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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all.  I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Have you really recieved an E-mail that says, nice rack? What are they, clothes shopping? |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. 
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I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right. can you be more specific? Yes, I was going to have to go back a few pages, but henny saved me... Jistme. |
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Men and women are like buses... another will come along every five minutes... Thing is, why do I always get stuck on econo-class? prolly the same reason i get stuck on econo-class lol Lol.... We could sit next to each other... I'll save you a seat... |
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Most women don't know what they want. Most guys don't either. True, which is why so many just list what they DON"T want. "been there, done that". |
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Men and women are like buses... another will come along every five minutes... Thing is, why do I always get stuck on econo-class? prolly the same reason i get stuck on econo-class lol Lol.... We could sit next to each other... I'll save you a seat... deal :D |
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>>>>>>>>>"Nice guys and jerks/players tend to be the same guy.. just choosing different tactics. They both want your attention.. One chooses the pity method, the other chooses telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Both could care less about what you want or need, if it does not serve them directly." <<<<<<<< Jistme, I think you nailed it!  |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Rescue Mission over You have gone way deeper than I can even fathom |
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I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more! Lmao... Syao... (spankin your ass off... lol) A nice guy, knows when it's time to no longer be nice... (lol, when the girl tells him) where have you been all my life? Oh, yeah , for the first half you weren't even born yet.  Lol... yes, but we can more then make up for it, in the second half! (eager to please) there is no screaming emoticon ...... Lmao... can you be more specific on that? |
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I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right. can you be more specific? Yes, I was going to have to go back a few pages, but henny saved me... Jistme. oh yes, is it any wonder lilith loves this man? He always has something good to say...except for last night. |
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 I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Rescue Mission over You have gone way deeper than I can even fathom |
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Men and women are like buses... another will come along every five minutes... Thing is, why do I always get stuck on econo-class? prolly the same reason i get stuck on econo-class lol Lol.... We could sit next to each other... I'll save you a seat... deal :D Would you like the window seat? or should we stand and hold the loops? |
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I like bad boys. Who are nice. Like, rebels-without-a-cause who spank me and call me their hot *****, and are crudely funny. But who are secretly sweet and don't cheat on you or beat you up. I think that's what women want. Well, women who go for bad boys, that's what they hope for. I want to make it clear THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT! oh come on, we all like a good spanking now and again. Wouldn't a truly nice guy, give the girl what she wanted? Lol. j/k Indeed he would. That, and more! Lmao... Syao... (spankin your ass off... lol) A nice guy, knows when it's time to no longer be nice... (lol, when the girl tells him) where have you been all my life? Oh, yeah , for the first half you weren't even born yet. Lol... yes, but we can more then make up for it, in the second half! (eager to please) there is no screaming emoticon ...... Lmao... can you be more specific on that? YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE-HAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Have you really recieved an E-mail that says, nice rack? What are they, clothes shopping? I got that all the time when I had a picture posted. |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Rescue Mission over You have gone way deeper than I can even fathom Isn't that a good thing when a guy does that? 
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I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right. can you be more specific? Yes, I was going to have to go back a few pages, but henny saved me... Jistme. oh yes, is it any wonder lilith loves this man? He always has something good to say...except for last night. How is it that you manage to pop between the forums so quick... I'm sure you're not refering to me on this one. |
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posted by the guy with "niceguy" in his name....
There is no such thing as a "good" or "nice" guy. There are bad boys, and then not-so-bad boys... But if you look hard enough or spend enough time with a man... you'll eventually realize that he has the characteristics of a "bad boy". Damned if you do, damned if you dont |
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Most women don't know what they want. Most guys don't either. True, which is why so many just list what they DON"T want. "been there, done that". so we are basically picking them by default |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. Are you serious? I thought you were ignoring me! I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Thu 03/13/08 08:57 AM
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What a woman wants... hmmmmm. Do we know?
I do not, not in a way I can accurately describe. I only know that I do not know what I need, only what I think I want. Those things are cetainly not the same. After sorting out all the bull and dealbreakers, it seems I am well suited to a person who does not "yes" me. A person who challenges me in a myriad of ways and a person who accepts me for my flaws and is also not afraid to point them out in a supportive and constructive way. There is passion, both physical and intellectual. That is what this woman wants. That's jist me.  edited for spelling correction* |
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