why cant people hold conversations here. you claim to be single and searching for your soulmate, but when someone messages you all you reply is Hi, good,thanks,ok.....and then go ahead to write things like Hru, k, gd etc

you get a message someone asking " How are you " and all you reply is am ok. where does the conversation go from there?


anyone experiencing this kind or thing or its just me.

Continuous short replies could mean they're just not interested, and you can move on.

They could be busy and men in general are not real talkers.

We are more action then talk.

sometimes its these men who start a conversation

Then that WOULD be strange.

i believe if your busy then best to put a hold on these dating app. because the only way to know someone here is through consistency chatting.

i find it so strange too. and then sometimes a man will be active chatting on this site and when time comes to exchange for example watsapp number the conversation just dies

It takes time to clear the task..
For some its
One on one messaging to three or more than fine 🤣‍🦳‍🦱


FEW
One only one at one time,
Only one for life time,
Than if both rhymed well.‍‍
Than if future only One will Sign🤬 &
Other One will Cosign

"How are you?" isn't exactly a stimulating, engaging first message either so there's that.

Exactly right.

And asking to off site quickly is a huge red flag.

Good luck.

Agree.

If you find the conversation lacking they likely aren’t for you. Probably best to move on.

I've noticed the same thing.
Since it's effortful to keep trying to pry a conversation out of someone I figure the relationship might be effortful too so take a pass after a few polite tries to engage them in further conversation which has more than monosyllabic mumbles or sentences of 4 or less words.
Perhaps they are shy or just super busy, or texting multiple girls...we'll never know if they don't talk.

Those are the ones chatting with many and they stay confused all the time on who to reply and what to type 🤪 they can't communicate on what they are here for n lack giving priorities.. some don't even know what they want in life for themselves.. they are sometimes disguised as women but they are men or vice versa..they play n chat for timepass 🤡🤡

Real people know to communicate when they are interested n they would know to convey if they aren't interested too. Ignore the clowns, it's waste of time.

Language barrier

Dunno. Most people know some basic English, and there is decent translatiom programmes

Meh

The truth, in a nutshell. WhatsApp is another flag. It may be useful, but the unsavory types have abused it to flag status.

Topic: why can't men hold a conversation



It may very well be they're holding something in their hand that needs attention while chatting with you.

WhatsApp is not a red flag at all. Might be in the US, but the rest of the world uses it all the time.
No one here texts anymore, went obsolete years ago when WhatsApp entered the scene.
Everyone uses it to talk to friends and family, even organisations, therapists etc. use it.
Fact this isn't the case in the US doesn't make it a red flag.

WhatsApp is the number one social-messaging app in the world!! Hardly call that a red flag.
It's the most popular and most-used by 2 billion people across the globe.
Fact you Americans don't use it doesn't change that. Just means you are behind with not joining the rest of the world, for whatever reason.

To the rest of the world it's a red flag to NOT have WhatsApp. If someone wants to text cos they don't have WhatsApp alarm bells go off!
And it's so weird -and impractical- that it's a deal-breaker. Don't want someone who doesn't get with the times. Plus, WhatsApp is cheaper. Everyone has quite a lot of internet data per month, if not unlimited, whereas there is a limited nr of texts per month. Utterly old-fashioned and expensive.
Hell, my 80 yr old mother and 83 yr old stepmother use WhatsApp, as do many pensioners.
Been like that for about a decade now!!