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Topic: why cant men hold conversations
HumbledG Joined Fri 06/02/23 Posts: 3	Tue 11/28/23 09:48 AM
I feel that "How are you", "How was your day" are open ended questions, that really require a complete answer, it's not like a closed question where you only expect one word responses... I can understand that some people are shy or introverts and don't like to talk, but then everyone has to make sacrifices to find their mr/miss nearly right... And if the other person is making an effort and writing to you in whole sentences then maybe they're interested in you enough in you, for you to make an effort... If the shoe were on the other foot, I'd bet that we wouldn't be happy with the other person's responses either.. And when that happens we just have to realise the other person is not REALLY interested in us but just being polite by answering.... I couldn't agree more..I don't do mediocre..sometimes you find that 1 wer the conversation jus flows after maybe 3hrs you realize you need to ask how the day was lol...but yeah needle in a stack if needles. we pray and hope.jus don't settle..the 1 is out there or maybe I'm justa romantic at heart I dunno..lol

Jaan Doh Joined Mon 06/24/13 Posts: 2236	Tue 11/28/23 11:53 AM
I have had a few odd replies to my messages. However, I am not interested in a relationship with the Men anyway. Me too, I'm not interested in a relationship with men either 🤣

Unknow Joined Mon 11/27/23 Posts: 5	Fri 12/01/23 09:27 PM
I would say because men are very aware of how many options women have. So if it's not a scam, and is something real, then the nervousness of ****ing it up kicks in. The oh I messed up by saying that, well she wasn't interested in me anyways, she'll go talk the next 100 guys in her inbox

Susanna Joined Sat 12/02/23 Posts: 1	Sat 12/02/23 04:38 AM
It's meaning that you stopp to write him ore here musst be a boring person

sean Joined Mon 11/21/22 Posts: 1	Sat 12/02/23 04:53 AM
I totally get where you're coming from. It can be frustrating when conversations don't seem to go beyond surface-level exchanges. I'm here because I'm genuinely looking to connect with people, not just for small talk. I believe in meaningful conversations where we can share thoughts, ideas, and experiences. So, tell me, what's something you're passionate about or interested in? Let's dive into a conversation that goes beyond the usual 'Hi' and 'How are you?'

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14412	Fri 02/02/24 09:05 AM
They could be busy and men in general are not real talkers. We are more action then talk. From my Experiences you are Right.

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 36801	Fri 02/02/24 10:24 AM
What Rubbish!!! Some of the most meaningful and stimulating conversations are the ones I have had on here ..... at least when I am allowed to speak ... Yes exchange's actually run over 500 words .... which is pretty good !!! I wouldn't knock guys for not conversing... given the chance and being the right gal , it could just be the start of a romantic relationship .... yeah ! I live in hope and probably will die in despair !!!!!

Tron Alpha Joined Sun 02/04/24 Posts: 1	Mon 02/05/24 12:04 PM
Topic: why can't men hold a conversation It may very well be they're holding something in their hand that needs attention while chatting with you. I am an 60 year old male. I tend to look at the profile first. I will see often ther are a lot of havle filled in and facale close up and smuged photos, I just flick those by. than i do find ones filled in compleately have childeren, i do not want, and are religus witch i am not. When i do find one that looks promissing, I send an qwestion "Hi. would you mind chatting with an older guy ?' no reply. no reply means no convertsating happeding. So an problem is they take too long to reply because i am constainly lookkng for an partner.

Unknow Joined Fri 02/02/24 Posts: 1	Thu 02/08/24 05:31 AM
Because they're busy with others