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Need some sdvice, I'd been seeing this lady where i was working known her for a year n the last few months we got closer n closer, we were both in relationships n i had finished mine to be with her before xmas. Well we would txt non stop even when she was in bed with her boyfriend (he was sleeping) lol. n chat till the early hrs of the night on the net. We had gone out on nights out with work n we slept together in the same bed no sex tho! anyway as new year came we got together after she split with her boyfriend, was going good till i had a bad day in work and didnt say i was going home after work, hence her taking i was angry with her saying my attitude was bad!! and she finished with me, i was heart broken
 as i cared so much for her and we both felt we had something speical together.. but know we dont talk and i feel lost and hurt as she was so interested and wanting us to be together then BOOM.. I dont want you! Is that right or is there something wrong?? know i her she's back with her ex which treats her horrid. But i treated her like a princess!! Please help!! Would also like to meet friends to chat to during my lonely night.. Thank you everyone that replys and trys to help me understand! |
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I think this is a one-side relationship with yourself
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Do you really want someone who has that short of a fuse and jumps to conclusions? Almost sounds like she was looking/waiting for an opportunity to end it.
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my advice: if you mess around with someone who is in a relationship, then you should expect to get cheated on too.
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she obviously wasnt in love with you, she still going back to ex
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I can tell you text, my eyes hurt..
 (dont take offense) I think she was looking for a hookup, possibly anger/hurt/or get back at the guy she was with. You know, make him jeaslous to get a reaction from him. This sucks bro, I wish you nothing but the best and hope you can get past her sooner than later, but dont waste your time on her...Keep moving forward |
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cut your losses before u lose yourself
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Poor thing, been there done that!! Just give her space and try not to be at her beck and call. She needs to make her own mind up, nice cute guy or one who treats her horrible.... Some girls like the challenge and will never appreciate a really nice guy. Don't let her walk all over you anymore..... You deserve better....
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Edited by
yic17
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Sat 01/19/08 01:41 PM
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I'd say something similar happened to me ... but not as bad as yours I think. Girl and I were into each other, we had lots in common and connected soo well. She told me she likes me, I told her my feelings ... few days later, BOOM! She's with another guy.
She apologized and now we're cool. And I'm not trying to say she's bad or anything. Because I believe obviously she likes that guy more than me that's why she did it. Main point is ... I was confused to death, too. |
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Just try to forget her. There are more girls out there that deserve a nice guy. PS not nice to sleep with someone who is in another relationship.
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women dont want a nice guy. they want someone who treats them bad and then they dream about the nice guy. try to find a mixture of both. a little good and a little bad. its seems to have worked for me. in public im kinda mean in privete she is the world. also dont date from work EVER! it never works out unless one of you quits. last thing if you get with a girl while she is with someone else expect her to do the same thing to you. there are good women out there. just look in harder to reach places. no coworkers or women in bars.
good luck. |
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Edited by
yic17
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Sat 01/19/08 01:39 PM
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we slept together in the same bed no sex tho! And honestly, I think that's probably why she lost interest ... because it shows that you're not man enough to get what you want and she probably thought that you don't want her that badly ... or she couldn't feel "romantic" and "sexual" with you like lovers. Not just my opinion, this is what I read and heard, that girls think like this when guys don't take it to the next level. |
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You are as bad as she is and I think you deserve all that you get, I got no time for anyone who screws up other peoples relationships and it seems that is what you have been trying to do.
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Agree with everyone but Patsfan. Was there not too long ago. Go now. I know it hurts but it'll just hurt longer if you don't deal and move on. So mourn her, grieve her. You'll find someone else.
You'll be ok dude. |
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I know how you feel i've been there myself. But listen I've seen a pic of you and the way you sound it seems like your an awesome person and you need to take control of yourself and say see ya wouldn't wanna be ya because its your loss. There are more fish in the sea. I've been waiting for that special someone to come along for a long time now and I just have to wait and be patient like you have to. we both are in the same boat.lol so hey if you would like to chat with me with you need to go ahead. I will always be here for you ok. and keep your head up high and let her go be with her ex. she will wish she didn't later on.
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I can understand where you come from but i am still very good friends with my ex girlfriend i feel i had enough respect finsih with her than hurt her more..
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You are as bad as she is and I think you deserve all that you get, I got no time for anyone who screws up other peoples relationships and it seems that is what you have been trying to do. |
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Wait...She broke up with you because you didn't tell her you were going home after work? She's taken chutzpah to a new height. If this is not the case tell me. If it is true then you are better off without her. Anyone who cares about you wouldn't do something that spiteful because you had a bad day at work and went to your own house. You didn't do anything wrong, and she seems like she has some WAY bigger issues then being cold to you. Now you just have to deal with working with her. This is why you never **** where you eat brother...Feel better.
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Need some sdvice, I'd been seeing this lady where i was working known her for a year n the last few months we got closer n closer, we were both in relationships n i had finished mine to be with her before xmas. Well we would txt non stop even when she was in bed with her boyfriend (he was sleeping) lol. n chat till the early hrs of the night on the net. We had gone out on nights out with work n we slept together in the same bed no sex tho! anyway as new year came we got together after she split with her boyfriend, was going good till i had a bad day in work and didnt say i was going home after work, hence her taking i was angry with her saying my attitude was bad!! and she finished with me, i was heart broken as i cared so much for her and we both felt we had something speical together.. but know we dont talk and i feel lost and hurt as she was so interested and wanting us to be together then BOOM.. I dont want you! Is that right or is there something wrong?? know i her she's back with her ex which treats her horrid. But i treated her like a princess!! Please help!! Would also like to meet friends to chat to during my lonely night.. Thank you everyone that replys and trys to help me understand! She found someone else, but then again you probably gussed that by now. What did you expect? |
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