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Topic: All I want is for one guy to prove that they're not all the
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Thu 03/13/08 10:37 AM


Don't feel bad, hikerchick, it's the same with short guys. Gotta have faith, there's someone for everyone. Not being stereotypical for what the opposite sex is looking for can be lonely, but it also means that when you finally meet that person it will be something more special and definite because you know they like you for you and not for your exterior.


I have a dear friend who is 5'8" and he told me that some women won't even talk to him because he is too short. He was on a site where you could see if someone deleted your e-mail and he said most of his were deleted without being read. Which is sad, because he is smart and sweet. But they saw only his exterior.

I wouldn't mind if I could kiss the top of my sweetie's head. happy


Try kissing on the stairs!bigsmile

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Thu 03/13/08 10:38 AM

you won the prize!!! And so did he!flowerforyou

I love you both.

I can safely speak for him in this instance and say we love you too. I look forward to seeing your name in red on my friend's list.

I'll never understand why you are single. Never.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:41 AM



Don't feel bad, hikerchick, it's the same with short guys. Gotta have faith, there's someone for everyone. Not being stereotypical for what the opposite sex is looking for can be lonely, but it also means that when you finally meet that person it will be something more special and definite because you know they like you for you and not for your exterior.


I have a dear friend who is 5'8" and he told me that some women won't even talk to him because he is too short. He was on a site where you could see if someone deleted your e-mail and he said most of his were deleted without being read. Which is sad, because he is smart and sweet. But they saw only his exterior.

I wouldn't mind if I could kiss the top of my sweetie's head. happy

That's depressing that 5'8 is considered too short, because I'm only 5'5. Oh well, I know I can do anything a tall guy can do. :wink:


He thought so too.. Height, weight...these things pale in comparison to the measure of a person's character..their depth, intelligence, empathy- what was described to me as EQ - emotional IQ..these things are what truly matter to me, and they are the things that are going to matter to the person I am seeking. I couldn't be with anyone who does not have strong character, humor, and intelligence.

You need a sense of humor to put up with a chick like me.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:43 AM


Don't feel bad, hikerchick, it's the same with short guys. Gotta have faith, there's someone for everyone. Not being stereotypical for what the opposite sex is looking for can be lonely, but it also means that when you finally meet that person it will be something more special and definite because you know they like you for you and not for your exterior.


I have a dear friend who is 5'8" and he told me that some women won't even talk to him because he is too short. He was on a site where you could see if someone deleted your e-mail and he said most of his were deleted without being read. Which is sad, because he is smart and sweet. But they saw only his exterior.

I wouldn't mind if I could kiss the top of my sweetie's head. happy


I would answer him. Is he only e mailing tall skinny chicks?

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Thu 03/13/08 10:44 AM



Don't feel bad, hikerchick, it's the same with short guys. Gotta have faith, there's someone for everyone. Not being stereotypical for what the opposite sex is looking for can be lonely, but it also means that when you finally meet that person it will be something more special and definite because you know they like you for you and not for your exterior.


I have a dear friend who is 5'8" and he told me that some women won't even talk to him because he is too short. He was on a site where you could see if someone deleted your e-mail and he said most of his were deleted without being read. Which is sad, because he is smart and sweet. But they saw only his exterior.

I wouldn't mind if I could kiss the top of my sweetie's head. happy


I would answer him. Is he only e mailing tall skinny chicks?


nah - he is more into the cerebral - which is why we became friends..he is not on this site.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:46 AM
littleredhen, you don't have a distance filter or something like that on your emails do you? I tried emailing you twice, and it said you never read either one.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:46 AM

I know, right? When one of the least shallow guys on here , who has helped to restore my faith in men, admits that physical attractiveness is a crucial factor..well, I am doomed.


Attraction is purely subjective.

All true, as Lilith states it.. Her pictures were a bit concealing at first. But to say that her physical beauty does not factor into my attraction? That would be inaccurate.
The first aspect of her physically, that truly got my attention? Was not visual at all. It was her voice. She does not even know that.. Well, now she does.
After that? I would have cared less if I was gonna go meet Quasimodo.
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Hiker.. Any guy that thinks you are unattractive? Needs to have his eyes checked or is stuck on stupid. You deserve the guy that thinks and feels you are everything he has always wanted in a woman, ruling out all other women from the equation. I'm certainly not that guy..simply because that is a fair description of what I feel for Lilith. You are ruled out.

There are men out here that will see you in that light. He is certainly worth the wait.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:46 AM
but we all are the same. Where all da womenz at devil

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Thu 03/13/08 10:47 AM


I know, right? When one of the least shallow guys on here , who has helped to restore my faith in men, admits that physical attractiveness is a crucial factor..well, I am doomed.


Attraction is purely subjective.

All true, as Lilith states it.. Her pictures were a bit concealing at first. But to say that her physical beauty does not factor into my attraction? That would be inaccurate.
The first aspect of her physically, that truly got my attention? Was not visual at all. It was her voice. She does not even know that.. Well, now she does.
After that? I would have cared less if I was gonna go meet Quasimodo.
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Hiker.. Any guy that thinks you are unattractive? Needs to have his eyes checked or is stuck on stupid. You deserve the guy that thinks and feels you are everything he has always wanted in a woman, ruling out all other women from the equation. I'm certainly not that guy..simply because that is a fair description of what I feel for Lilith. You are ruled out.

There are men out here that will see you in that light. He is certainly worth the wait.


I feel better. I KNEW you weren't like that. Whew!

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Thu 03/13/08 10:47 AM
So get him here! happy I would get cerebral with him. The forums here are great.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:51 AM

littleredhen, you don't have a distance filter or something like that on your emails do you? I tried emailing you twice, and it said you never read either one.


ok I'll check that

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Thu 03/13/08 10:53 AM

So get him here! happy I would get cerebral with him. The forums here are great.


he was here before..he left. He has decided to stop his searching for now. But we are, and will remain, just friends, for reasons I won't go into here.

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Thu 03/13/08 10:57 AM
Nope no limits on my E mail.

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Thu 03/13/08 11:00 AM

Nope no limits on my E mail.

Weird...I even tried to add you as a friend. Something's screwy here. grumble

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Thu 03/13/08 11:01 AM
It's that damn fat filter again!laugh

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Thu 03/13/08 11:02 AM


Nope no limits on my E mail.

Weird...I even tried to add you as a friend. Something's screwy here. grumble


I have no trouble e-mailing her.

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Thu 03/13/08 11:02 AM
I got the freind request TY.

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Thu 03/13/08 11:03 AM



Nope no limits on my E mail.

Weird...I even tried to add you as a friend. Something's screwy here. grumble


I have no trouble e-mailing her.


Me either. We e-mailed last week. flowerforyou

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Thu 03/13/08 11:06 AM
I E mailed him lets see if it goes through, these machines can be devious! I trust them as much as I trust men!laugh

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Thu 03/13/08 11:07 AM

I E mailed him lets see if it goes through, these machines can be devious! I trust them as much as I trust men!laugh


you're even more like me than I am!

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