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Topic: All I want is for one guy to prove that they're not all the
hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:32 AM
we stick together...makes me laugh when a guy trys to question or understand us lol Lol... yes, I can see how some-one asking a question, not listening to the answer, repeatedly, over and over, can be annoying. (to either sex) that's alot like a child asking 'why' to everything...lol there is a news flash though not everyone gets around the post like others so they feel it is being asked for the first timae and the are real in there questions. We don't always hve to be so narrow minded and kill everyone oh come on!! Why not?????

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Thu 03/13/08 08:33 AM
I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. It's interesting to me that none of you "nice guys" are sending messages to women like me. Nice guys apparently only like hot women. And I would think that if a guy is sending out messages to 30 women, it's going to be hard to be personal in each one. Many people don't respond to that kind of scattershot approach. If you are sending out 30 messages that say "hi. Nice pix.let's chat" you can't be offended if people don't take time to respond. If someone sends you an interesting, insightful note that shows he read your profile and appreciates something about you other than your picture, you may be more inclined to take the time to write back. but here in Mi there are laws against humans and livestock

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:34 AM
I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. It's interesting to me that none of you "nice guys" are sending messages to women like me. Nice guys apparently only like hot women. And I would think that if a guy is sending out messages to 30 women, it's going to be hard to be personal in each one. Many people don't respond to that kind of scattershot approach. If you are sending out 30 messages that say "hi. Nice pix.let's chat" you can't be offended if people don't take time to respond. If someone sends you an interesting, insightful note that shows he read your profile and appreciates something about you other than your picture, you may be more inclined to take the time to write back. but here in Mi there are laws against humans and livestock Let's break all the rules, baby!

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Thu 03/13/08 08:36 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:37 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again.

FroznChild Joined Tue 02/19/08 Posts: 2228	Thu 03/13/08 08:38 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 03/13/08 08:39 AM
Most women don't know what they want. Most guys don't either.

FroznChild Joined Tue 02/19/08 Posts: 2228	Thu 03/13/08 08:39 AM
ive found my guy and hes a good un...but these "so called bad guys" are crafty..they can put on all the charm and sweetness then turn into arses at the drop of a hat..i havent and wont ever put up with been treated like rubbish so to me it isnt a matter of good guy, bad guy..its the individual that counts that's true had one that after 3 years of marriage turned into a real azz now here i am single looking for who ever Lmao... I could be who ever... I really could. Common... just give me a chance... People "always change" so quickly.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:39 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:40 AM
Most women don't know what they want. Most guys don't either. I nominate Wiley for president. Truer words were never spoken.

FroznChild Joined Tue 02/19/08 Posts: 2228	Thu 03/13/08 08:40 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more! Lmao... Syao... (spankin your ass off... lol) A nice guy, knows when it's time to no longer be nice... (lol, when the girl tells him)

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:41 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more! Lmao... Syao... (spankin your ass off... lol) A nice guy, knows when it's time to no longer be nice... (lol, when the girl tells him) where have you been all my life? Oh, yeah , for the first half you weren't even born yet.

FroznChild Joined Tue 02/19/08 Posts: 2228	Thu 03/13/08 08:42 AM
Men and women are like buses... another will come along every five minutes... Thing is, why do I always get stuck on econo-class?

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Thu 03/13/08 08:42 AM
I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it.

FroznChild Joined Tue 02/19/08 Posts: 2228	Thu 03/13/08 08:43 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more! Lmao... Syao... (spankin your ass off... lol) A nice guy, knows when it's time to no longer be nice... (lol, when the girl tells him) where have you been all my life? Oh, yeah , for the first half you weren't even born yet. Lol... yes, but we can more then make up for it, in the second half! (eager to please)

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:44 AM Edited by hikerchick on Thu 03/13/08 08:44 AM
I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more! Lmao... Syao... (spankin your ass off... lol) A nice guy, knows when it's time to no longer be nice... (lol, when the girl tells him) where have you been all my life? Oh, yeah , for the first half you weren't even born yet. Lol... yes, but we can more then make up for it, in the second half! (eager to please) there is no screaming emoticon ......

FroznChild Joined Tue 02/19/08 Posts: 2228	Thu 03/13/08 08:44 AM
I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 03/13/08 08:44 AM
Men and women are like buses... another will come along every five minutes... Thing is, why do I always get stuck on econo-class? prolly the same reason i get stuck on econo-class lol

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 03/13/08 08:45 AM
I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right. can you be more specific?

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Thu 03/13/08 08:45 AM
>>>>>>>>>"Nice guys and jerks/players tend to be the same guy.. just choosing different tactics. They both want your attention.. One chooses the pity method, the other chooses telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Both could care less about what you want or need, if it does not serve them directly." <<<<<<<< Jistme, I think you nailed it!