funny how women say they want a real man. when woman have fake hair,nails,eye lashes,tans,botox,boob jobs,need make up to look good, fake jewelry, designer clothes, hand bags. . and men are the fake ones? look in the mirror ladies

You are talking to the wrong women.

I'm sure that there are women who live in small towns in NJ that you can like.

They are simply marketing what men want.

No idea what Soufie means.

It's fun to play the real man, it leaves you way better and upgraded

I’m definitely not one of those women .

You obviously have no idea what is meant by "real man" but your post makes it very clear you aren't one.
It conveys you're angry, hateful, bitter, and think it's totally okay to knock women.
That's what's called a toxic man.

Exactly.
I don't understand why women on here immediately feel they have to explain themselves whenever some dude with a huge chip on his shoulder comes up with BS like this.

Have you learnt nothing yet, ladies? This is 2023!
You don't have to explain yourself!!! NOR should you ever diss other women. We got to be there for each other, not let men divide us. Sisterhood is so important!

That's rather overly critical and insulting.

He isn't knocking women at all. There's no need for that kind of divisive feminist propaganda on a sight aimed to bring men and women together.

Remarking on the common "I want a real man" (or "be a real man", etc.) statement is commentary on that kind of thinking, in this case comparing it to the common Western anomaly where it is often said by those who disguise who they really are.

Phrases like "real man" - just as the rarely heard "real woman" - are unhelpful anyway and there is no fixed definition of what it means. Any genuine male can say he's a real man, just as any genuine woman is entitled to say she is a real woman. If a woman wants specific traits, it would be far more useful if she used her (stereotypically superior) communication skills to say what she means.

Amazing how men jump to the defense of another man, even if it's an unpleasant piece of work.
My posting is a simple observation, and nothing of what you say. Playing the "feminist card" is very obsolete and childish.
When I first got on here 10 yrs ago it quickly became clear how much the US is behind when it comes to normal equality. What US men post about women is often very disrespectful yet US women's reactions always make clear they're used to that kind of treatment from men.
Time you people wake up and get with the times.
I've not come across this kind of thinking and talking ever in my life as over here it's obsolete and not normal.
If you have a problem with a normal observation and have a knee-jerk reaction to that then it might be good to take time to think about it. Why do you have an issue with women being equals and treated as such?
And please keep your 'feminist' card tucked away. Very childish. It's like cussing. People do that too when they feel powerless.

Oh dear. I'm not going to try dealing with all your inaccuracies and issues. I'll just assume you're having a bad day that stops you being understanding and empathetic.

Have a good day, Crystal.

Exactly

Love this answer.

all of the things you describe are physical enhancements .

Wondering .. what you think (or assume) women mean when they say they want a “real man “ ????

I was about to say something similar.

I don't think I've ever seen/heard a woman saying "I'm looking for a real man" who meant it in a way that implied she was looking for a man who didn't alter his physical appearance (egs. color his hair, get peck implants, fake tan, etc.). Nearly always she is refering to his character (saying that she wants a man who means what he says, has good character, treats his partner with respect, etc.).

That said, I kind of think that the terms "real man" or "real woman" are kind of insubstantial, as different people are looking for different things. Maybe it's better to just specify what they are looking for that they are not finding.

Nowadays almost 98% females only just behind Money, no matters what kind of that guy,

Nowadays real and genuine females can love with a real man, otherwise 98% females just looking for money and money only

u gotta be a real one to know what this means

And if penis-extension and thickening technology was available, cheap, and safe, you wouldn't go for it? We can see why some men and their attitudes are on a dating site.

If the goofballs on the left in the USA can't even define what a woman is, good luck figuring out what a "real man" is.