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here is a small list: 1. quit smoking 2. make my roommate move out so we can be alone 3. no smoking in the house 4. my dog had puppies and they are in the bottom of my closet move them out 5. my dog not allowed to sleep with us those are just a few things. there are more, but you get the idea. yeah some may be small, but still...what the hell!  omg and you just met this guy????
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Welcome to my world..lol. Most women run scared as soon as they hear "mental illness" or "dentures". I always like to say the serenity prayer when these things happen, I figure if one can't accept me for me they're not worth my time anyway;^] You go .....I love the serenity prayer....wished more people lived by it.... |
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Ive been talking to this guy for quite some time. I am very open and honest about me, who I am, what I do, where I come from, etc....I hide nothing. I figure if you are going to date or whatever, it's not like they wont notice these things so be upfront! I dont believe in whipping any suprises on people that may not be pleasant. So after talking about all these things in the beginning, all was fine and acceptable. Now that we are talking about the possibility of taking things a step further I am getting guff. Can I change this, Can I change that, will I stop doing this.....WTH? I made it clear I do not want to be changed nor do I want to change anyone else. Now its like the control thing is kickin in....what is up with that? Sounds like a control freak which has been closely linked to abuse. I'd say you caught a break by finding out early on. Walk, no hell, run away!! |
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Welcome to my world..lol. Most women run scared as soon as they hear "mental illness" or "dentures". I always like to say the serenity prayer when these things happen, I figure if one can't accept me for me they're not worth my time anyway;^] Hey - I have mental illness and dentures!  hehe, I wish I could afford the implants, I hate having to take out my teeth when eating out..lol. Most people I think are just shallow about such things tho;^] |
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Welcome to my world..lol. Most women run scared as soon as they hear "mental illness" or "dentures". I always like to say the serenity prayer when these things happen, I figure if one can't accept me for me they're not worth my time anyway;^] You go .....I love the serenity prayer....wished more people lived by it.... I actually try but sometimes wishful thinking confuses me as to what I can change and what I can't... |
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I say that he obviously is not right for you if he cant except you for you and you should defenitely move on. You deserve better
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here is a small list: 1. quit smoking 2. make my roommate move out so we can be alone 3. no smoking in the house 4. my dog had puppies and they are in the bottom of my closet move them out 5. my dog not allowed to sleep with us those are just a few things. there are more, but you get the idea. yeah some may be small, but still...what the hell! omg and you just met this guy???? nawww its been awhile but we started talking abotu taking it to the next level and then i get the bomb dropped.... |
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My ex husband flipped out on me for smoking too much.....he smoked but maybe only 3 a day........and smoked dope from the minute he woke up to the time he went to bed!!! But I was yelled at to the point of crying because I smoked too much!!
   
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as for the dentures thing...that is insane! shallow and petty. yeah i have dental issues that ive had to have fixed due to my ex bashing my teeth out! some things are not your fault and if you have taken the steps to take care of it and obviously so if you have dentures, then so what? shame on them! Agreed, but it does help weed out the shallow from the real;^] |
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Welcome to my world..lol. Most women run scared as soon as they hear "mental illness" or "dentures". I always like to say the serenity prayer when these things happen, I figure if one can't accept me for me they're not worth my time anyway;^] Hey - I have mental illness and dentures! hehe, I wish I could afford the implants, I hate having to take out my teeth when eating out..lol. Most people I think are just shallow about such things tho;^] the thing is - are you kind to people? Do you respect yourself and others? Do you take responsibility for your actions? These are the measures of a human character; not where their teeth came from. I couldn't get implants if I wanted them..too much bone loss. Let's just love ourselves the way we are and if nobody else wants to, at least we do!!! |
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I don't know but take it for the sign that it is and move on because he *IS* who he is...He's not changing. Yeah, what she said. People shouldn't change people. |
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RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN LIKE YOU STOLE A TV!!!
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My ex husband flipped out on me for smoking too much.....he smoked but maybe only 3 a day........and smoked dope from the minute he woke up to the time he went to bed!!! But I was yelled at to the point of crying because I smoked too much!! sounds like double standards. at least you wont go to jail for a pack of what you smoke haha...yeah i had a best friend who quit smoking cigs and started the other like it was going out of style, she rode my ass about stopping smoking but everytime i lit a cig she lit a blunt lmao...doh |
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Also People remember one thing....Only You can Change You...or is Only I can change I....or is it Only Me can Change Me.... and if you're happy with You....I and Me then so be it....
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here is a small list: 1. quit smoking 2. make my roommate move out so we can be alone 3. no smoking in the house 4. my dog had puppies and they are in the bottom of my closet move them out 5. my dog not allowed to sleep with us those are just a few things. there are more, but you get the idea. yeah some may be small, but still...what the hell! Well that would do it for me...kick him to the curb Awww....cute puppies in the closet all nice and warm. |
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most of you know me...im pretty head strong and forward. i held nothing back from him. it was all good in the beginning...im really out of sorts on this one...took me by suprise! he chews tobacco! i never said give it up...its part of what he does, who he is...he loves tennis...should i say omg i hate tennis so you cant do that anymore? thats rediculous. i dont smoke in my bedroom, i am respectful of those who do not smoke. we smoke mostly on the lanai outside anyways...ughhhh and the whole dog thing....you guys know I LOVE MY DOG! she just had puppies one week ago today and they are in the bottom of my closet because its the warmest and safest for them right now. ughhhhhh grrrrrrrrrrrrr
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My ex husband flipped out on me for smoking too much.....he smoked but maybe only 3 a day........and smoked dope from the minute he woke up to the time he went to bed!!! But I was yelled at to the point of crying because I smoked too much!! sounds like double standards. at least you wont go to jail for a pack of what you smoke haha...yeah i had a best friend who quit smoking cigs and started the other like it was going out of style, she rode my ass about stopping smoking but everytime i lit a cig she lit a blunt lmao...doh DANG SHE must have been stone like all the time.... |
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madamx. what you have described is someone that does not want you for a relationship. he wants you for sex or is just a control freak. if any man likes you and knows what he considers faults but still wants a relationship with you he has no right to ask you to change. having a relationship and loving someone means you overlook the bad and concentrate on the good. as for the pets. to some people that is like giving up a family member. i would never do it. anyone that would ask you to do that is not much of a man or woman. i agree with water, don't walk away, run and run fast. tell him he has to have a larger penis. lmao. if he says it is large enough tell him to go f%%k himself
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here is a small list: 1. quit smoking 2. make my roommate move out so we can be alone 3. no smoking in the house 4. my dog had puppies and they are in the bottom of my closet move them out 5. my dog not allowed to sleep with us those are just a few things. there are more, but you get the idea. yeah some may be small, but still...what the hell! Sssssssssssshhhh well I quit 5 years ago but still don't stop me from being with someone that smokes. Hummm have no roomates and well the hell is his place to go to or does he have roommates or live at home shshshsh Humm well I dont allow smoking in my house I quiet due to my grandbaby had lung problems when she was born. But have never asked anyone not to smoke in there own house. Not for someone else to say. Ssssshhhs and why does it matter where the dog sleeps that is picky. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh and he did not say to kick the dog out of the bed!!!!!! Ohhhh that is enough in its own to show him the door. My dog sleeps with me now I can understand if it is at that moment but shshshshh when sleeping my dog will be in the bed with me and if they don't like it then they can go sleep in the bottom of the closet shshsh  |
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Welcome to my world..lol. Most women run scared as soon as they hear "mental illness" or "dentures". I always like to say the serenity prayer when these things happen, I figure if one can't accept me for me they're not worth my time anyway;^] Dentures?????...oooh, the possibilities.... 
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