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Topic: Can you fall in love without ever meeting
BobbyRay's photo
Tue 11/23/21 10:03 PM
Edited by BobbyRay on Tue 11/23/21 10:09 PM
Can you fall in love without ever meeting a person? up to that point ! The funny thing is , I believe it's already happened !! not for just. one but for both off the parties involved !!! So can you fall in love without meeting anyone at all?

Ava Adore's photo
Tue 11/23/21 11:03 PM
I've fallen in love with someone before I met him. Or at least I thought I did. We did meet, but only once because of the pandemic. That didn't last.

I'm not sure if falling in love is the correct definition to describe feelings for someone we've never met.

Dramatic Muffin's photo
Tue 11/23/21 11:16 PM
My boyfriend and I did. We spent many, many hours video calling on Zoom. Some days we spent 7 hours a day talking on Zoom.

When we met in person, we were afraid it would not be the same as it was on Zoom, but the transition was actually pretty seamless. Zoom prepared us well. We are definitely in love.

I don't know that I would agree that someone could fall in love with just texting/emails or even just phone calls. I think video calling gives you a much better picture of someone. But even then, you still need to spend time together in person to really know each other.

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 11/24/21 12:59 AM

Can you fall in love without ever meeting a person? up to that point ! The funny thing is , I believe it's already happened !! not for just. one but for both off the parties involved !!! So can you fall in love without meeting anyone at all?


In my opinion, you can get to know someone very well before you meet them in real life, using all available communication methods and regular contact, and this maybe the only way if they live very far away. Whether or not you fall in love with them before actually dating in person is probably a more personal choice in what you allow yourself to do, which could result in either happiness or heartache. Keeping things friendly until dating in real life is the way I prefer to go.

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Wed 11/24/21 01:42 AM
Yes, of course it is possible. You can build a strong online connection with someone you haven't met in real life yet. I fell in love with a girl whom I met on Facebook and formed a strong and emotional connection with her without even meeting her in real life.

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Wed 11/24/21 05:45 AM
Yes i have an bonded together too

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Wed 11/24/21 11:23 AM
Yes and if you feel it they feel it too. you can fall in love with someone without speaking one word

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Wed 11/24/21 03:52 PM
Online you can connect and fall in love with the “idea” of love :two_hearts: but to know if there is real world chemistry you do need to meet in person.

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Wed 11/24/21 08:31 PM
Edited by misty on Wed 11/24/21 08:37 PM
Can you be rich without doing some sort of physical or mental labor, can you earn stock without investing some money before the jackpot, can you win the Lottery without buying a ticket or putting down for a ticket, and can a women get pregnant without a baby daddy or some sort of fertiliity treatment etc.,etc.,

No, so the answer is Nohappy , as human beings were required to have some sort of physical and visual connection in order to develop some sort of ethical, healthy, normal, mutual respect chemistry.,

Otherwise, we woukd end up being like robot, that aren't program to discriminate, sexist, racist, femisnist, judgemenntal etc.,etc., But programmed to be mindful and respectful to everyone and yet, humans tend to fall in love with there high tech electronic devices, autos, cellphones, computer, games etc.,etc.,etc.,etc.,

Instead of being with a human being.,

Which strongly suggest that such humans have unsettling, distorted, twisted, dysfuntiinal, troubling etc., Emotiions.,thoughts, perspective.,

Duttoneer's photo
Thu 11/25/21 12:37 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnhamPnvXuQ

Elvis Presley – Can't Help Falling in Love -- 1961


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Thu 11/25/21 03:25 AM
Yes and no. The thing is because of the distance involved, you have to talk a lot. My last relationship it was 7 months till we met. We talked daily twice for hours and hours each day. We skyped constantly. When we met at the airport, I knew him intimatly, like best friends know each other inside and out. We spent 7 months talking constantly, the hours we put in were phenomonal. The physical side could not be explored so it left us no option but to connect on all other levels. It was very deep and more satisfying than anything I have experienced to be honest.
I still wanted the proposal in the flesh though. And had that. :grinning:

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Thu 11/25/21 05:37 AM
Nope

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Fri 11/26/21 08:11 PM
Yes, but it's very hard to maintain the relationship if never meet in real life. We won't know the person is pretending the person that they want to be or not. So always try to meet asap.

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Fri 11/26/21 08:38 PM
Oh give me a break. You can't fall in love without meeting in person.

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Fri 11/26/21 09:30 PM
I think you can technically fall in love with someone online -but you are more likely to be disappointed when finally meeting. You don't actually know what it is like to be with them.
Our minds tend to fill in the blanks -and though you may actually be in love, it may not be with a person who actually is as they seem.
I would advise asking every possible question about everything -checking for deal-breakers -video chatting -even chatting with their friends to get an idea of how they are perceived by others....before meeting -and allow for the possibility that they may be different than you imagined.

Mark's photo
Fri 11/26/21 09:33 PM
Yes, period.

Laska Paul 's photo
Fri 11/26/21 09:45 PM


50 % I will go for Chatting ,bcoz Communication is Important and
50% After meeting in person to know the person well.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 11/27/21 04:36 PM
No, love takes in person contact.

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Sun 11/28/21 09:25 AM

Online you can connect and fall in love with the “idea” of love :two_hearts: but to know if there is real world chemistry you do need to meet in person.


This. The idea of love can be almost as powerful as love itself. People do need to understand the difference and not turn their fantasies into expectations.

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Sun 11/28/21 08:07 PM

I've fallen in love with someone before I met him. Or at least I thought I did. We did meet, but only once because of the pandemic. That didn't last.

I'm not sure if falling in love is the correct definition to describe feelings for someone we've never met.

Yes for the mean time

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