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Topic: Are black men really better in bed?
Elizabeth's photo
Thu 09/09/21 06:47 AM
Recently separated and have always been curious about what it would be like to be with a black man. Just out of curiosity to other women and hear their thoughts.

Dramatic Muffin's photo
Thu 09/09/21 06:59 AM
I think that, like with men of any color, there are good lovers and bad lovers. That's kind of a lot of pressure to put on black men! I also think that the connection you have with the person will likely factor into your sexual enjoyment.

Hali's photo
Thu 09/09/21 07:13 AM
Every man perform very well in bed not only black man

Elizabeth's photo
Thu 09/09/21 07:35 AM
Thank you for the advice Bonnie!

Slim gym 's photo
Thu 09/09/21 01:13 PM
I think the whole point of the post and the replies were off ... by inches !!!

Coldersky's photo
Thu 09/09/21 02:45 PM
I think the whole point of the post and the replies were off ... by inches !!!

I don't kiss and tell it not whatcha have BABY it whatcha you do with whatcha got TRUST me,,, Coldersky minus the halo,:gift::nerd::grin:

no photo
Thu 09/09/21 03:36 PM
I think that, like with men of any color, there are good lovers and bad lovers. That's kind of a lot of pressure to put on black men! I also think that the connection you have with the person will likely factor into your sexual enjoyment.

very well said. Don't overdo any guy or he might surprise you.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 09/09/21 03:56 PM

I think the whole point of the post and the replies were off ... by inches !!!

That's what me was thinking as well.
But sex with a black man... if they indeed tend to have more inches I don't see how sex can be any good.
Most men -whether black or white- with more than average size penis have trouble finding a sex or love partner.
I once read interviews about the problem and a couple said they always had to be oh-so very careful as it was close to painful for her. Both weren't chuffed about it really, and yes, both, the man wasn't either. Never able to have sex in a normal fashion with the woman he loved.
Same was true for the other couples that were interviewed.

If that's the thing you fancy...
And I do think for most the thrill is in that, experiencing what it's like.

In any case... no 'live' experience here. Have had the interest and offers but the aforementioned extra inches keep me from going there.

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Thu 09/09/21 04:52 PM
That's what me was thinking as well.
But sex with a black man... if they indeed tend to have more inches I don't see how sex can be any good.
Most men -whether black or white- with more than average size penis have trouble finding a sex or love partner.
I once read interviews about the problem and a couple said they always had to be oh-so very careful as it was close to painful for her. Both weren't chuffed about it really, and yes, both, the man wasn't either. Never able to have sex in a normal fashion with the woman he loved.
Same was true for the other couples that were interviewed.

If that's the thing you fancy...
And I do think for most the thrill is in that, experiencing what it's like.

In any case... no 'live' experience here. Have had the interest and offers but the aforementioned extra inches keep me from going there.

that was scary for all who accidentally got few extra bit of it....

Coldersky's photo
Sat 09/11/21 09:11 AM
Recently separated and have always been curious about what it would be like to be with a black man. Just out of curiosity to other women and hear their thoughts.

HEY everyone this woman said shes Curious she has herd the stories, I wonder what it would be like to be married to 🤴:princess: I'm curious as well, jmo Coldersky minus the halo

Prakash 's photo
Sat 09/11/21 09:28 AM

Recently separated and have always been curious about what it would be like to be with a black man. Just out of curiosity to other women and hear their thoughts.
Hope you are safe and good, not so. It's not black or white. Sex with love makes you feel everything.

cleve's photo
Sat 09/11/21 12:55 PM

I think that, like with men of any color, there are good lovers and bad lovers. That's kind of a lot of pressure to put on black men! I also think that the connection you have with the person will likely factor into your sexual enjoyment.






for the best possible sex your head and heart must work together

with the other parts, for women especially.....

Mathew's photo
Sat 09/11/21 03:34 PM
I think sex has to do with the mind set, when both are emotionally attached to one another sex becomes interesting. ill conclude by saying sex has nothing to do with color

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 09/11/21 04:10 PM

I think sex has to do with the mind set, when both are emotionally attached to one another sex becomes interesting. ill conclude by saying sex has nothing to do with color

Can be, and not sure I am in agreement with your conclusion. I mean, why do coloured men want to have sex with a white woman? White women slave trade goes back hundreds of years!
Why do almost all white men fancy Asian women??

And there is a difference between races. There's what we know of black men, which makes it logical that somehow black women can accommodate that where (most) Caucasian women can't.
Then there's having seen loads of Javanese men naked when they go to the river to bath around 4. I can tell you they are VERY well endowed! Which is quite something as these people are shorter than Caucasians, and yet...

Like men have their fantasies, so do women. And I think many would like to experience what it's like with a -let's say- well-endowed black man.

maybwecan's photo
Sat 09/11/21 05:15 PM
Edited by maybwecan on Sat 09/11/21 05:18 PM

Recently separated and have always been curious about what it would be like to be with a black man. Just out of curiosity to other women and hear their thoughts.


(triple) sigh!!...Whatever stereotypes you have heard, please wrap them up in newspaper or whatever is handy and TOSS in the nearest dumpster...or if an incinerator is handy, torch it!

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Sat 09/11/21 05:22 PM

Recently separated and have always been curious about what it would be like to be with a black man. Just out of curiosity to other women and hear their thoughts.
it is a generalised fallacy!!!

All men are individuals and as such so is their sexual performance .. colour of skin has little to do with that . A well endowed man is not necessarily a better lover .

Keep in mind .. curiosity killed the cat laugh laugh laugh

For most ,being newly separated is a traumatic transition .. look after yourself and give yourself time to know what it is you really want .waving

Dream's photo
Sat 09/11/21 05:24 PM
i will never know...never been with a white man.

Brian's photo
Sun 09/12/21 12:16 PM
As a black man, I'd say a lot of that stereotype has to do with the media reinforcing the notion that black men are better in bed. Size isn't the only factor that comes into play when it comes to love making though, and not all black men are packing. For those that are insecure about size, focus on things you can help make your partner feel good at, like finding their sweet spots via foreplay.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/15/21 07:48 AM

As a black man, I'd say a lot of that stereotype has to do with the media reinforcing the notion that black men are better in bed. Size isn't the only factor that comes into play when it comes to love making though, and not all black men are packing. For those that are insecure about size, focus on things you can help make your partner feel good at, like finding their sweet spots via foreplay.


Best answer~~

Anyone that thinks Color has a factor, if they are better at anything really needs to get out and meet people...

I've never understood why a persons color should be the factor on who they are or what they are good at..

They either put their heart and soul into what they do or they don't.. this goes for anything they choose to do whether it be sex or daily routines..

Believe me there are plenty of men of all colors that are packing.

But if they don't know how to use what they have, all that packing will not help them..jmo

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Tue 09/21/21 01:02 PM
Great answer! It takes a great lover to appreciate a great lover.

I think that, like with men of any color, there are good lovers and bad lovers. That's kind of a lot of pressure to put on black men! I also think that the connection you have with the person will likely factor into your sexual enjoyment.

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