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Topic: All I want is for one guy to prove that they're not all the
niceguy4u937 Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 72	Thu 03/13/08 07:14 AM
all i know is when i go out with a women and be the sweet guy that i was raised to be. Opening doors,paying compliments,no not too many. It seems that I get dumped for a , drug dealer,rich guy, or possevize men that wont allow thier woemn to do anything...

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 03/13/08 07:15 AM
lol i dont get aggitated hun...not in my nature..i make my point and say it how i see it...so tell me what kind of women do you want lol

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 03/13/08 07:16 AM
all i know is when i go out with a women and be the sweet guy that i was raised to be. Opening doors,paying compliments,no not too many. It seems that I get dumped for a , drug dealer,rich guy, or possevize men that wont allow thier woemn to do anything... ok then maybe it's you that are going after the wrong type of girl I would never turn a nice guy down for trash

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 03/13/08 07:16 AM
all i know is when i go out with a women and be the sweet guy that i was raised to be. Opening doors,paying compliments,no not too many. It seems that I get dumped for a , drug dealer,rich guy, or possevize men that wont allow thier woemn to do anything... ok then maybe it's you that are going after the wrong type of girl I would never turn a nice guy down for trash

niceguy4u937 Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 72	Thu 03/13/08 07:16 AM
well when a nice guy contacts a woman who says they are looking for a nice guy.. and get absolutly no response..it makes you think aobut what that persons motivation is..LOL

sandnpearls Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 125	Thu 03/13/08 07:17 AM
women arent really b$%ches , its just that alot of guys need adult supervision, lol

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 03/13/08 07:17 AM
well when a nice guy contacts a woman who says they are looking for a nice guy.. and get absolutly no response..it makes you think aobut what that persons motivation is..LOL not true... there could be many reasons you didn't get a reply other than "you're a nice guy"

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 03/13/08 07:17 AM
lol then maybe its just you hun

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 03/13/08 07:18 AM
well when a nice guy contacts a woman who says they are looking for a nice guy.. and get absolutly no response..it makes you think aobut what that persons motivation is..LOL or it could be that they are worried that the nice guy will turn out to be a bad guy in disguise. there are different reasons and you can't lump every woman into the same catagory

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 03/13/08 07:18 AM
all i know is when i go out with a women and be the sweet guy that i was raised to be. Opening doors,paying compliments,no not too many. It seems that I get dumped for a , drug dealer,rich guy, or possevize men that wont allow thier woemn to do anything... Ever thought this might have something to do with the women you go out with? In this case, then it is still you, and not them. If you keep having the same thing happen to you.... you are the common denominator. Blaming what women write in their headliners is not your solution.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 03/13/08 07:19 AM
maybe... you're really not as nice as you think you are?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 03/13/08 07:19 AM
good morning Lilith

niceguy4u937 Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 72	Thu 03/13/08 07:19 AM
yeah maybe it is me...but i guess then that would jsut make women shallow since they dont even take the time to get to know who i am... when i got on this site i was jsut spliting up...I lost everyting. no job,car,or place to live... i had many women chatting with me..LOL now i kicked but.. have a job,car, aprtment... seems like no one is interested.. GOd has a funny sense of humor LOL

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 03/13/08 07:21 AM
yeah maybe it is me...but i guess then that would jsut make women shallow since they dont even take the time to get to know who i am... when i got on this site i was jsut spliting up...I lost everyting. no job,car,or place to live... i had many women chatting with me..LOL now i kicked but.. have a job,car, aprtment... seems like no one is interested.. GOd has a funny sense of humor LOL are you listening to yourself????? just because a woman may not be interested in a guy....doesn't make them shallow. I'm sure you aren't interested in every nice woman out there. I'm just saying....please don't lump all women into the stupid, shallow catagory

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 03/13/08 07:22 AM
yeah maybe it is me...but i guess then that would jsut make women shallow since they dont even take the time to get to know who i am... when i got on this site i was jsut spliting up...I lost everyting. no job,car,or place to live... i had many women chatting with me..LOL now i kicked but.. have a job,car, aprtment... seems like no one is interested.. GOd has a funny sense of humor LOL funny how you take none of the responsibility for yourself. I'm nice, I have a good job, a nice car, a house, and I'm funny as all hell lol, but I'm still single. I don't go around blaming men because I'm single and they won't date me. If he can't see the real me, his loss.

niceguy4u937 Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 72	Thu 03/13/08 07:22 AM
im not nice? I rased to children as my own from the ages of 2 and 3 they are now 17 and 18... honor students and not in trouble. I fix my ex computer when she needds it and her car when we split she needed mooney so i gave her all the money i had. to help her out. No im not nice at all. I do amny things for people when they ask so if thats not nice well...

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 03/13/08 07:22 AM
number one sounds like your trying to hard and number two im a great believer it happens when it happens, no god involved...been on my own for 9 years ..it happens you deal with it

niceguy4u937 Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 72	Thu 03/13/08 07:23 AM
yes i know how to spell.. i just cant type..LOL

CHEFRON Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 524	Thu 03/13/08 07:23 AM
I WOULD BREAK IT DOWN LIKE THIS, YOU HAVE ALL KINDS OF DIFFRENT PEOPLE IN THE WORLD SOME LIKE BAD GUY'S SOME LIKE GOOD GUY'S & SOME JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL THEY LIKE, THE BOTTOM LINE IS IF YOU MEET A WOMEN/MAN & THEY PLAY GAME'S LIKE THAT WELL YOU JUST MOVE ON, IN TIME THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME & EVERTHING WILL FALL INTO PLACE, WHEN YOUR NOT TRYING SO HARD ? WHAT DO YOU THINK DOSE THIS MAKE ANY SCENSE, THAT'S PRETTY MUCH WHAT I DO IF THEY DON'T WANT ME YOU JUST MOVE ON,

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Thu 03/13/08 07:23 AM
im not nice? I rased to children as my own from the ages of 2 and 3 they are now 17 and 18... honor students and not in trouble. I fix my ex computer when she needds it and her car when we split she needed mooney so i gave her all the money i had. to help her out. No im not nice at all. I do amny things for people when they ask so if thats not nice well... Ummm raising your kids is something you HAD to do, right? So why would you consider that being "nice".