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Topic: 18 year old boy and 43 year old woman
mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Thu 01/03/08 08:14 PM
OMG, I just pictured a young man in my bed!

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Thu 01/03/08 08:14 PM
I have to ask, again, how would you all feel is HE was 43 and SHE was 19? ewwwwww!!!!!! the same...can 43 yr old mens still...nevermind

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Thu 01/03/08 08:15 PM


joymarielasvegas Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 79	Thu 01/03/08 08:16 PM
Tell her to bring her AARP card so you get 10% off wherever you eat.. LMAO

joymarielasvegas Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 79	Thu 01/03/08 08:18 PM
So where are you and Mrs. Robbinson going? Getting some great laughs tonight!

FreshMountainAir Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 17879	Thu 01/03/08 08:22 PM
I am so curious....when your done do you want to check out a women in her 30's?

joymarielasvegas Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 79	Thu 01/03/08 08:32 PM
OMG, I just pictured a young man in my bed! I am 43-my son's are 22-to think of me with a guy younger than my children makes me howl with laughter! He is either very mature but most likely, she's got the "fever." MY SON'S WOULD DISOWN ME!

inapickel Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 50	Thu 01/03/08 10:38 PM
ive been there. for the guy its abig ego boost my gall was 23 and im 43 .let me tell you what a 4 year ride oops shes 25 now

inapickel Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 50	Thu 01/03/08 10:40 PM
yes we still can

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Thu 01/03/08 11:18 PM
Seriously, if it was a man that was 43 and the woman was 18...I think people would accept it more. Hey I personally wouldn't date someone that young, but if this is what they want...go for it!! I stop and think how would I feel if my son brought home a woman that was 44..only because he is 19!! Geesh I think I would be a little bit p!ssed off, BUT its his life and I can't control who he dates. All I know is she would be older then me..hmm I might have to kick some butt!!

katydid34 Joined Mon 08/20/07 Posts: 659	Thu 01/03/08 11:58 PM
Seriously, if it was a man that was 43 and the woman was 18...I think people would accept it more. Hey I personally wouldn't date someone that young, but if this is what they want...go for it!! I stop and think how would I feel if my son brought home a woman that was 44..only because he is 19!! Geesh I think I would be a little bit p!ssed off, BUT its his life and I can't control who he dates. All I know is she would be older then me..hmm I might have to kick some butt!! I agree that society accepts it more when it's older guy/younger woman. Just the way it is.

Troublemaker7 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 326	Sat 01/05/08 08:09 AM
I have to ask, again, how would you all feel is HE was 43 and SHE was 19? Well... My situation is pretty close. I'm 22 and he's 43. Surprisingly, so far we haven't gotten any negative comments about it. I've met his family, he's met mine, and my friends all think he's great for me. Who knows what people say behind our backs, but I don't really worry about how other people feel. All I know is he makes me hot!

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sat 01/05/08 08:12 AM
Tell her to bring her AARP card so you get 10% off wherever you eat.. was that necessary? jerk.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sat 01/05/08 08:16 AM
i was in a relationship for 4 yrs with a man 20 yrs older than me. He was 45 and I was 25.it was great and only ended because he didnt want to marry. i dont care how old someone is or age gap ,its how they treat you. whether it be myself or my children,that is my main concern.

Jeffnormal Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 209	Sat 01/05/08 09:19 AM
Go out to eat, movies, etc. And let her pay for everything. Thats how it is when a 43 year old man dates an 18 year old girl/women. Have fun and learn whatever you can. Most older women know what they want, and aren't affraid to tell you. Good Luck

kaspyv Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 135	Sat 01/05/08 09:26 AM
I date younger men and have had very few problems...just be yourself and go out and have fun....who said it has to be a serious thing, older women like to have fun too!

beachdog50 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 832	Sat 01/05/08 09:27 AM
I have to ask, again, how would you all feel is HE was 43 and SHE was 19? ewwwwww!!!!!! the same...can 43 yr old mens still...nevermind Yes we can I'm 51 and the girl I dated this last summer was 22..we had a wonderful fling

newwaters Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 46	Sat 01/05/08 12:42 PM
Tell her to bring her AARP card so you get 10% off wherever you eat.. was that necessary? jerk. Maybe not, but it was funny as heck! Seriously, the OP was not offended, why should you be on his behalf? Some food for thought... Not all negativity is meant to be negative. Sometimes it is just darn funny.

newwaters Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 46	Sat 01/05/08 12:42 PM
OMG, I just pictured a young man in my bed! Race car, or cartoon sheets?

newwaters Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 46	Sat 01/05/08 12:50 PM
Now, i said yes because, well, who knows how it's going to work :P Dude, you already have the open mind. It can work. Society will be agin ya, an you already know that. The way I see it, you are more than halfway to having a good time. My advice: Don't talk about your high score on any console game system. Don't feign interest/knowledge in a topic you THINK a 40 year old hottie would be interested in. Revel in the experience of sharing what you DON'T have in common. Avoid babysitting references of any kind. Although I can imagine some side splitting hilarity in this area. Finally, and hopefully unnecessary, leave the lettermen jacket at home. Go forth and make ye joy!