Well my dear, like I said everyone has their opinion, white, black, Asians and Indians can be found in any part of the world, not only in the western world, am sorry if you feel that this kind of Opinion is only prevalent in a particular part of the world, maybe you should have a reconsideration on that. I personally would want to marry a White lady because I have a deep passion for Interracial Offsprings..try not to judge my decision or love for something just because I come from a particular "country" like you said.. not everyone should be bad..thank you..

I don't expect anything.

What gets me is the fact the subject comes up at all?
I've dated enough 'new' women and in my younger days, girls, and never once has dating experience ever been a subject for discussion.

Eventually, after we actually have a relationship, we talk about our romantic history a lil but never in an assessment, judgemental way.

Perhaps, and no I am not being prejudicial, it might be a cultural protection nuance? Perhaps the ones you talk with have been burned too many times in the past? If this is the actual reason, it means you must try that much harder to break the stereotype. Again, I'm not saying this is the case, just food for thought...

You seem like a nice person, worthy of knowing. You obviously have an education and can control yourself. Someone who has personal issues from the past may not be able to see the good you. Their sight is clouded with nightmares of others.

Your best course of action would be to cut the losses and move on to the next potential candidate. Using online dating sites are hit or miss most of the time. Sometimes even the possible positive results can turn out bad. I used multiple dating sites and screened hundreds of women, even dated a few, before my gf and I found each other here. Even that took almost two years.

There are a lot of no responses, a lot of near misses and some actual letdowns. Ya just gotta keep looking and trying if you really want to find someone. You also must search in the real world just as diligently.
Sometimes you need to adjust your preferences a lil.
Sometimes you gotta adjust your attitude a lil.
Sometimes you gotta look where you haven't considered looking.
Most of all, you gotta be patient and stay focused on the task at hand, despite those that try to tear you down.

Perhaps the response to queries about your dating experience should be met with a deferral. Just tell them "that's a discussion for another time, after you get to know me better". This way you are not lying and when you do talk about it and she already knows you as the man you are.

Try to remember:
If you make poor choices in life you get poor results from life.
If you make wise choices in life you get rich results from life.
Always - Choose Wisely

I have to ask, are you certain that's why the relationship didn't work out? Did she actually tell you that?

I tell them I have no experience with relationships

I think a partner's experience matters more when you're older and less when you're younger. For me, it factors into compatibility. I'm 50 years old. I think if I dated someone who has never been married/had no experience raising children, we wouldn't match up well. We'd be in two different places in our lives. Furthermore, we learn from our past relationships. We learn how to compromise with someone, we learn what we are willing to tolerate, we learn patience, we learn how to love someone in the way they need to be loved, rather than in the way we think they need to be loved. We make a skadillion mistakes with a partner and we grow from them. We gain wisdom from past relationships. I'd prefer that a partner had that similar wisdom. That's not to say that mismatched experience levels could never work, but for me, it would probably come into play.

Brian, you seem like a really cool guy. I think you would bring a lot to a relationship. There are a lot of ladies who are looking for what you have to offer. You'll find the right one.

Your OP makes me think you are trying to date the wrong people or are 'dating' for the sole purpose of 'dating'.
There are people who do that...

If you are looking for someone to start a loving, meaningful relationship these things which you feel are a great concern won't be an issue, maybe not even in their head.

How you conduct yourself when you are with them and how you are with them is going to be much more important to building the relationship than a resume.
M2's Dating and Relationships forums constantly focuses on how to build a healthy relationship with someone. Very few threads even mention experience let alone focus on it.
Mostly its about how you make them feel when they are with you.
You don't need experience to be honest and sincere with someone.
You do need good moral fiber and emotional control.
Things which life teaches you normally.

In work, experience teaches you routine. You learn how to do things depending on the task at hand.

In relationships, everyone you meet is unique. You can't gain 'experience' to date a specific person. This is because what works with one may not work for all. You have to be adaptive and flexible.

I'm 60 years old.
I don't do 'dates' as most people classify them.
Mainly we go do something together. No pressure, naturally.
I act according to how I feel while also considering the fact the other is a unique individual who may or may not feel as I do. I adapt to the focus at hand.
I treat them with dignity and respect. I speak and act with honesty. I show interest when I am interested. If not, I respectfully bow out.
I act naturally according to my own nature. This allows their beauty to shine thru to my eyes. I try to see the person they really are without placing my expectations of who I want them to be in the way.

Seems to me, you are choosing the wrong people to date.
That is unless you want to date a shallow, self-centered person.

It has also been noted in this forum that this seems a favorite topic of many men from Africa on this dating site...have yet to see the same questions regarding Asians or Indians or Eastern Europeans...why is that?...why this focus on white women?...

I have known women of different skin color (including African and American Black) and various ethnicities whose preference does not include Black men...I don't view a persons preference regarding who they choose to date as a negative if it does not include me...nor do I consider their preferences something they have to explain or justify..."some do and some don't" is an adequate summary