some claim that difference is 11% but really it makes no difference ..gender is an imprecise indication of what type of brain potential a person will have

perfect answer moto

That IS perfect Moto. I was thinking "right dear" but forgot about the presumptuous notion of validating.

OH I saw a gross thing about tests they were doing on those bowls of nuts on bar tops and I can't remember the exact number of different urine samples they found in there but I gagged, hahaha LOL! so disgusting.

ewwww .. glad I have never eaten bar nuts and now I never will

I agree totally.

Just think, that since most of the brain matter is cholesterol, you could refer to a dopey male as a "fat head"

There aren't that many that are actually really good in bed.

it takes two to tango successfully

I'd have to agree with this. Same with kissing.
But in bed... most men don't even really know how to please their woman, or any woman. They just do whatever worked with the last one they were with.
So if your predecessor liked to have her nipples bitten, the man will bite your nipples too.
It won't cross his mind to find out what you like & want.
Especially knowing how to treat the core of a woman's pleasure -the most sensitive spot between their legs- seems to be totally beyond most men's wheelhouse.

And yes it takes two to tango, but if one has little affinity with dancing, moving etc. it's going to be an awkward dance for sure.

Intimacy is a shared experience that involves communication . If she chooses to lie there like a starfish , or fails to express or show him what she likes or doesn’t like .. is it really fair to label the man as not good in bed . Seems selfish .

Brutal response, along the vein of accusing woman for not producing a male heir and putting her to death for it.

A man not being all that good in bed is not a woman's fault, nor does that automatically mean she just lies there like a starfish.

And since it is a shared experience... where is the part that he takes responsibility? With a new partner a man could & should be careful, explore, and pay attention to reactions, if need be ask.
It's not all a woman's responsibility, nor should it be.

At least we should agree on that since you say it's a shared experience. As far as I know shared means "both", not "just the woman".

My personal experience of men is that I have never had a lover that I would label as not good in bed

Shared intimacy means exactly that … both are responsible for the experience !!!!

how can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat


after you shine the "baubles" you may expect your gift

Shining baubles sounds like a lot of hard work .. luckily I have a secret pudding stash

Neither Pink Floyd OR Don Ho ever come to mind for seductive mood music????

Men are pathological liars who cheat! Over and over! Now, I just want fwb

....Resent divorce statistics prove that women cheat more then men, and that women who have said that men cheat more, have cheated on their partners more than once. Just facts.

Oh, look!
Shiny!


Wait! What?

Many men want a female Best friend.

Many marriages the wife is not a good friend.