Topic: BBW have feelings too
madamx7316's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:20 AM


some people are apparently confused as to the original point of this post.

If someone does not fit into your parameters for your "ideal mate", you need not be rude and call them names.

You can politely decline.

What I don't understand is why there should even be any controversy over this.


Worth repeating! Hikerchick is awesome!

id do her! bigsmile love devil :wink: laugh :tongue:

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Sun 03/23/08 10:23 AM


I HATE men like him.

You dispise honesty? Everyone has their likes/dislike. I don't like it when a woman tels me I am not her type, but I do not hate her for it. Dating services are not like looking through a catalog, picking out a person you like, and they automatically fall for you. In my opinion they allow a person to be more selective about people, not to settle for anyone who is attracted to you. You are not going to be everyones tye for a number of reasons, and if they don't like larger women, it is their right. You are better off they tell you upfront, than lead you on. People should be more correct in their body type listing too. A lot of biger women put average in as their body type, and a ffew extra pounds when they are LARGE. Food for thought, and just my $.02



It is sorta like a catolog, but you should just skip the pages you are not interested in & if someone contacts you that dosn't suit you, politely tell them so. We all have personal preferences & thatt's fine. I am not forcing myself on anyone, I want someone who really likes me, not someone who is settleing for me.

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Sun 03/23/08 10:27 AM

I don't want a man who likes plus sized women. I want a man who likes intelligent, funny, and kind women with attitude and brutal honesty.

That is all.


HIKER YOU ROCK!smooched

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Sun 03/23/08 10:27 AM

I don't want a man who likes plus sized women. I want a man who likes intelligent, funny, and kind women with attitude and brutal honesty.

That is all.


HIKER YOU ROCK!smooched

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Sun 03/23/08 10:28 AM

Yeah, big dudes need love too.. But, that's not what chicks are lookin for I suppose. Oh well.


You are a fine looking man! but you are too young for my daughter! I am a OLD fatchick!laugh laugh laugh

rarerose's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:31 AM

Yeah, big dudes need love too.. But, that's not what chicks are lookin for I suppose. Oh well.


I like a man with meat on his bones.....more to hold on too :tongue: blushing bigsmile

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Sun 03/23/08 10:34 AM
Photonut I tried e mailing you but I am blocked because of gender. I love your photo & well written profile!

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Sun 03/23/08 10:44 AM

bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....


This is so true !! Very good point ..The Sisterhood is alive and strong on this topic ..Ladies ,you must be honest how many of you have a Height requirement ?? Most of you will filter out men under 6'0. So we all have our mental check list that we go through before we qualify someone ..That man was at fault in his delivery , but he can not be faulted for having a preference.

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Sun 03/23/08 10:47 AM


bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....


This is so true !! Very good point ..The Sisterhood is alive and strong on this topic ..Ladies ,you must be honest how many of you have a Height requirement ?? Most of you will filter out men under 6'0. So we all have our mental check list that we go through before we qualify someone ..That man was at fault in his delivery , but he can not be faulted for having a preference.

drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:53 AM
<----adding 2 cents

No one should be treated in a rude manner like the OP was. There is never an excuse for that. yes we all have preferences like many here have said.

I prefer to look at actions more than looks and have dated a variety of different looks

skinny girls don't have it any easier...trust me. everyone here is beautiful and if someone can't see that then it's their loss...men or women


keep your chin up flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/23/08 11:39 AM
ohwell

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 11:42 AM



some people are apparently confused as to the original point of this post.

If someone does not fit into your parameters for your "ideal mate", you need not be rude and call them names.

You can politely decline.

What I don't understand is why there should even be any controversy over this.


Worth repeating! Hikerchick is awesome!

id do her! bigsmile love devil :wink: laugh :tongue:


aw shucks. Thanks guys.blushing

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Sun 03/23/08 11:42 AM
smokin Hot is opinion not fact.smokin

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 11:43 AM


bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....


This is so true !! Very good point ..The Sisterhood is alive and strong on this topic ..Ladies ,you must be honest how many of you have a Height requirement ?? Most of you will filter out men under 6'0. So we all have our mental check list that we go through before we qualify someone ..That man was at fault in his delivery , but he can not be faulted for having a preference.


no one is faulting his preference.

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 11:44 AM

<----adding 2 cents

No one should be treated in a rude manner like the OP was. There is never an excuse for that. yes we all have preferences like many here have said.

I prefer to look at actions more than looks and have dated a variety of different looks

skinny girls don't have it any easier...trust me. everyone here is beautiful and if someone can't see that then it's their loss...men or women


keep your chin up flowerforyou

well, for some of us, that's chins.

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Sun 03/23/08 11:56 AM

Ladies ,you must be honest how many of you have a Height requirement ?? Most of you will filter out men under 6'0.


Finally, I understand the problem! I'm 5'10".


hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 12:00 PM


bbw women want sexy guys, fat guys want skinny women...if you think i am a jerk, look at the numbers and your friends, friend list....


This is so true !! Very good point ..The Sisterhood is alive and strong on this topic ..Ladies ,you must be honest how many of you have a Height requirement ?? Most of you will filter out men under 6'0. So we all have our mental check list that we go through before we qualify someone ..That man was at fault in his delivery , but he can not be faulted for having a preference.


I do have a mental checklist but none of my factors are based on physical characteristics. I personally don't care how tall or wide someone is or how much hair he has or what color his eyes are.

What I want to know is - can he make me laugh? Can he speak in coherent sentences? How does he treat waitstaff? Is he patient, loving, affectionate, etc.

Aren't these the things that truly matter?

belledimanche's photo
Sun 03/23/08 12:01 PM

I had a man tell me he didn't want to talk to me because I was a plus size woman (not the words he used). What's up with that?

He a stupid mother freaker!

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/23/08 12:06 PM

I had a man tell me he didn't want to talk to me because I was a plus size woman (not the words he used). What's up with that?


just occured to me...maybe there could have been a misunderstanding and he wasn't rude. we are assuming rudeness when the OP said those weren't the words he used.

could there be a misunderstanding OP? Did you ask him to clarify or anything??

Just a thought...trying to see the whole picture

belledimanche's photo
Sun 03/23/08 12:07 PM

well i personally like my women built for comfort rather than speed. you can't beat snuggling up with a woman with meat on her bones.flowerforyou flowerforyou

This is funny. More cushion for the pushin'!:wink: