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why is so hard to be faithful to one person? SIMPLE....ITS YOUR VALUE SYSTEM THAT ALLOWS IT.....ITS NEVER O.K. TO CHEAT......... |
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why is so hard to be faithful to one person? SIMPLE....ITS YOUR VALUE SYSTEM THAT ALLOWS IT.....ITS NEVER O.K. TO CHEAT......... Totally agree with you. Wow... you look just like George Negus... You will probably only get that if you are an Aussie, of course. |
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was with wife 22 years, only time was when we had a friend join us. I enjoyed the experience and would have been okay with one time, however she became obsessed with watching. I'm not a TV.
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I love my wife but she gives me no sex and before sex was always hard for her so I always cheated. I believe in the Bible and all those guys back in the Old Days had wives and mistresses and there were temple prostitutes and God never punished them except a few things live David with Bathsheba.
So God allowed it but He also said there should be one man and one woman together they become one. I believe my cheating strengthens my marriage and as long as I do it secretly I'm not hurting her. |
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  The faith has got too much full, empty its negatives vibes an refill it again with being positive thinking.. it's within us..  
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Because it is more fun not to be.
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let's be fair:
in this world there are hunters and hunted. And there is no shortage of women hunters it's always the guy who is perceived to be the aggressor...not always the case |
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Why would you want to.
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People do not cheat by chance, cheat by choice. We cant avoid some one to like us, but its our choice to decide how we react to it.
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Xander. Really? That's what you tell yourself.
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Maybe because the marriage vows are not too clear...." for better or for worse...... " no mention of 'for good ' ... also I have noticed that ... " to love honour cherish and obey "" has somewhat changed.... but hey ! It's just me !!!!
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I think its depend on ourself
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Edited by
Unknow
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Fri 01/21/22 02:41 PM
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Put out, or put up. It's in the KJV Bible too!
Eph 5:22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. |
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People can lie
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If you find it hard then you're either with the wrong person or you aren't ready yet for a true commitment. If this is about another person, the same goes. You are right |
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Because its your choice to be unfaithful and wouldn't want to commit
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why is so hard to be faithful to one person? It isn't if you care about your partner. You never hurt the one you love because that would be the same as hurting yourself in my opinion. |
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It is easy for anyone to get on here and post.... It's not difficult to be faithful to your partner. Well, it's also easy to say that when more than half the people on this site to begin with are on here because either 1)Single and it's not difficult to be faithful to yourself or it's easily said when your wishing you had someone to be faithful too! #2) An Affair/ Cheating- If #ber 2 is what brought you to this site then there is no need for explanation on why it's easily said that being faithful isn't difficult when you can "See the writing on the wall" as some people say! In conclusion: It's easy to "Say" being Faithful is hard when you have no one to be faithful to anyways and if your on this site and have a partner already then your word don't hold water to begin with. For those that do have a better half/partner and are faithful and loyal.... It is still very hard to be faithful and loyal to even the one person you love and are completely in love with and see being with no one else bc of this one word "Temptation"!! That only can at any point be the "Game Changer"! If it's around long enough and regularly it Bing on a bad day, you and your partner having a bad day/not getting along, something happing outside the relationship making problems inside the relationship, you wanting more/she wanting more, not being happy, bills stacking up. It could be any number of reason but if Temptation is always around on a regular basis and yourself or your partner decides they found or see something that presents it's self as something better and they just fell for and gave into Temptation!! I am a Faithful person and have been Faithful in full in my last few relationships. That's not to say I have been Tempted when the relationship was on the down side but I stayed faithful because I was raised with morals and bc I wasn't going to be the one that had the first ger pointing in his face and hearing... you, you, you were the one that did this or done that! No, not me- I stayed faithful, committed and loyal. I do that bc I k ow I can sleep good at night with no regrets and know I did my part. Anyways, sorry everyone for rambling on with this and I hope I didn't take up to much of everyone's time. Just wanted to put that out there and give a little more detail on how most people can "Say" it's not difficult but when it's time to put in the footwork- most people can't even get there shoes on before they get caught stealing from the company or getting fired. I'm sure some of you know what I mean when I say that? Anyways, that's all I got....
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Be faithful to your love ones.
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why is so hard to be faithful to one person? lol You should have asked "why is it so hard for YOU to be faithful. IMO unfaithful partners lack integrity and it isn't hard for many of us, as you have read. Yep I see this thread is old along with the comments, but it seems like most are dead or old on here. 
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