hide it, dont care, im me. plain and simple. i love who i am and what i am. period. someone else's opinion doesnt matter to me. everyone has a right to their own opinion.

i do not feel that there is a need to be rude about it. you can always express your opinions or likes/dislikes in a classy tactful way. no need to offend someone just because they are not your "style"

we all have preferences. i dont care who you are. it may not be a preference about looks, but perhaps personality, job, lifestyle, whatever it may be. we all have our own likes and dislikes about what we want our partner/friends to be like. if you say you dont, you lie.

as for larger women, be proud of who you are. if you dont like it, change it, you are the only one who can. but never allow someone else to make you feel less of a person because of your size, big or small. you are beautiful. i have said it time and time again, everyone has something beautiful about them. some people just choose not to look for it.

its all in how you present the package. i dont tolerate someone talking to me like an idiot. if they have no class in how they speak to me, they do not exist in my book. i have several male friends, on here and in person, who do not like bigger women, yet, they love me to death as a friend and i cherish that. we joke, we flirt, but we know that we are not the other's type for a mate. nothing wrong with that.

be happy with yourself, trust me, it will shine back at you. never tolerate being treated less than you are. once you do, you are done for. we must accept that there are jerks out there both men and women who have no idea what the word tact or class means....there is one in every crowd!

love to you all

btw rob....can i spank you?

great post Ty

People need to stop looking at looks. Personality and compatibility is all that matters

Worth repeating! Hikerchick is awesome!