I think both men and women both should be honest, but lets face it this is not going to happen!! If you just be true to who you are as a person then let the chips fall as they will. Isn't it supposed to be who you are on inside that counts not what you see on outside?

Humm maybe if you would be more clear on what it is your wanting to say maybe more could comprehend.

Ohhh is it that men are not comprehending what women are telling them?


My self I have never went for the so called bad boy type. I actually go for the ones that act like a Man. That can carry on a conversation has a mind of there own and know how to use it. One that still believes in respect per say still treats a lady like a lady. One that don't whine and pout can get out there and take care of things that need to be done. They don't wait on someone to tell them what to do. That is qualitys of a Man not a bad boy. But also one that has a heart and not ashamed to show it. They will hold your hand and listen to you they know how to show what is in there heart but still know how to act like a man and not a whimp. Hummmmm sooooooooo with that said its kinda like we want the Cat not the Mouse.

I want a Man that can make decesions on his own and know what he wants in life. I'm not into raising one or making all his choices for him he should have already learned how to do that.

But yeah they must be able to show there soft side open up and talk and still know how to have fun.

you're blaming all women who are truly looking for a decent guy, that you're single. It's not MY fault you're single... nor is it your fault that I'm single or any other woman in here for that matter.

once again i dont think your getting it.

It is obvious that women are going for looks and not the "NICE GUY" that they are saying they are looking for.

that what i mean by being honest.

if a woman says in her profile, i want talll dark and handsome then fine.

but dont say im looking for a nice guy... then ignore them when the messege you..

MAYBE im trying to say be more specific..in what your looking for

The problem is, if you truely are a nice guy... a gentleman persay...
Then you always let the woman initiate contact/interest... Lol.
So, it's kinda a falacy, To expect a response back, when you say you're a nice guy.
A real nice guy, wouldn't pressure a girl to respond, or even attempt first contact... Lol.
That's why most nice guys finish last.

I think that most women, are looking for a nice guy, that's willing to take a chance on running a crack or two, thru the nice guy act, to take a chance on them, more then on ruining their nice guy "persona".
Lol... could just be talkin out my nice guy A**....
Just wanted to respond, even if it was with what seem people might deem as drivel.

oh we get it... I think you are missing OUR point

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Guys who insist they are nice and repeatedly list why they are... I find them very suspicious. Actions should speak for themselves. Telling us what your "nice actions" were is not helping your case.

It's not for you to say if you are nice. It's for others to decide. A really nice guy taught me that. He never said he was nice, either.

i can't seam to understand what you're tryin to say when you're typing seriously sucks lol

no, im not at all agitated, amused yes, but not agitated lol

again....don't lump women together. I don't go for the muscles. i go for what's inside. i am probably the nicest person you will meet an would bend over backwards to be there for someone and still get crapped on but I don't blame all men.

and raising your kids doesn't make you a nice guy or not. I've raised my son but that has nothing to do with me being nice

"nice guy" is in the perspective of the writer. Her idea of a nice guy, might not be you... and that should be OK. Why get offended if someone you don't even know, isn't interested in you?

we get what your saying...your not getting what we are saying...if a women has put shes looking for a nice guy fair enough just because she doesnt reply to you doesnt mean she isnt looking for that particular kind of man..it means she doesnt actually fancy you.

I live in a small town and every woman tell's me i am to nice.But i can only be myself.Most every other guy's here are trouble maker's.What should i do.It's getting lonley.

Hey now Women Bashing is not a way to say you are a nice guy

There are lot's of nice Women out there you must look


So what if you fall sometimes get back up and do it again
Don't blame every thing that went wrong in you choices

On every one in life Be a Man and make better choices

In your life if you would have talked to them long enough
You could have advised yourself of which ones to weed out
You don't jump in head first and Confidence in your self
Go's a long way so look at you and make the change only


You can do it no one else

I like bad boys.
Who are nice.

Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny.
But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up.

I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for.

MAYBE, you can't get a woman, cause you assume that you already know what they want?

RAISING KIDS....

i dint put down that those children werenot mine...but i rased them like my own and even after the divorce I still rais them and do things with them..that is something most men would not do...

my last "nice guy" that I dated broke my heart. Still months later recovering from it. Just because you say you're nice, doesn't make it so

At least your gender bashing is not gender specific!

Regardless women or men when you meet someone there has to be a connection there. Looks is gonna come into the factor even if it's just a small amount that person has to be someone you want to go to sleep beside everynight as well as wake up beside them everymornig. Maybe it is there smile or there eyes that grab you or there inner sweetness that makes there outer self shine but there has to be some kind of attraction first. If not we would all be blue boxs.

Lmao... This is funny! Rock on.