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Topic: Dating ... One Or Multiple ..?.
Laska Paul 's photo
Thu 05/06/21 05:26 AM
Do You prefer to date just one person and see where it goes or dating multiple people until you decide ??????

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Thu 05/06/21 05:55 AM
I've been on x amount of dates lol over the last couple of years.

none that i wanted to see again. more than one, not ever again :smile:

in reality you can meet quite a few and not feel anything much.

people are rarely what you think. personally if I met someone that gelled then i wouldn't consider meeting another.

Meet loads, I reckon. just give all your attention to the one that you date more than once.

ive never met two at the same time. They've always been at least a day apart.:smile:

SparklingCrystal đź’–đź’Ž's photo
Thu 05/06/21 06:14 AM
I don't date more than one although it is a good thought. There are dating coaching that recommend it for women as women tend to attach and get committed too soon. But then this is recommended by US coaches and although I do agree up to a point with it, Dutch people aren't like Americans, meaning Dutch men aren't either.

However, I don't and can't date more than one for the reasons these coaches give. I invest when I date someone for an extended period of time. And I have indeed paid a steep price when it turned out that I was invested and committed, but the man wasn't. So there is a good reason for what is called circular dating. I find it difficult to do though.

Slim gym 's photo
Thu 05/06/21 06:50 AM
Definitely one at a time for me..... too expensive to date two at a time......

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Thu 05/06/21 08:07 AM
Do You prefer to date just one person and see where it goes or dating multiple people until you decide ??????

I prefer "dating" one person at a time.

If there are options for "dating" multiple people then there is the option to just have sex with people without dating.

Other than that, I don't play the "see where it goes" game.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 05/06/21 08:21 AM
One at a time.

maybwecan's photo
Thu 05/06/21 10:14 AM
Edited by maybwecan on Thu 05/06/21 10:35 AM

Do You prefer to date just one person and see where it goes or dating multiple people until you decide ??????


(from google search) Definition of dating: “Dating” means you're going on dates. You are actively getting out there and meeting people and spending time with them. “Dating someone” means you're seeing somebody specific, with purpose and on a regular basis. ... You're spending time with a person (or persons) in hopes of finding a committed relationship

I sense you are referring to the latter (dating someone). If I were seeking to ride the "happily-ever-after train or the marry-go-round", one at a time would be my choice; however, if not (and I am just dating) then as many as I can handle would be the option du jour.

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 05/07/21 01:58 AM

Do You prefer to date just one person and see where it goes or dating multiple people until you decide ??????


It doesn't take me long to decide if I'm interested in dating someone, if I am, it's monogamous until it goes one way or the other, and I would expect the same without saying from the person I am dating.

I wonder why people want to date more than one person at the same time, would there ever be a future monogamous relationship with them, or is it something they will always want to do. No. It's not for me. I would not be interested in multiple dating.


Mike6615's photo
Fri 05/07/21 08:14 AM
I'd think that it means you might have to juggle two or more sexual relationships at the same time, and there might be certain risks.

Laska Paul 's photo
Fri 05/07/21 08:26 AM


Do You prefer to date just one person and see where it goes or dating multiple people until you decide ??????


It doesn't take me long to decide if I'm interested in dating someone, if I am, it's monogamous until it goes one way or the other, and I would expect the same without saying from the person I am dating.

I wonder why people want to date more than one person at the same time, would there ever be a future monogamous relationship with them, or is it something they will always want to do. No. It's not for me. I would not be interested in multiple dating.




Today, People are become smarter in dating They wait with Patience until the Required qualities are 100 % fulfilled .

Duttoneer's photo
Sat 05/08/21 12:55 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Sat 05/08/21 01:07 AM



Do You prefer to date just one person and see where it goes or dating multiple people until you decide ??????


It doesn't take me long to decide if I'm interested in dating someone, if I am, it's monogamous until it goes one way or the other, and I would expect the same without saying from the person I am dating.

I wonder why people want to date more than one person at the same time, would there ever be a future monogamous relationship with them, or is it something they will always want to do. No. It's not for me. I would not be interested in multiple dating.




Today, People are become smarter in dating They wait with Patience until the Required qualities are 100 % fulfilled .


Yes, and some are so smart they forget to mention it, and it can become a play on words when they are found out, and you hear "we didn't say we would not date others", not everyone is open and honest.

Sadly, there are those that play people along always dating others and finding someone else to play with, and with those qualities that type usually end up in the divorce courts.

Seems to me anyone that wants to date several people at the same time show a clear lack of patience in my opinion, because they have not got the time and patience to find out how a single monogamous relationship develops.

Laska Paul 's photo
Sat 05/08/21 02:19 AM


You Know , YOU KNOW , You Know ???
When a Right Person Comes into Your Life You Wont Feel bored with Communication.
You wont Feel Bored with Attention You will just know the Value of Time, Feeling and Affection .
Thats why People nowadays Opt for Multiple Dating !

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 05/14/21 04:00 PM
Dating to me doesn't always involve Sex.

I can date more than one man just to see if I can trust him for any real relationship.

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Fri 05/14/21 04:26 PM
I prefer to give my full attention to one man at a time .. it can quickly become complicated juggling more than one .

Mike6615's photo
Fri 05/14/21 04:30 PM

I prefer to give my full attention to one man at a time .. it can quickly become complicated juggling more than one .


I thought of your post literally...a woman actually juggling various men, tossing one up as they comes down in rotation, like juggling tennis balls!

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Fri 05/14/21 04:34 PM


I prefer to give my full attention to one man at a time .. it can quickly become complicated juggling more than one .


I thought of your post literally...a woman actually juggling various men, tossing one up as they comes down in rotation, like juggling tennis balls!
making me laugh .. my juggling coordination needs some work .. likely they would fall in a jumbled heap waving

Riverspirit1111's photo
Fri 05/14/21 05:40 PM
One at a time

Jerimiah's photo
Sun 05/16/21 03:51 AM
I can't do the whole dating multiple people that we know just to see you which one I decide for I ain't no damn bachelor going to say no TV show give me that's wrong you give yourself to somebody they do to you in return how else are you going to get to know each other if you try to separate yourself and divided up between no three or four or five different women that's an impossibility never I mean at the very least you're falling short for all those all those for five women because you're not you the whole you and you'll never get to learn her so you feel anyway just a matter of time so I'll stick with one

Rock's photo
Sat 05/22/21 03:01 AM
Whilst wading through the PMS jungle,
I prefer keep it one on one.

BellĂ  's photo
Sat 05/22/21 09:22 AM
dating and getting to know someone is different from my point. getting you out of 3 is okay because am trying to pick one that I can date and possibly see future with. dating more than one brings confusion and makes one pretend. so dating just one is enough.

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