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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. 
That goes both ways. That is across the board. Want some cheese? |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all.
That goes both ways. That is across the board. Want some cheese? |
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I'm not one to come out and say I'm a nice guy. I'd rather let women judge for themselves whether I'm a nice guy or not. I'm just funny that way.
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well idk if i am nice or not but I do want my cheese
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well idk if i am nice or not but I do want my cheese Caam does love cheese Just not on a woman's thighs
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well idk if i am nice or not but I do want my cheese Caam does love cheese Just not on a woman's thighs
Lol... disgusting... lmao. |
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well idk if i am nice or not but I do want my cheese Caam does love cheese Just not on a woman's thighs
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He makes me work out every damn day
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Don't play innocent with me
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I was not woman bashing,or i did not mean to.I only mean't to say is most of the lady's down here say they only want bad boy's and that is hard in a town of 1100 people. Yup.. that would be a small town. I've lived in a few of those.. I've even lived in places where I didn't see other human beings for weeks at a time. Where it took at least a day long horseback ride and then a 5 hour drive to get to the nearest small city. You live roughly 50 miles from downtown Dallas, Texas! Focusing on the negatives of any situation, only brings you a negative outlook. __________________________________________________________ In regards to the original thread maker. Come on girls! I'm ashamed of you. His profile says he has a job, a car and a home. He says he is nice. He is into electronics and racing too! He is unique, based on those qualities! Can't you see that? What woman wouldn't want to take him home for their very own. Oh yea.. and he is separated, not divorced. You'd think that little piece of information would reflect his reality, and if it didn't.. It would be changed in a heartbeat. I know my status would. But still.. He is a good man and deserves to have someone sitting at the sidelines waiting for him to straighten out his life. You could do that, can't you? ___________________________________________________ There is a very thin line between a self professed 'Nice guy and the jerk, or Bad boy. We tend to believe that in between the two is a range of people and behavior. I see it differently. Nice guys and jerks/players tend to be the same guy.. just choosing different tactics. They both want your attention.. One chooses the pity method, the other chooses telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Both could care less about what you want or need, if it does not serve them directly. The ones that don't fit either description are just people trying to get on with life. As quietly and discreetly as possible. Should they happen to stumble into you along the way? They are very interested in what you think, believe, want and need. They are capable of kindness and graciousness. They are equally capable of being the opposite.. and everything in between... just like any other human being. Where do I fit in all this? That is not for me to say. Ask some people that are familiar with me.. They will tell you what you need to know. Hopefully, both the good and the bad. |
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<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<innocent yep thats my story, and sticking too it
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<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<innocent yep thats my story, and sticking too it Just an act Don't believe it Not happening, Pal |
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Jist, well said as always
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ive found my guy and hes a good un...but these "so called bad guys" are crafty..they can put on all the charm and sweetness then turn into arses at the drop of a hat..i havent and wont ever put up with been treated like rubbish so to me it isnt a matter of good guy, bad guy..its the individual that counts had one that after 3 years of marriage turned into a real azz now here i am single looking for who ever |
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yep Jist good post but he left sooooooooooooooooooooooo
where the heck is my cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese |
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<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<innocent yep thats my story, and sticking too it Just an act Don't believe it Not happening, Pal |
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I was not woman bashing,or i did not mean to.I only mean't to say is most of the lady's down here say they only want bad boy's and that is hard in a town of 1100 people. Yup.. that would be a small town. I've lived in a few of those.. I've even lived in places where I didn't see other human beings for weeks at a time. Where it took at least a day long horseback ride and then a 5 hour drive to get to the nearest small city. You live roughly 50 miles from downtown Dallas, Texas! Focusing on the negatives of any situation, only brings you a negative outlook. __________________________________________________________ In regards to the original thread maker. Come on girls! I'm ashamed of you. His profile says he has a job, a car and a home. He says he is nice. He is into electronics and racing too! He is unique, based on those qualities! Can't you see that? What woman wouldn't want to take him home for their very own. Oh yea.. and he is separated, not divorced. You'd think that little piece of information would reflect his reality, and if it didn't.. It would be changed in a heartbeat. I know my status would. But still.. He is a good man and deserves to have someone sitting at the sidelines waiting for him to straighten out his life. You could do that, can't you? ___________________________________________________ There is a very thin line between a self professed 'Nice guy and the jerk, or Bad boy. We tend to believe that in between the two is a range of people and behavior. I see it differently. Nice guys and jerks/players tend to be the same guy.. just choosing different tactics. They both want your attention.. One chooses the pity method, the other chooses telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Both could care less about what you want or need, if it does not serve them directly. The ones that don't fit either description are just people trying to get on with life. As quietly and discreetly as possible. Should they happen to stumble into you along the way? They are very interested in what you think, believe, want and need. They are capable of kindness and graciousness. They are equally capable of being the opposite.. and everything in between... just like any other human being. Where do I fit in all this? That is not for me to say. Ask some people that are familiar with me.. They will tell you what you need to know. Hopefully, both the good and the bad. |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all.
It's interesting to me that none of you "nice guys" are sending messages to women like me. Nice guys apparently only like hot women. And I would think that if a guy is sending out messages to 30 women, it's going to be hard to be personal in each one. Many people don't respond to that kind of scattershot approach. If you are sending out 30 messages that say "hi. Nice pix.let's chat" you can't be offended if people don't take time to respond. If someone sends you an interesting, insightful note that shows he read your profile and appreciates something about you other than your picture, you may be more inclined to take the time to write back. |
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ya know, i find it amusing that these 'good guys' that whine about not gettin a reply to their emails haven't been on here but for a few months...and not only have they not posted, but i've yet to recieve an email from 'em myself..
these blanket statements make me laugh at how ludacris they are
how's that pacifier?? |
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