Topic: Intimate Encounter
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Tue 11/02/21 04:18 PM
For me, this IS an intimate encounter! :D

Rock's photo
Tue 11/02/21 06:29 PM

Just being honest. When I read that in a persons profile, I am turned off. What is your opinion?


Best of luck in your search!

Kevin's photo
Tue 11/02/21 07:17 PM
Well, that had more to with the men's profiles, I guess? The ladies usually stay away from that part on their profile, they wait till the time is ripe and prefer telling it in person!


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Tue 11/02/21 07:28 PM
some women make money off these sites ,but to me she is too loose for me

technovative's photo
Tue 11/02/21 08:03 PM

Just being honest. When I read that in a persons profile, I am turned off. What is your opinion?


In my experience, when seeking intimate encounter is indicated in a profile, it's usually one that seems phony. That's a turnoff for me.

If seeking intimate encounter was one of multiple options indicated in a profile that looks legitimate, that alone would not turn me off.

Personally I'm not interested in meeting a stranger for sex. My intent is to meet a compatible woman, then develop trust and emotional intimacy that progresses into physical intimacy.

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Tue 11/02/21 08:33 PM
I don't understand why is turn off,sex make part of relationship between a man and woman,build a strong connection it holds 60,70% of relationship...how you saying turn off is sound like I want to puck when I hear sex,but is the most natural and healthy is make part of the life I don't understand why is turn off.

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Thu 11/04/21 08:25 AM
Not many women state that on thier profile.

those that do,I figure they probably get enough attention from other more lusty,less choosy men.
I don't judge so much as don't want to join the que.

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Thu 11/04/21 08:58 AM

I don't understand why is turn off,sex make part of relationship between a man and woman,build a strong connection it holds 60,70% of relationship...how you saying turn off is sound like I want to puck when I hear sex,but is the most natural and healthy is make part of the life I don't understand why is turn off.

Very true, and the statement doesn't bother me either as you can just move to another profile. Like someone wanting a meal I don't like. Doesn't bother me either cos I don't have to eat it :)

But I think the problem on a dating site with "intimate encounter" is that the person wants sex only. That's not the same as sex in a relationship between 2 people that love each other.
Especially women tend to look for more than just that. They want the whole enchilada not just sex.
So it doesn't mean that they reject sex and intimacy, they just want is with someone they love and loves them in turn.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 11/04/21 09:01 AM
Many of the ads popping up make the impression, Mingle is mainly a dating site for intimate encounters ... or is it only me, getting these specific pop up ads?

soufiehere's photo
Thu 11/04/21 09:03 AM

For me, this IS an intimate encounter! :D
hahahahahahah

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Thu 11/04/21 09:42 AM

Many of the ads popping up make the impression, Mingle is mainly a dating site for intimate encounters ... or is it only me, getting these specific pop up ads?

AdBlock sorts that problem :)
If not, I would've been long gone as I have no need for images of half-naked women. Plus if memory serves, most were animated photos? All that flashing and moving affects my head.

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Thu 11/04/21 09:48 AM

Many of the ads popping up make the impression, Mingle is mainly a dating site for intimate encounters ... or is it only me, getting these specific pop up ads?


If memory serves me well, you use an iPad or is it a tablet?

It’s just that I NEVER get/see any ads and I don’t use AdBlockers and use an iPad.

oops offtopic

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 11/04/21 10:40 AM


Many of the ads popping up make the impression, Mingle is mainly a dating site for intimate encounters ... or is it only me, getting these specific pop up ads?

AdBlock sorts that problem :)
If not, I would've been long gone as I have no need for images of half-naked women. Plus if memory serves, most were animated photos? All that flashing and moving affects my head.


Nothing is flashing or animated. Just ads for other dating sites, those with a certain purpose.

Problem is, I have a 6 years old tablet, and these ad blocking apps are not "compatible" with my system.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 11/04/21 10:41 AM


Many of the ads popping up make the impression, Mingle is mainly a dating site for intimate encounters ... or is it only me, getting these specific pop up ads?


If memory serves me well, you use an iPad or is it a tablet?

It’s just that I NEVER get/see any ads and I don’t use AdBlockers and use an iPad.

oops offtopic


Android tablet, bought in 2015

offtopic oops

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Thu 11/04/21 01:00 PM
I agree it's just a polite way of saying I want a .....lol

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Sat 11/06/21 09:19 PM
Very true, and the statement doesn't bother me either as you can just move to another profile. Like someone wanting a meal I don't like. Doesn't bother me either cos I don't have to eat it :)

But I think the problem on a dating site with "intimate encounter" is that the person wants sex only. That's not the same as sex in a relationship between 2 people that love each other.
Especially women tend to look for more than just that. They want the whole enchilada not just sex.
So it doesn't mean that they reject sex and intimacy, they just want is with someone they love and loves them in turn.

You know sometimes even if is just sex is start to communicate,to know each other I mean is start to be a bound,to be a real relationship,but I'm just saying something is depend, anyway thanks for responding :innocent:

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 11/09/21 04:22 AM

I agree it's just a polite way of saying I want a .....lol


laugh From a male perspective the "lol" may be intimate, however it doesn't feel polite

fhill123's photo
Thu 12/02/21 04:27 PM
all the woman in here are just blowing smoke as I say....either they just Tease you ...or they want money

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Thu 12/02/21 07:14 PM
Some guys in a gym.............................always

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Thu 12/02/21 09:44 PM

Some guys in a gym.............................always


Don't act like it doesn't make you swoon. I was doing curls earlier and i can barely lift my arms because i did so many... Don't act like you're not impressed.